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efil

Sep 6th, 2007, 11:22 PM

jaigandhi5

Sep 6th, 2007, 11:39 PM

i use a gps to find the right way

express.items

Sep 6th, 2007, 11:41 PM

i use a gps to find the right way

+1

gman

Sep 6th, 2007, 11:41 PM

So, do you come here as a foreign student? Or, have just immigrated here?

stealth

Sep 6th, 2007, 11:51 PM

My hunch is you're someone previously banned like Me0wkat but just in case...Save yourself further frustration and embarassment.
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Nikita

Sep 6th, 2007, 11:54 PM

When life throws you lemons...make lemonade ;)

express.items

Sep 6th, 2007, 11:59 PM

When life throws you lemons...make lemonade ;)

lemonade is good!

CanadaBoy

Sep 7th, 2007, 12:00 AM

When life throws you lemons...make lemonade ;)

You need sugar for that :-0

CanadaBoy

Sep 7th, 2007, 12:00 AM

Join Date: Feb 9th, 2006

billdozer

Sep 7th, 2007, 12:13 AM

When life throws you lemons...make lemonade ;)

When life throws you lemons...have a lemon party ;)

UrbanPoet

Sep 7th, 2007, 12:14 AM

15-20_God

Sep 7th, 2007, 12:17 AM

When life throws you lemons...make lemonade ;)

or you can throw them back and hope you get some juice in the person's eyes that threw them at you in the first place. thats my preferred method.

Nikita

Sep 7th, 2007, 12:21 AM

Hello brother.
God plays joke on no 1.

Times can be rough... but you just gotta stay strong.
No1 is gonna help you 100%..... But you just gotta recognize that every once and a while you may have a blessing, even if it comes in the smallest forms.

For example.... I remember a few months ago I was in another bout of depression. I was struggling with my life. Until one day a strange woman offered me an orange in a very polite and courteous manner (yes its strange... but i loko @ it in another way).

Theres still good out there.

Oh, this is a serious question? Sorry, my bad. Well then, my pearls of wisdom...I look at challenges as good things, an opportunity to meet that challenge and conquer it. The longer you wallow in a 'challenge' as a problem and stay in the 'poor-me' mindset, you'll never overcome or conquer them. It's all in your perception, and yes you can change your perceptions.

PMech

Sep 7th, 2007, 12:22 AM

Human beings can survive by themselves, don't think you need others to be happy.

Just try and figure out where this stress is coming from, then deal with it. Once you get that sorted out you'll have a clearer focus as to what it is you plan on doing with your existence.

And you could clone those lemons, and make super lemons.

Oh, and life isnt a challenge, life is like a leaf flowing down a river, eventually it stops going and hits the earth. Just be content with what you have, sort out what you are, and realize what you need. Life is joyful, as it should be every moment. Find that inner peace

Nikita

Sep 7th, 2007, 12:22 AM

or you can throw them back and hope you get some juice in the person's eyes that threw them at you in the first place. thats my preferred method.

O.o zing...err, I mean zest...:)

BadDrafter

Sep 7th, 2007, 12:33 AM

Please tell me what is the right way.

Without knowing any more about your situation and how you got to be where you are and why you are where you are, any help you get here will just be conjecture and posturing.

UrbanPoet

Sep 7th, 2007, 12:37 AM

I hope the OP (if he is truly in a rough time) finds his way.

Bazooka Joe

Sep 7th, 2007, 07:52 AM

Everybody has tough times in their lives. Although you might feel alone, most if not all other people have felt the same as you at some point.

Hopefully, you can remember a time when things were better than they are now. The way to get through this is to know that once again things will be good. It may take a while, but you have to get through this rough patch for the better times to come.

Good luck.

smilodon

Sep 7th, 2007, 08:25 AM

My hunch is you're someone previously banned like Me0wkat but just in case...Save yourself further frustration and embarassment.
http://kidshelp.sympatico.ca/en/about/counselling.asp
1 800 668 6868

Me0wkat has been banned??? Argh! She was an endless source of entertainment and so willingly and regularly satisfied the voyeur in me! That's a loss to RFD!

PuppyB

Sep 7th, 2007, 02:02 PM

I agree with you...

My life got HUGE and unexpected change/crisis during past three months, and now it is still on the way, back to normal I hope. However, we should stand on our ground, meeting the challenge and conquer it.

Tomorrow will be another day!:)

Oh, this is a serious question? Sorry, my bad. Well then, my pearls of wisdom...I look at challenges as good things, an opportunity to meet that challenge and conquer it. The longer you wallow in a 'challenge' as a problem and stay in the 'poor-me' mindset, you'll never overcome or conquer them. It's all in your perception, and yes you can change your perceptions.

i6s1

Sep 7th, 2007, 04:16 PM

God has played a joke on me. I felt so insecure being alone in a new place. I have no friends, families or relatives. It was a feeling of helplessness. Once in a while, I met some kind people who are kind enough to help me out. But afterall, it's my own struggle. Troubles had always been with me. Now I don't know how to live the rest of my life. Please tell me what is the right way.

Once I thought that God was playing a joke on me, but it turns out that the food in Mexico isn't all that safe.

bionicbadger

Sep 7th, 2007, 04:27 PM

God has played a joke on me. I felt so insecure being alone in a new place. I have no friends, families or relatives. It was a feeling of helplessness. Once in a while, I met some kind people who are kind enough to help me out. But afterall, it's my own struggle. Troubles had always been with me. Now I don't know how to live the rest of my life. Please tell me what is the right way.

The best way is to ask anonymous strangers on the internet how to live your life and follow their advice closely, because everything on the internet must be true.

Menace

Sep 7th, 2007, 04:27 PM

Same here.

I thought that God was playing a joke on me, but turns out that I slept on the wrong side of the bed the night before.

Once I thought that God was playing a joke on me, but it turns out that the food in Mexico isn't all that safe.

hurtstopee

Sep 8th, 2007, 12:42 PM

Me0wkat has been banned??? Argh! She was an endless source of entertainment and so willingly and regularly satisfied the voyeur in me! That's a loss to RFD!

heh..if you do some digging, you can probably get a hunch at why she was banned :P

isom3tric

Sep 9th, 2007, 09:20 PM

heh..if you do some digging, you can probably get a hunch at why she was banned :P

I digged, just found the ATM comment, and the hand washing thing. Didn't find anything really bad?

vrus

Sep 9th, 2007, 11:19 PM

I digged, just found the ATM comment, and the hand washing thing. Didn't find anything really bad?

yeah.. why was she banned?

billdozer

Sep 9th, 2007, 11:32 PM

http://www.redflagdeals.com/forums/showthread.php?t=481603

http://www.redflagdeals.com/forums/showthread.php?t=481563

You're welcome.

JohnB

Sep 10th, 2007, 12:22 AM

dont pray for an easier life...pray to be a stronger person...

and most importantly never give up.

leadingsimon

Sep 10th, 2007, 12:35 AM

This thread made me remember that stupid song; How To Save A Life by The Fray... Argh! :mad:

hyperion

Sep 10th, 2007, 01:14 AM

dont pray for an easier life...pray to be a stronger person...

and most importantly never give up.

Good advice.

Becks

Sep 10th, 2007, 03:37 AM

If you're having a bad time in life, maybe try making a positive difference in the world -- it could be something as simple as picking up litter in your neighbourhood. If you realize that you have the power to affect things, you will realize you are really not helpless/powerless. There are always people alot worse off than you in the world. Although you may not really want to focus on other people because you feel your own personal situation is in such shambles, I think you always have the power to make choices in your life, even though these choices may not be ones you like. You have the choice of dwelling on the negative and seeing the glass as half empty, or you can consciously try to make things positive.

sans

Sep 11th, 2007, 12:24 PM

family is over-rated. :mad: it's not like you could choose who you want to be in your family. :mad:

family=hell.

gordholio

Sep 11th, 2007, 12:30 PM

God has played a joke on me. I felt so insecure being alone in a new place. I have no friends, families or relatives. It was a feeling of helplessness. Once in a while, I met some kind people who are kind enough to help me out. But afterall, it's my own struggle. Troubles had always been with me. Now I don't know how to live the rest of my life. Please tell me what is the right way.

Yes, it is hard sometimes. A good thing to do is to get out and join a group or club and make new friends. God will help you out especially if you take the steps to show you are making the effort. God will never abandon you. :)

gordholio

Sep 11th, 2007, 12:31 PM

family is over-rated. :mad: it's not like you could choose who you want to be in your family. :mad:

family=hell.

The family is a very important part of society and a balancing influence on peoples' lives. Without the few real families that are left, society would be in much worse shape.

gretzky99

Sep 11th, 2007, 01:32 PM

God has played a joke on me...........Please tell me what is the right way.

Yes, it is hard sometimes. A good thing to do is to get out and join a group or club and make new friends. God will help you out especially if you take the steps to show you are making the effort. God will never abandon you. :)

The OP just said that God played a joke on him, so in the OP's eyes God DID abandon him in his time of need.
The right of way is not through God, my son....:twisted:
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Wait a minute, does God even exist????:confused:

bigshotceo

Sep 11th, 2007, 01:36 PM

42.

gei

Sep 11th, 2007, 02:42 PM

beer is the answer

gordholio

Sep 11th, 2007, 03:14 PM

The OP just said that God played a joke on him, so in the OP's eyes God DID abandon him in his time of need.
The right of way is not through God, my son....:twisted:
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Wait a minute, does God even exist????:confused:

People say things when they're hurt that they regret in the future.

Matthew 26:34 - Jesus said unto him, Verily I say unto thee (Peter), That this night, before the cock crow, thou shalt deny me thrice.

Matthew 26:74 - Then began he to curse and to swear, saying, I know not the man. And immediately the cock crew.

Matthew 26:75 - And Peter remembered the word of Jesus, which said unto him, Before the cock crow, thou shalt deny me thrice. And he went out, and wept bitterly.

gei

Sep 11th, 2007, 03:28 PM

People say things when they're hurt that they regret in the future.

Matthew 26:34...

oh boy... lets keep your jeebus out of public forums..

gordholio

Sep 11th, 2007, 03:40 PM

oh boy... lets keep your jeebus out of public forums..

Um, there is a thing called freedom of speech you know. Whether or not you believe in Jesus, don't you agree that sometimes people say things they regret later? That's pretty common knowledge after you experience life.

weedb0y

Sep 11th, 2007, 03:52 PM

Um, there is a thing called freedom of speech you know. Whether or not you believe in Jesus, don't you agree that sometimes people say things they regret later? That's pretty common knowledge after you experience life.

Actually, the "People say things when they're hurt that they regret in the future.
" is quite true. Even though I am not Christian but its ignorant to not look at things that make sense.