Single person and I am happy about it ... are you

[fifty_cent]

I am a single person and i am Happy being Single.

Is anyone here Single and happy?

[board123]

I like the freedom.

[ullyeus]

I'm in a relationship and happy.

[molala]

did u had bad relationships that makes you think that being single is awesome? i mean, i am single, i am not desperate for a relationship but i don't mind it

[gamovafan]

I'm 50/50. I guess the part I hate the most about being single is when people constantly bug you on you being single. "Do you have a girlfriend yet?" "Howcome you're still single?" "I know this girl..." "Why aren't you married yet?" "It's time to get a girlfriend."

[board123]

I'm 50/50. I guess the part I hate the most about being single is when people constantly bug you on you being single. "Do you have a girlfriend yet?" "Howcome you're still single?" "I know this girl..." "Why aren't you married yet?" "It's time to get a girlfriend."
Especially if you're Asian. On several occasions, my parents said some young guys they know might be gay or have issues because they're still single in their mid-20s.

[skyblue12]

i've been in relationships where i wanted to be free and single.. but when i am single there just always seems to be something missing.

right now i've been in a relationship for almost 3 years and pretty happy with how things are going.

[Alvito]

single. some days suck, some are better, who gives a crap.

[kuqdew]

s+h

[Hairball]

I broke up with my gf a few months ago, I'm enjoying the freedom, it's not so bad, I hated making calls every day and such, just added stress.

However, sometimes it's nice to have someone to be with when you're bored and alone, but that's about all...

[Blunt]

HHmmmm.... Alvito and Kuqdew are single..
Who would of guessed? :rolleyes:


:lol:

[Mr D J]

50/50

It varies day by day. I'm single because I'm too damn picky... sometimes I hate myself for it.

I broke up with my gf a few months ago, I'm enjoying the freedom, it's not so bad, I hated making calls every day and such, just added stress.

However, sometimes it's nice to have someone to be with when you're bored and alone, but that's about all...

Oh yeah... phone calls every day and a jacked up cell phone bill. Gotta love not having to go through that!

[Bskll]

/ get a blog please.

[ShadowVlican]

lonely :lol:

[najibs]

HHmmmm.... Alvito and Kuqdew are single..
Who would of guessed? :rolleyes:


:lol:

No way dude!!!

50/50

It varies day by day. I'm single because I'm too damn picky... sometimes I hate myself for it.



That's usually another way of saying "I just can't get a girl"

[najibs]

I'm usually single on weekends, and on MSN :twisted:

[icecold2021]

if you are happy because of being single then you have may some kind of issue.

[Aznsilvrboy]

I'm happy, but there is this girl who i'd like to be in a relationship with.

[najibs]

I'm happy, but there is this girl who i'd like to be in a relationship with.

So until that happens, then you won't truly be happy, eh? :twisted:

[the_fm]

I'm 50/50. I guess the part I hate the most about being single is when people constantly bug you on you being single. "Do you have a girlfriend yet?" "Howcome you're still single?" "I know this girl..." "Why aren't you married yet?" "It's time to get a girlfriend."


yeah, especially from your girl friends. always asking "why are you single? you have everything a girl could ever wants and bla bla bla" ... and yet, they wouldn't go out with you though :|

[jeeva86]

yeah, especially from your girl friends. always asking "why are you single? you have everything a girl could ever wants and bla bla bla" ... and yet, they wouldn't go out with you though :|

that's just to make you feel good:razz:

[najibs]

I'm single because I'm too damn picky

That's usually translation for "I just can't get a chick"

[trixstar]

s+h

shipping and handling?

[najibs]

shipping and handling?

maybe he's talking about his 'fleshlight' :twisted:

[Mr D J]

That's usually another way of saying "I just can't get a girl"

Not really, I rejected 2 recently... Feel free to call me a liar though because I can't prove anything (why would I prove something to anyone on "the internets" :lol:). When I have my mind set on a certain girl, all the others are out of the way. I'm sure I'm not the only one...

EDIT Oh yeah, I have my reasons for rejecting them though...

But hey, it's a 'relatively free' forum so feel free to think whatever you want.

that's just to make you feel good:razz:

Yeah? But what if it gets to a point where a certain 'girl friend' (not girlfriend) asks you when and how you lost your virginity? Yeah... my reaction is best described by the "wtf" face :lol:

[heat]

single and happy!

[AzN_RiverdaleCI]

I am in a relationship and happy because I don't think there are any limitations. Or I haven't gotten to any barriers/problems yet. Communication and negotiation is key.

[calcuu]

50/50
I like the freedom and all but some days...I just feel the need to have that special person. I'm not that much in a rush since I'm still in high school and still, I doubt I will ever find the one for me in high school. High school dating to me is an experiment girlfriend.

[burnt_toast]

single on internet forums :cheesygri :D

[molala]

Not really, I rejected 2 recently... Feel free to call me a liar though because I can't prove anything (why would I prove something to anyone on "the internets" :lol:). When I have my mind set on a certain girl, all the others are out of the way. I'm sure I'm not the only one...

EDIT Oh yeah, I have my reasons for rejecting them though...

But hey, it's a 'relatively free' forum so feel free to think whatever you want.



Yeah? But what if it gets to a point where a certain 'girl friend' (not girlfriend) asks you when and how you lost your virginity? Yeah... my reaction is best described by the "wtf" face :lol:


what's happening to that one girl you like?

[calcuu]

maybe he's talking about his 'fleshlight' :twisted:
hahah he must be or could be that blowup doll that he always wanted ;)

[aw3s0me]

settled nicely in a 2.5 year relationship, couldn't be happier.

[iam_immigrant]

if you are happy because of being single then you have may some kind of issue.

I don't see how there's any sort of issue. Personally single and I couldn't be happier with the freedom I have now.

But sometimes I wish I did have a G/F cuz hookers can get expensive.:D

[molala]

I don't see how there's any sort of issue. Personally single and I couldn't be happier with the freedom I have now.

But sometimes I wish I did have a G/F cuz hookers can get expensive.:D

if you want to save some money, DIY!!! coz girlfriends can be expensive too!

[Goonish]

In a relationship but I like my freedom.

[VorteC]

I am single and I WOULD be happy if I wasn't interested in some girl.

[najibs]

hahah he must be or could be that blowup doll that he always wanted ;)

:twisted:

[aquariaguy]

Not really, I rejected 2 recently... Feel free to call me a liar though because I can't prove anything (why would I prove something to anyone on "the internets" :lol:).


That's why you're boasting on the internet...:?:

[EH100501AC]

I'm half and half on this one. Some days I feel like I do need someone but others I'll feel like it's a good thing that I'm single. It all depends on how I feel that day I suppose.

[Mr D J]

what's happening to that one girl you like?

In a relationship >:(

That's why you're boasting on the internet...:?:

I'm not boasting... I'm defending myself. Sorry if it looks as if I am.

[rogeryen]

had 2 relationships in past 2 years, I don't regret them, but just had to take some time being single.....right now 50/50, but sooner or later I'll be desperate for another relationship.

[ji2o0k]

I am a single person and i am Happy being Single.

Is anyone here Single and happy?
come on, don't lie.

You aren't single, you have the twins Palmelina and Palmela Handerson to keep you company......

[Menace]

Wet dream every night :D :cheesygri

You aren't single, you have the twins Palmelina and Palmela Handerson to keep you company......

[yao416]

Not so happy, I need a person badly1!11!11111111!111 :twisted: :twisted:

[Engi-Nir]

lol...i thought the topic was "single" as in not married...

I am happy cause i am NOT married/ no kids....otherwise too many responsibilities, ahhhhh..live freeeeeeee

[kuqdew]

I'm defending myself

Arguing on the internet is like running in the ________ Olympics. Even if you win, you're still __________. (Especially when arguing with Najibs)

;)

I would post the pic but it would get deleted.

[najibs]

Not so happy, I need a person badly1!11!11111111!111 :twisted: :twisted:

If you need someone badly, I'm sure you can find some company around the Church & Wellesley area.

[yao416]

If you need someone badly, I'm sure you can find some company around the Church & Wellesley area.

may I has the address Najibs?

[najibs]

may I has the address Najibs?

No need. Just stand on the corner of the Church & Wellesley intersection in tight pants. Company will soon come to you. I know you may not be used to the attention, but hey, just close your eyes and think of a happy place.

[kuqdew]

Not so happy, I need a person badly1!11!11111111!111 :twisted: :twisted:

Male or female?

[vaderschariot]

try moving out being single.......even with decent job it sucks

[Feneant]

Single and some days suck, some days suck more. >:(

For me the hard part is how lonely it is being single in your mid-late 20s. Prior to this relationship, most of my friends were single so we had awesome times, driving to Halifax to gamble, playing 4 player Xbox games, shooting pool and whatever... then eventually most of us got girlfriends and lost touch. After my breakup, I am the only single one where the others are all married or in committed relationships so I am spending every night alone which sucks massively.

oh, and like the poster above me said, being single with a house is extremely annoying!

[board123]

try moving out being single.......even with decent job it sucks
I've lived by myself and it really isn't all that bad.

[UrbanPoet]

i find that whenever im single, i want to be taken. And whenever im taken i want to be single.
you always want what you cant have O_O
I also find that sometimes i get into relationships where i cant avoid being single, it just progresses to that point O_O

[Psylocke]

For me the hard part is how lonely it is being single in your mid-late 20s.

So true! A lot of my friends are either married now, in a serious relationship or have kids. And adding fuel to the fire is my mother "casually" dropping the question, "When are you going to get married and give me grandkids?" every now and then. :mad:

To give her the benefit of the doubt, my biological clock is ticking... :-0

[superock]

im 50/50

human nature demands it that we find someone to care for and that will care for us, its from the concept of survival and replication that has been embedded into our subconscious through evolution

for myself, happiness would be having a combination of health, wealth and love

at the moment im still young so i wont be needing that ONE person to love since i do have a lot of friends whom i am happy to be with,

however, having that significant other does create feelings, sensations and emotions you dont usually experience anywhere else and those are always nice to have

oh and having that significant other does translate to more "sexy time" :lol:

[Sharp]

single on internet forums :cheesygri :D

:lol: :lol: :lol: :lol:

[Mr D J]

Arguing on the internet is like running in the ________ Olympics. Even if you win, you're still __________. (Especially when arguing with Najibs)

;)

I would post the pic but it would get deleted.

Yeah, I know the one you're talking about :lol:. Quite frankly, I couldn't agree more :lol:.

[grant]

My biological clock is ticking, time for me to get married!! Although I'm like Mr DJ, i'm turning down the truly awful women whom I know it wouldn't work with.

[Nikita]

if you are happy because of being single then you have may some kind of issue.

If you're with somebody because you can't stand to be alone, YOU have some kind of issues. And if that's the reason with your with someone, it won't last.

[najibs]

If you're with somebody because you can't stand to be alone, YOU have some kind of issues. And if that's the reason with your with someone, it won't last.

I think women are guiltier of this than men are.

[Nikita]

I digree Najibs. Most men, even in this day and age, are used to be taken care of in the home by first mom, then g/f, wife, w/e. I think men have a harder time being alone. At least that's what I see happening most.

[najibs]

I digree Najibs. Most men, even in this day and age, are used to be taken care of in the home by first mom, then g/f, wife, w/e. I think men have a harder time being alone. At least that's what I see happening most.

I disagree. Compare the number of women who are in abusive and unhappy relationships to the number of men. Men just walk away, whereas women don't because they're afraid to be alone.

[AzN_RiverdaleCI]

I disagree. Compare the number of women who are in abusive and unhappy relationships to the number of men. Men just walk away, whereas women don't because they're afraid to be alone.

+1, 2v1 = win. end discussion.

[Lone_Prodigy]

HHmmmm.... Alvito and Kuqdew are single..
Who would of guessed? :rolleyes:

:lol:

I wonder if MJM is too... ;)

I don't see how there's any sort of issue. Personally single and I couldn't be happier with the freedom I have now.

But sometimes I wish I did have a G/F cuz hookers can get expensive.:D

Friends with benefits?

[Engi-Nir]

I don't see how there's any sort of issue. Personally single and I couldn't be happier with the freedom I have now.

But sometimes I wish I did have a G/F cuz hookers can get expensive.:D

lol....

well, like uncle charlie says on 2 &1/2 men (the show), quote went something like this:

"If you have someone to clean your house, have action on the side, there is no real reason to get married, unless you have a sick fascination to give half you money away"

[Mulder and Scully]

If you're with somebody because you can't stand to be alone, YOU have some kind of issues. And if that's the reason with your with someone, it won't last.

I agree with najibs on this that women do this more often than men, but men are definitely catching up. I don't think it's a difference of genders, just that a lot of people don't want to be single for too long.

However, the stereotype that men can just walk away isn't true and we all can see some of this in our own friends' emotional states after a breakup whether the guy initiated it or not. Emotions are the same for both men and women, only that our cultural norms don't really allow men to publicly show theirs.

[mrlooneytoon]

Hate being in relationships! Single and happy because of friends with benefits! :twisted:

[1jVu]

hmm..
when im with a girl right now and whenever im with her and i see a hot girl i think to myself "fuk im with my girl" but when i see a girl that doesnt bother looking at me i say "pfft i dont need u i got a better one"
hahahahha

[drucillica]

I think women are guiltier of this than men are.

You never know these days, especially judging by the number of emo relationship threads here started by dudes.

[manixc]

You never know these days, especially judging by the number of emo relationship threads here started by dudes.

:lol:
however, 98% of off topic is dudes

[Mulder and Scully]

You never know these days, especially judging by the number of emo relationship threads here started by dudes.

I had the same thing written in my original post, but changed it so not to make it so explicit.

[CSAgent]

I disagree. Compare the number of women who are in abusive and unhappy relationships to the number of men. Men just walk away, whereas women don't because they're afraid to be alone.

Right on bud, that's what I been saying since high school!

I've walked away from like 3-4 potential long terms in the last year or so after 1 month cuz if I find something about them that's gonna cause trouble in the future, no thanks - not that emo baggage crap again. I went through a year and a half of hell cuz of my ex was like that. A couple tried to stay "close" but I was like, eh no thanks, we can stay on the fence but not close though. :)

[Phr3sh]

Single...pretty happy, though im always open to meet someone new and start something. I always end up wanting to be single and then end up in a relationship, so im not really worried about being alone.

[Montague]

You never know these days, especially judging by the number of emo relationship threads here started by dudes.

:lol:
however, 98% of off topic is dudes
You mean 98% of RFD are males (of which probably 85% are still living with Mom/Dad).

[weedb0y]

I agree with najibs on this that women do this more often than men, but men are definitely catching up. I don't think it's a difference of genders, just that a lot of people don't want to be single for too long.

However, the stereotype that men can just walk away isn't true and we all can see some of this in our own friends' emotional states after a breakup whether the guy initiated it or not. Emotions are the same for both men and women, only that our cultural norms don't really allow men to publicly show theirs.

I agree with that. Same emotions here, we just cry away from all you women. lol

[Ebola]

If anything, I think men have a harder time with breaking up / being single then women do.

Studies have shown men fall into love faster and harder then women do.

Granted, this is in the case of a woman-iniated breakup most times:

As has been pointed out, how many of us have friends that are completely crushed and downtrodden after a woman breaks up with them, saying how much they miss her, and how they don't know what to do now..?

And then that woman who just ended it is getting along just fine and maybe is even dating someone / screwing someone else already, when the guy can't even get himself together?


There is no rule of thumb. Some guys and some girls can just cut and run and be fine with it. Some can live single and be fine with it.

[superock]

If anything, I think men have a harder time with breaking up / being single then women do.

Studies have shown men fall into love faster and harder then women do.

Granted, this is in the case of a woman-iniated breakup most times:

As has been pointed out, how many of us have friends that are completely crushed and downtrodden after a woman breaks up with them, saying how much they miss her, and how they don't know what to do now..?

And then that woman who just ended it is getting along just fine and maybe is even dating someone / screwing someone else already, when the guy can't even get himself together?


There is no rule of thumb. Some guys and some girls can just cut and run and be fine with it. Some can live single and be fine with it.


Hit the gym, read a book, bang a couple of broads. Life is right back on track

[Ebola]

Hit the gym, read a book, bang a couple of broads. Life is right back on track

Case in point as to one of those people who can move along just fine.

I'm with you, even though I'm quite happy in the relationship I'm in.

[fido_fido]

Single and not happy cuz i need a girl

[DeimosBeros]

Revivalz!

I haven't been single in almost 5 years now. I like the woman I'm with but you got to have some "alone time" or an outing with friends else the relationship becomes too suffocating.
I find that I need to be away from my gf for a couple of days to truly miss her company, that includes no phone calls.
Like someone said already, communication and compromise is very important. Bottle things up too long and well.....not pretty let's just say.
Plus I plan on taking a nice solo european vacation before we move in together, I'm still too young!

[Bookpreviews]

I'm 50/50. I guess the part I hate the most about being single is when people constantly bug you on you being single. "Do you have a girlfriend yet?" "Howcome you're still single?" "I know this girl..." "Why aren't you married yet?" "It's time to get a girlfriend."

Those questions are so annoying.
You forgot to add "you're too nice to be single" wtf...does that mean?

I wouldn't mind meeting someone, but they can't be annoying;)

last guy I was going out with he was so annoying I didn't care that we broke up.

[mgronqui]

Hate being in relationships! Single and happy because of friends with benefits! :twisted:

Yes yes! No time for a relationship right now as I'm stacking my money. Women need to get out of here with this buy me this buy me that syndrome ****.

[FearSonic]

Those questions are so annoying.
You forgot to add "you're too nice to be single" wtf...does that mean?

I wouldn't mind meeting someone, but they can't be annoying;)

last guy I was going out with he was so annoying I didn't care that we broke up.

Let's not forget when the relatives grill you if you don't have a girlfriend, moreso than friends and acquaintances.

"Why don't you have one?"
"Are you looking?"
"Have you tried?"
"What do you mean 'no'?"
"Are you gay?"

[Frankie3s]

When I was younger I didn't care about stability and had a lot less responsibility back then. I think a good relationship that is honest and fair can enhance your life. Some people on this board will make you believe that stupid rituals of courting are important (ex: asking her father or her 1st grade teacher for permission to marry/date/consummate) but if the person really loves you, they will accept you just the way you are.

Be open minded, if love comes your way embrace it.

[65505201]

Let's not forget when the relatives grill you if you don't have a girlfriend, moreso than friends and acquaintances.

"Why don't you have one?"
"Are you looking?"
"Have you tried?"
"What do you mean 'no'?"
"Are you gay?"

Saying yes usually shuts them up pretty quickly...and if it's your dad, making a motion to grab his ass totally throws them off their game :twisted:

[Akuma_kumite]

Wow, a large number of guys on RFD are single. Wonder why? Coz we're too cheap? Or we're wasting too much time on our computers looking for bargains all day? Most of us are geeks or poor college/high school students? Whatever, RFD should start a dating section, we'll call it "Hot Dates", so that single RFDers can hook up. Guys, stop playing WoW or Call of Duty 4 on a Friday/Sat night and get out more.....