questrader
May 19th, 2008, 10:59 PM
I guess I really need help, otherwise I wouldn't be posting this thread.
Okay, so far, I've encountered four types of women:
(1) The kind who looks at you and smiles to give you the green-light to go ahead and initiate a conversation/relationship. I've had a new classmate smile at me out of the blues a few weeks into class b/c she admired my academia talents. I've also had another karate babe look at me and smile b/c she admired the way I look. One time, when she was ovulating, she let her hair down and gave me this really creepy stare, almost as if saying, "I want you inside me now..."
(2) The kind, who b/c you made a random, but flirty compliment, suddenly flirts back with her boobs/body, makes an attempt to remember your name, and tries to cling onto you. But b/c of the way she attempts to cling onto you, signals that she is a gal with low self-esteem, or one of those with "dependent personality" (psychology).
(3) The kind, whom initially you're lab partners/group partners, or platonic friends. Then, one day, you "wait" for her out of an act of random kindness (ie. wait for her to finish copying your answers outside of class, even though class has just started). You then "accidentally" sit next to her in class one time, and all of a sudden, she begins to dress/smell much nicer.
(4) The kind of girl, out of maybe 100, who somehow catches your attention, b/c of the way she dresses and carries herself. Not only that, she has something that you admire, like a love for keeping fit. She reminds you of a woman raised up in a high class environment. But this type of girl is very cold, has absolutely no experience with boys, and is unapproachable. All of a sudden you feel the urge to "chase" her for attention, but she turns you down constantly. Ultimately, you fail to grab this kind of girl's attention, and she disappears from your life for good. But, you've learnt enough from chasing after her, so that you are somewhat confident that you'll be able to get the next woman, who gives off similar vibes and feelings.
Having listed these four types of girls that I've encountered so far, I've only ever felt strong attraction towards the girl from case #(4). But, they all seem like good women, nonetheless. But with the girl from case #(3), I know that she's after a long-term relationship, but I've only ever felt a slight sexual attract towards her, like I just wanted to use her for sex, and nothing more.
I'm so confused at this point, and don't want to end up marrying the wrong type of girl that I might regret later on. So, help me people with experienc. Which type of girl #(1)-#(4) do you think might be the right girl for you, if you were me?
Okay, so far, I've encountered four types of women:
(1) The kind who looks at you and smiles to give you the green-light to go ahead and initiate a conversation/relationship. I've had a new classmate smile at me out of the blues a few weeks into class b/c she admired my academia talents. I've also had another karate babe look at me and smile b/c she admired the way I look. One time, when she was ovulating, she let her hair down and gave me this really creepy stare, almost as if saying, "I want you inside me now..."
(2) The kind, who b/c you made a random, but flirty compliment, suddenly flirts back with her boobs/body, makes an attempt to remember your name, and tries to cling onto you. But b/c of the way she attempts to cling onto you, signals that she is a gal with low self-esteem, or one of those with "dependent personality" (psychology).
(3) The kind, whom initially you're lab partners/group partners, or platonic friends. Then, one day, you "wait" for her out of an act of random kindness (ie. wait for her to finish copying your answers outside of class, even though class has just started). You then "accidentally" sit next to her in class one time, and all of a sudden, she begins to dress/smell much nicer.
(4) The kind of girl, out of maybe 100, who somehow catches your attention, b/c of the way she dresses and carries herself. Not only that, she has something that you admire, like a love for keeping fit. She reminds you of a woman raised up in a high class environment. But this type of girl is very cold, has absolutely no experience with boys, and is unapproachable. All of a sudden you feel the urge to "chase" her for attention, but she turns you down constantly. Ultimately, you fail to grab this kind of girl's attention, and she disappears from your life for good. But, you've learnt enough from chasing after her, so that you are somewhat confident that you'll be able to get the next woman, who gives off similar vibes and feelings.
Having listed these four types of girls that I've encountered so far, I've only ever felt strong attraction towards the girl from case #(4). But, they all seem like good women, nonetheless. But with the girl from case #(3), I know that she's after a long-term relationship, but I've only ever felt a slight sexual attract towards her, like I just wanted to use her for sex, and nothing more.
I'm so confused at this point, and don't want to end up marrying the wrong type of girl that I might regret later on. So, help me people with experienc. Which type of girl #(1)-#(4) do you think might be the right girl for you, if you were me?