I'm trying to get a date from this girl! HELP!

[superman2007]

Hi guys I met a girl at my part-time job, got her facebook and want to date her.

Anyways. I've talked to her few times on her facebook and I noticed that there is something very strange about her facebook.

For some reason, she hides her wall history from her mini-feed when she posts comments to her friends' wall. The only exception is when she posts stuff on my wall, it shows up on her mini-feed history.

I find it very strange because she has over 200 friends and from March till now, she only has the wall posting history of me.


ARK either I'm special or I'm out of the league because she was also talking to another male co-worker (apparently a competitor of mine) on facebook and hides those history as well.

Basically the bottom line is : When talks to me, shows history, when she talks to others, hides history.

[dre145]

you mean the wall to wall feature??

yea you cant see what she wrote on other peoples wall unless u are friends with the person she is talking with or in their "network"

[superman2007]

you mean the wall to wall feature??

yea you cant see what she wrote on other peoples wall unless u are friends with the person she is talking with or in their "network"

No I mean the mini-feed.

When I write to someone, it shows at my minifeed :

e.g. John wrote on James's wall. 1:14am


So on her minifeed, I can only find her writing history to my wall and nothing from other people. I don't believe this is a feature of facebook.

[MkmBandit]

this thread is going to get ugly, fast..

[Brownbear]

Or it could be that you're only allowed to see comments or news that is to or from you. Haha. take a chill pill and get her msn.

[superman2007]

Or it could be that you're only allowed to see comments or news that is to or from you. Haha. take a chill pill and get her msn.

yeah it's pretty tricky. She is in a different department than me whereas the guy (my competitor) works right next to her! At first I thought I will play cool and move it slowly but when I learn that another guy is trying to hit her, I figure I gotta act fast:twisted:

[phomp]

there are so many settings and stuff that it might just be that she just set it that way...

Who cares about her facebook? Why not go based on how she acts with you in person, ask her out? then see?

[superman2007]

there are so many settings and stuff that it might just be that she just set it that way...

Who cares about her facebook? Why not go based on how she acts with you in person, ask her out? then see?

Ark this is a part time job and I only see her twice per week. The shifts and break times are also very irregular so I don't always have time to talk to her except a quick Hi. The other guy works right next to her and omfg he's clearly on top of his game than me.

[legendofxix]

Its a privacy setting.
Your probably seeing her Limited Profile or something of that sort.

[B40]

Before you try to date her, are you sure her height is up to your parents standards?

http://img143.imageshack.us/img143/3937/parodyzu8.jpg

[superman2007]

Its a privacy setting.
Your probably seeing her Limited Profile or something of that sort.

I tried to play with the privacy setting but can't figure out that special feature:confused:

[phomp]

Before you try to date her, are you sure her height is up to your parents standards?

:lol:


but nah, next time you see her.. simply ask her on a date. Or just talk to her next time for a bit, make good a good convo.. see if you click. If you do, ask her out the next time.

[superman2007]

Before you try to date her, are you sure her height is up to your parents standards?

lol screw my parents. It's not like Im going to marry her or whatever:lol:

[dre145]

lol screw my parents. It's not like Im going to marry her or whatever:lol:

its a joke about another thread on here lol

[trixstar]

Before you try to date her, are you sure her height is up to your parents standards?

ROFL LMAO!!! ahhaha good one..

anyways..

This thread is useless without pics!!

post a pic of yourself, herself and your competitor!

[superman2007]

its a joke about another thread on here lol

yaya I've read that thread lol:lol:

anyways guys does facebook really have that special feature I've mentioned?
If yes, please tell me the specific privacy configuration. thanks!

[Brownbear]

post a pic of yourself, herself and your competitor!

I must admit, i lol'd

[dre145]

I must admit, i lol'd

me 2 and

+1 for trixstar's idea

[B40]

yaya I've read that thread lol:lol:

anyways guys does facebook really have that special feature I've mentioned?
If yes, please tell me the specific privacy configuration. thanks!

There's a secret trick on Facebook... if you post a note with the exact text, "I am gay, I love men in thongs" you will have unrestricted privacy access to everyone in your network.

[superman2007]

There's a secret trick on Facebook... if you post a note with the exact text, "I am gay, I love men in thongs" you will have unrestricted privacy access to everyone in your network.

lol:twisted: you are evil B40

[superman2007]

anyways can you guys be serious for a moment?:)

[B40]

anyways can you guys be serious for a moment?:)

dude, try it.. you think i'm joking? if you really want to see her wall you'll have to try it

[najibs]

Does anyone else find it strange that Superman can't get a chick? Maybe you're low on kryptonite, man...

[superman2007]

dude, try it.. you think i'm joking? if you really want to see her wall you'll have to try it

dude i can see her wall lol. I can see everything, pics, albums,minifeeds and etc.

The only strange part is that all her wall-posting history is missing except to my wall.:!:

[veejam]

dre145 is right, you can't see on her mini-feed who she wrote to unless you are friends with her friends or are in the same network and have very open privacy settings at the same time. So don't get your hopes up dude.

[superman2007]

Does anyone else find it strange that Superman can't get a chick? Maybe you're low on kryptonite, man...

lol even a superman has his up and down.:lol:

[superman2007]

dre145 is right, you can't see on her mini-feed who she wrote to unless you are friends with her friends or are in the same network and have very open privacy settings at the same time. So don't get your hopes up dude.

ohoh i see. I just found it strange because I've never seen something like this before since she's the first stranger I've added.

[dre145]

dre145 is right, you can't see on her mini-feed who she wrote to unless you are friends with her friends or are in the same network and have very open privacy settings at the same time. So don't get your hopes up dude.

thats exactly it, you are not friends with her friends and arnt in her friends network, and she most likely set the privacy settings to only show wall posts in her minifeed. So basicly you only see that she posted on your wall all the time because u dont have anyone of the other people she posts to in your friends network

[superman2007]

thats exactly it, you are not friends with her friends and arnt in her friends network, and she most likely set the privacy settings to only show wall posts in her minifeed. So basicly you only see that she posted on your wall all the time because u dont have anyone of the other people she posts to in your friends network

thanks actually that's a good relieve since I thought I was singled out and being placed to a limited profile or something.>:(

[trixstar]

Does anyone else find it strange that Superman can't get a chick? Maybe you're low on kryptonite, man...

lol your freaking hilarious..:lol:

[dre145]

Does anyone else find it strange that Superman can't get a chick? Maybe you're low on kryptonite, man...

red kryptonite cuz just plain green kryptonite makes him a p****y

[superman2007]

so seriously so I just ask her for a date even though we barely know each other?

[veejam]

If you really like her, forget the facebook talk and just ask her out to a movie or dinner..you can't really tell how somebody feels through wall postings.

Ask for her number but if you're a bit too shy, then just ask for her MSN. Having a real-time chat is better than waiting for her to reply back on your wall.

Anyways good luck!

[veejam]

well if you both end your shifts at the same time, you should ask her out for a quick bite or something.

[superman2007]

well if you both end your shifts at the same time, you should ask her out for a quick bite or something.

yeah thanks I seriously should try that. I thought I'd a lot of time but since that random guy popped up out of nowhere I figure I should act quick.

Just pray that we will have a same ending shift.:twisted:

[phomp]

to be honest, the facebook convo I doubt will get you anywhere..

In person is the way to go, talk to her once, get a good convo... if it goes real well then ask her if she wants to get a quick bite after work or something like that.. but if it goes decent, then just talk to her the next day (or shift) and then hopefully it goes well and you will get the right moment to ask her out to dinner or a movie or w/e it is.

[Alvito]

Hi guys I met a girl at my part-time job, got her facebook and want to date her.

Anyways. I've talked to her few times on her facebook and I noticed that there is something very strange about her facebook.

For some reason, she hides her wall history from her mini-feed when she posts comments to her friends' wall. The only exception is when she posts stuff on my wall, it shows up on her mini-feed history.

I find it very strange because she has over 200 friends and from March till now, she only has the wall posting history of me.


ARK either I'm special or I'm out of the league because she was also talking to another male co-worker (apparently a competitor of mine) on facebook and hides those history as well.

Basically the bottom line is : When talks to me, shows history, when she talks to others, hides history.

you are a stalker. do what you do best and stalk her.

[infinite.chaoz]

Before you try to date her, are you sure her height is up to your parents standards?

Also better make sure the age gap is not too much.

[billdozer]

Also better make sure the age gap is not too much.

All this talk of age-gap from you....sounds like you've been burned before in the past :lol: :lol: :lol:

Quit picking up girls afterschool outside the school parking lot in your mini-van you desperate old dude!!! :cheesygri

[trixstar]

All this talk of age-gap from you....sounds like you've been burned before in the past :lol: :lol: :lol:

Quit picking up girls afterschool outside the school parking lot in your mini-van you desperate old dude!!! :cheesygri

lol..

[ricoboxing]

okay, I think u should use your cell phone and secretly take a pic of her. Then post it here, so we can get a better idea of this girl youre talking about.

Then when she gets a restraining order and calls the cops, you can change the subject of this thread to "I'm a stalker trying to get a date from this girl! HELP!"

then we can all laugh at you!

[kleptodathief]

wots her facebook name? :D

[trixstar]

okay, I think u should use your cell phone and secretly take a pic of her. Then post it here, so we can get a better idea of this girl youre talking about.

Then when she gets a restraining order and calls the cops, you can change the subject of this thread to "I'm a stalker trying to get a date from this girl! HELP!"

then we can all laugh at you!


hey.. your not helping.. don't listen to ricoboxing as he knows nothing about relationships!!

here is a better way to put it..

if you post a picture of yourself, your crush and this competitive guy of yours, we will gladly tell you if you have a chance or not. We will also tell you if she's worth dating and if your height proportions are too different.

we might even be able to predict your future and what your kids will look like.. thats if you are nice to us.

you can upload the photos at www.imageshack.us

[alv077]

I thought this was a joke thread.

Facebook and girls don't mix... unless you want stalkers that won't leave you alone and go all pissy over what they saw on your wall.

[KorruptioN]

You sound like a prime candidate for the friendzone.

thread failure imminent

[Yaowsers]

Slow server. Host the pics somewhere else.

[rayner55]

ur getting all worked up and paranoid over something on facebook.
u should re-read what u wrote, u sound like a stalker.

u dont need to worry about nothing on facebook, just focus on your game.
u are already losing the battle to that other dude with all this insecurity.

trust, u dont even need to do a thing on facebook to get her. just worry about ur real life game instead.

[oeketer]

its a privacy setting on facebook. I hate the mini-feed and now don't let it post anything about what i join/post or whatever. its a setting used to try and stop facebook stalkers from seeing everything you do.

heres what you do.

poke her.

[McLaren]

Siphon the gas out of her car during work, and then when its time to go home, while trying to start her car, you say "car trouble?" while holding a tank of gas. Hopefully with any luck she'll be knocked out with the smell of the gasoline, and then you can have your way with her.

... and you're welcome.

[jdmkidd]

um she can decide who gets to view her postings and even delete her mini feeds.

[billdozer]

Siphon the gas out of her car during work, and then when its time to go home, while trying to start her car, you say "car trouble?" while holding a tank of gas. Hopefully with any luck she'll be knocked out with the smell of the gasoline, and then you can have your way with her.

... and you're welcome.

LOL, excellent advice. The OP is definitely a stalker. Well, internet geeky stalker that probably prefers cybersex over the real thing :cheesygri

[nopn]

I thought superman have some kind of super vision power to look through thing.

What happen to 2007 one ? He uses facebook now ?

[boonjaca]

Siphon the gas out of her car during work, and then when its time to go home, while trying to start her car, you say "car trouble?" while holding a tank of gas. Hopefully with any luck she'll be knocked out with the smell of the gasoline, and then you can have your way with her.

... and you're welcome.

Hmmm..by the sounds of it, it seems like you speak from experience...:D

[najibs]

red kryptonite cuz just plain green kryptonite makes him a p****y

Maybe he should post a pic of himself on her wall, but with his Superman outfit. In plain clothes he's not gonna get her attention.

[CSAgent]

Asking for dating advice online from a bunch of strangers - wow. Just wow.

Don't you have friends? You know, offline?

Or the very least, lobby for a Dating/Relationships sub-forum.

[McLaren]

Hmmm..by the sounds of it, it seems like you speak from experience...:D

Yeah experience from like the time you got raaaaped.

[Sprite_TM]

haha this thread is funny!!!

[PSiBeR]

Some of the dudes on here got a good point. Don't focus too much on what she posts, or what others posts on her wall on facebook. Just focus on your game.

Do you atleast have her number? MSN? if not, step your damn game up! Talk to her more often on the phone and on MSN. Facebook won't get you anywhere. I'm pretty sure some of the things you want to say to her, and u dont want other seeing ....

How do you know your supposed 'competition' isn't working his game right now and talking to her on the phone, and asking her out?

It can work out either way, you'll be in the friend zone, or she will start seeing the other dude, or.. she might test both of you and see who can measure up the best to her standards lol :cheesygri

[ak-47]

organize a date with you, your competitor, and her. whoever she goes home with by the end of the night is the winner :twisted:

[ricoboxing]

or maybe organize to have a fight with the other guy (UFC rules) and the winner gets the girl (isnt that how they did it in the old days?). Don't 4get to video tape it and post it on youtube and here too.

[najibs]

I think the OP might be taking it the wrong way, he might think she likes him, but in reality, she doesn't and has a limited the OPs access by allowing him to see only her limited profile, which doesn not allow the OP to see all her wall posts.

He's taking it one way, but it might be the complete opposite. That's the world of the female mind :cheesygri

[stealth]

I wouldnt go straight for the date thing...girls like to feel comfortable with a guiy first, esp. sicne if you're a wacko and things dont work out, running into you constantly at work wouldnt be good.
I'd try and hang with her during breaks, lunch etc. for a while, learn more about her, let her get to know you, and then make a move.
Thats why the club scene is so popular...you dont have to go through any of this to make a connection.
Lots of girls tho, I wouldnt get too freaked out over one.

[nopn]

the thread sounds like MSN thread before.

[Menace]

You just want to bang her, right? Good! She will never date you :lol:

lol screw my parents. It's not like Im going to marry her or whatever:lol:

[ricoboxing]

i just found your facebook picture
http://www.cbc.ca/gfx/images/news/photos/2007/06/05/callow-paul070605.jpg

u sicko!

[ak-47]

^
:lol:

sry but thats just sick

[MS_Project]

Since you mentioned that your competitor is getting really close to her and talks to her often, the probability of them dating is usually low.

I noticed that if girls like a guy, they are shy to even speak to each other. Or girls would not talk to the guy (even if the girl likes him a lot). True? Therefore, you as Superman have a bigger chance of winning. Because you are superman, you can beat the monsters out there.

[YnD]

Yo honestly... once you get the MSN.... and you successfully add her.... your set....

Timeline for you....

Facebook/Workplace --> MSN --> Phone # --> Dates --> Couple --> Sex

[najibs]

Post this on her wall:

http://www.starterupsteve.com/swf/Group_X_video.html

[mcg]

Post this on her wall:

http://www.starterupsteve.com/swf/Group_X_video.html

+1

[Lone_Prodigy]

This thread >>>>> the height thread.

[mxhp00]

BE a Man, DO the right thing!

[Spidey]

Wow, internet sure has changed the dating world. get her facebook, get her MSN, etc.

Whatever happened to having the balls and going up to a girl and actually talking to her face to face.

[The Master]

Post this on her wall:

http://www.starterupsteve.com/swf/Group_X_video.html


LOL!!

[pennywize]

Go up to her in person and ask: Does this cloth smell like chloroform to you?

Success rate = 100%

[nopn]

Yo honestly... once you get the MSN.... and you successfully add her.... your set....

Timeline for you....

Facebook/Workplace --> MSN --> Phone # --> Dates --> Couple --> Sex


sex--> baby --> http://www.redflagdeals.com/forums/showthread.php?t=450515

[mcg]

lol, there should be a game where you would link to other threads to make a story. hahaha


http://www.redflagdeals.com/forums/showthread.php?t=450515 --> http://www.redflagdeals.com/forums/showthread.php?t=430928&highlight=baby

[nopn]

lol, there should be a game where you would link to other threads to make a story. hahaha


http://www.redflagdeals.com/forums/showthread.php?t=450515 --> http://www.redflagdeals.com/forums/showthread.php?t=430928&highlight=baby


http://www.redflagdeals.com/forums/showthread.php?t=430928 --> http://www.redflagdeals.com/forums/showthread.php?t=292888

[grant]

I [...] want to date her.

Basically the bottom line is : When talks to me, shows history, when she talks to others, hides history.
Are you 13?

If you want to go out with a girl, ask her out.

wtf does facebook have to do with anything.

[Spidey]

Are you 13?

If you want to go out with a girl, ask her out.

wtf does facebook have to do with anything.


Agreed. Suck it up, be a man

[wolf30]

Dude just ask her out. If she has high enough interest level in you, she'll say yes and even if she doesn't she'll at least make a counter offer. Otherwise just move on and stop wasting your time. Take it as a learning experience so next time you don't make the same mistake again. The longer you wait, the worst it's gonna get. Your thinking too much and reading into her every action. Forget about your compeitior and just focus on yourself. Ntex time if you get a chance to talk to her, have a good conversation then ask her out. If you don't ask you got a 0% chance of succeeding but if you ask you got a 50% chance of succeeding.

[Lone_Prodigy]

Forget about your compeitior and just focus on yourself. Ntex time if you get a chance to talk to her, have a good conversation then ask her out. If you don't ask you got a 0% chance of succeeding but if you ask you got a 50% chance of succeeding.

Math doesn't apply in these types of situations. A whole-hearted yes is very different from a reluctant yes and a pitying yes. :D

[superman2007]

lol I don't get some of you guys calling me a stalker.

First of all, I DO NOT have a crush on her. All I want is to "hit" her, if she rejects me then fine, no hard feeling. THe reason I got this job is to try to hook up with people.

Secondly, I know her, she knows me. In fact I approached her first when we were both waiting for pickups after work at the parking lot. Im also trying my best to drop by her department and have some quick chats.


Thirdly, I don't see how am I stalking her? I don't follow her, I don't check out all her secrets and etc. All I did was checking out my competitor and his moves. So that is considered as stalking? Isn't there a military tactic where you should know your enemy first when you fight.

[wolf30]

Well thats why he should ask her in person. Forget this msn and facebook $hit. Ask her in person so he can judge and see her reaction and response.

[superman2007]

yeah i know.

I did ask advices from my friends but some of them are basically as inexperienced as me.

Some of my friends told me I SHOULD NOT ASK someone out before even knowing them.

I still don't get all the negative reactions from people and name callings (ie Stalker or even worse Rapist). For those who called me that>> FCUK YOU!

[RonyPal]

yeah i know.
I did ask advices from my friends but some of them are basically as inexperienced as me.


lol anyone can tell your inexperience by you saying you wanna "hit" that...

[superman2007]

lol anyone can tell your inexperience by you saying you wanna "hit" that...

okok that's why IM freaking asking people's advice! makes sense?
I wouldn't have to ask anyone if Im an expert of it:-0

Is phone number that important? How should I ask for it?

"Hey do you have a phone #?"
LOL that's how I asked when I tried to get her facebook. "hey do u have facebok?"

[dre145]

you sure dont sound like a "player" because u are lacking in ur "moves" department and dont have the confidence needed.

sounds like u are a virgin looking for ur first ****....

[superman2007]

you sure dont sound like a "player" because u are lacking in ur "moves" department and dont have the confidence needed.

sounds like u are a virgin looking for ur first ****....

Hmm... why don't you just offer some advice?:D

[4flava]

Easy man. come on dude.. you gotta be smooth and natural..

"you bumped into her"

You say: Hey! how are you doin?

She says: I'm doin fine, how are you?

You say: I'm doin fine myself, say.. facebook is great isn't it?.. I've found friends that I've lost contact with for years. Btw, you look great in your facebook photo.. I must say that you're quite photogenic.*smile*

She says: Thanks and blushes/smiles.

You say: So, when do you usually take lunch at work??..

She says: Ummm..usually around 1:00pm..

You say: really! Me too!.. how about if we have lunch together at that restaurant that I've been wanting to try it out... My treat!

She says: Sure! that sounds nice. Thanks.

You say: How about if we trade phone numbers so we can meet up at lunch the next day??

She says: Sure, here you go..........

SUCCESS!!


Try it.. if it doesn't work, then it's your problem..lol

[superman2007]

Easy man. come on dude.. you gotta be smooth and natural..

"you bumped into her"

You say: Hey! how are you doin?

She says: I'm doin fine, how are you?

You say: I'm doin fine myself, say.. facebook is great isn't it?.. I've found friends that I've lost contact with for years. Btw, you look great in your facebook photo.. I must say that you're quite photogenic.*smile*

She says: Thanks and blushes/smiles.

You say: So, when do you usually take lunch at work??..

She says: Ummm..usually around 1:00pm..

You say: really! Me too!.. how about if we have lunch together at that restaurant that I've been wanting to try it out... My treat!

She says: Sure! that sounds nice. Thanks.

You say: How about if we trade phone numbers so we can meet up at lunch the next day??

She says: Sure, here you go..........

SUCCESS!!


Try it.. if it doesn't work, then it's your problem..lol

yeahyeah that sounds perfect but our job has irregular break and shift pattern so unless we are getting off (ie going home) at the same time, there is ZERO chance of going for a quick bite. THanks though!

[drucillica]

lol I don't get some of you guys calling me a stalker.

First of all, I DO NOT have a crush on her.All I want is to "hit" her, if she rejects me then fine, no hard feeling. THe reason I got this job is to try to hook up with people.

Secondly, I know her, she knows me. In fact I approached her first when we were both waiting for pickups after work at the parking lot. Im also trying my best to drop by her department and have some quick chats.


Thirdly, I don't see how am I stalking her? I don't follow her, I don't check out all her secrets and etc. All I did was checking out my competitor and his moves. So that is considered as stalking? Isn't there a military tactic where you should know your enemy first when you fight.

http://youtube.com/watch?v=fCX0O4RszVo
http://youtube.com/watch?v=o_ym6zVTrR4

??

[ullyeus]

I smell nerd.

[konfusion666]

I DO NOT have a crush on her. All I want is to "hit" her

Do you wear a wife-beater too?

Isn't there a military tactic where you should know your enemy first when you fight.

Uh, what do think this is, the War on Terror? :confused:

[superman2007]

I smell nerd.

Well im definitely not one of those people you will see partying everyday at the clubs. However, I don't resemble a traditional "nerd" lol

[superman2007]

Okay guys my competitor seems very aggressive at the facingbooking her wall!

He just posted another wall msg saying "hi hows going?"

What should I do? Play cool and not post anything to her wall? I've only posted few messages to her, and those msgs were very brief compare to my competitor where he writes a huge essay everytime.

I don't know which is the best way:

1. Talk less and act cool
2. Talk a lot and acting very aggressive like the other guy.

According to many theory that #2 won't work and will make you look like a loser needy person. So I will stick with #1. However it's also very contradicting because don't you need to communicate?


btw I don't think the other guy has her phone number cuz other wise he wouldn't using facebook.

[billdozer]

:arrowu:
this is a joke right? sad nonetheless.

Yet another case of an internet-love advice seeking anti-social geek that overanalyzes EVERYTHING which will result in him getting a restraining order in the near future.

And you afraid of the "competition" or something? Ever heard of ménage à trois? :cheesygri

[KorruptioN]

First of all, I DO NOT have a crush on her.

This thread leaves me speechless.

[Flyer]

Methinks this is a previously banned member...

Quick, who has been banned for being an attention *****?

[4flava]

yeahyeah that sounds perfect but our job has irregular break and shift pattern so unless we are getting off (ie going home) at the same time, there is ZERO chance of going for a quick bite. THanks though!

YOu don't get the point..

you got her number.. who cares if you really have the same lunch or not.

[superman2007]

This thread leaves me speechless.

lol I'm serious. Right at first day of my job, I have been eyeing on good prospects. Heck that's the only reason I take this $8 minimum wage job working under the sun.

Last weekend I approached another random girl at the employee cafe and found out she also works near me. We had few chats on our way back to our job post but I forgot to get her name. The SAD part is that everyone wears a nametag and I didn't bother to look at her tag rofl.

[superman2007]

:arrowu:
this is a joke right? sad nonetheless.

Yet another case of an internet-love advice seeking anti-social geek that overanalyzes EVERYTHING which will result in him getting a restraining order in the near future.

And you afraid of the "competition" or something? Ever heard of ménage à trois? :cheesygri

lol actually I'm not afraid of the competition. In fact my adrenaline is pumping because it will feel so great if I can beat him! However, my concern is how to stay on top of this race.

[superman2007]

YOu don't get the point..

you got her number.. who cares if you really have the same lunch or not.

okay I'll try. What do I do though if I gets her number? Do I only call her when I want to arrange a date?

[4flava]

lol I'm serious. Right at first day of my job, I have been eyeing on good prospects. Heck that's the only reason I take this $8 minimum wage job working under the sun.

Last weekend I approached another random girl at the employee cafe and found out she also works near me. We had few chats on our way back to our job post but I forgot to get her name. The SAD part is that everyone wears a nametag and I didn't bother to look at her tag rofl.

I sadly have to admit that I'm also a horny bastard.. I'm also constantly scanning.. my modo is "all p*ssy is good p*ssy"... Just hooked up with a portuguese girl at work.. and she has a husband but she's fine. I only do it when I'm single.. when I have a gf, i'm very faithful :)

Ok, enough.. don't wanna ruin my good rep.lol

[4flava]

okay I'll try. What do I do though if I gets her number? Do I only call her when I want to arrange a date?

Wait for a day or so before you call her.

Call her and ask if she's free after work instead.. it's old but there's really no better way to get hooked up with than over dinner.

[superman2007]

Wait for a day or so before you call her.

Call her and ask if she's free after work instead.. it's old but there's really no better way to get hooked up with than over dinner.

Thanks. When I call her should I just ask her shift time for the next weekend and if she's free or not because it changes all the time. After I get her shift, I'll talk to my lead (good buddy of mine) and ask him to give me a flexible shift that day to accommodate my plan.

[KorruptioN]

lol I'm serious. Right at first day of my job, I have been eyeing on good prospects. Heck that's the only reason I take this $8 minimum wage job working under the sun.

Last weekend I approached another random girl at the employee cafe and found out she also works near me. We had few chats on our way back to our job post but I forgot to get her name. The SAD part is that everyone wears a nametag and I didn't bother to look at her tag rofl.

Has anybody ever told you? Relationships in highschool don't count. Sure there are the obvious exceptions, but you don't often see things lasting any amount of time, especially if they're in the younger grades (grades 9 & 10).

You are overanalyzing everything. You will not succeed. I'm sorry to have to tell you the truth.

[superman2007]

Has anybody ever told you? Relationships in highschool don't count. Sure there are the obvious exceptions, but you don't often see things lasting any amount of time, especially if they're in the younger grades (grades 9 & 10).

You are overanalyzing everything. You will not succeed. I'm sorry to have to tell you the truth.

dude I agree I have the tendency to overanalyze things...

I know it's not going last. BUT are you telling me not to date until im in the mid 20s? NO freaking way man:mad:
That's why I said I don't have a crush on her. I just want to find someone to pratice the art of dating.

[KorruptioN]

At this rate you'll be doing exactly that...

[superman2007]

At this rate you'll be doing exactly that...

then why don't you offer some constructive suggestion like 4flava did?:)

[KorruptioN]

Not everybody's going to tell you what you want to hear :)

[superman2007]

Not everybody's going to tell you what you want to hear :)

lol that's very helpful:-0

[jcoltage]

i just found your facebook picture
http://www.cbc.ca/gfx/images/news/photos/2007/06/05/callow-paul070605.jpg

u sicko!

YO is that not the Ballcanies rapist from toronto 80's?

http://toronto.ctv.ca/servlet/an/local/CTVNews/20070606/callow_talks_070606/20070606/?hub=TorontoHome

[kennyt18]

Hi guys I met a girl at my part-time job, got her facebook and want to date her.

Anyways. I've talked to her few times on her facebook and I noticed that there is something very strange about her facebook.

For some reason, she hides her wall history from her mini-feed when she posts comments to her friends' wall. The only exception is when she posts stuff on my wall, it shows up on her mini-feed history.

I find it very strange because she has over 200 friends and from March till now, she only has the wall posting history of me.


ARK either I'm special or I'm out of the league because she was also talking to another male co-worker (apparently a competitor of mine) on facebook and hides those history as well.

Basically the bottom line is : When talks to me, shows history, when she talks to others, hides history.

I'm not going to bother reading all 8 pages of this thread but let me guess, you're Asian and you lack self confidence. Sound about right?

[KorruptioN]

As seen here in the OT section of the RFD forums, a flashy and snobby car will not get you chicks. You got laughed at in your other thread for a reason.

[Talamasca]

I'm not going to bother reading all 8 pages of this thread but let me guess, you're Asian and you lack self confidence. Sound about right?

LMAO :D

[jcoltage]

I think Beauty and the geek is hiring for season 4 this thread will do you wonders.... my advice to you little asian boy is to go rent anchorman and watch it 3 times and come back here... "made with real cougar blood" :D :D

Man play the game ... any time this loser writes on face book you kick his ass he will learn real quick who wears the pants in that office.

[nickia]

a lots of racial stereotyping here. :rolleyes:

[billdozer]

LOL, just read the attention wh*re's other thread.

Hey cool guy, you shouldn't have any problem getting laid once you get your lowest-level BMW and drive around with your pink polo with the collar popped.

With the stuff you've said in this thread, it should be a piece of cherry pie ;) picking up girls if you hang out afterschool in a middle school parking lot :lol:

Oh yeah, OP, is this you?
http://www.redflagdeals.com/forums/showthread.php?t=450470

I wouldn't be surprised if it was since you seem to lack any social skills.

[infinite.chaoz]

Hey cool guy, you shouldn't have any problem getting laid once you get your lowest-level BMW and drive around with your pink polo with the collar popped.

With the stuff you've said in this thread, it should be a piece of cherry pie ;) picking up girls if you hang out afterschool in a middle school parking lot :lol:


Don't you mean mom's Chrysler PT Cruiser, Lacoste Shirt and local Canadian Tire?

[billdozer]

Don't you mean mom's Chrysler PT Cruiser, Lacoste Shirt and local Canadian Tire?

LOL
POTY
good times.

[jcoltage]

man suppermans got some class... it got to be the 1988 honda civic ... with a bootlegged polo (FLAMING pink!!!) and some x-tina music blazing ... and at the dumpster behind the local YMCA where he can view the girls working out in the gym. most action he will see till he goes animal planet on that guy and shows who is the alpha male

[omagedon]

Sounds like the OP just wants to get some and thats it. Why don't you pay some cash to some Hooker or something if you want to "Hit" her. Kinda funny, someone who would just go for a job so he can scope out some prospects to hit.

[stealth]

Okay guys my competitor seems very aggressive at the facingbooking her wall!

He just posted another wall msg saying "hi hows going?"
What should I do? Play cool and not post anything to her wall? I've only posted few messages to her, and those msgs were very brief compare to my competitor where he writes a huge essay everytime.

I don't know which is the best way:

1. Talk less and act cool
2. Talk a lot and acting very aggressive like the other guy.

According to many theory that #2 won't work and will make you look like a loser needy person. So I will stick with #1. However it's also very contradicting because don't you need to communicate?


btw I don't think the other guy has her phone number cuz other wise he wouldn't using facebook.

Thats aggressive??
Man I coulda got laid by the guy working at FS the other day!:D

Yes, if thats "aggressive", then definitely be more like that:confused:

[YnD]

Okay guys my competitor seems very aggressive at the facingbooking her wall!

He just posted another wall msg saying "hi hows going?"

What should I do? Play cool and not post anything to her wall? I've only posted few messages to her, and those msgs were very brief compare to my competitor where he writes a huge essay everytime.

I don't know which is the best way:

1. Talk less and act cool
2. Talk a lot and acting very aggressive like the other guy.

According to many theory that #2 won't work and will make you look like a loser needy person. So I will stick with #1. However it's also very contradicting because don't you need to communicate?


btw I don't think the other guy has her phone number cuz other wise he wouldn't using facebook.

Just do it like how a black guy would do it... be perverted and use "hey baby your beautiful" and "WADDUPPP girl" lines....and when you see her go "DAMMMMMM"....:)

[jcoltage]

or wait in the the parking lot and go bitc*h get in the car ... they like it when you talk tuff.:D then call the cops on your ass

[trixstar]

Sounds like the OP just wants to get some and thats it. Why don't you pay some cash to some Hooker or something if you want to "Hit" her. Kinda funny, someone who would just go for a job so he can scope out some prospects to hit.

Too bad he missed the WoW lady.. he could of redeemed 50,000 gold or something?? and plus.. bonus costume.

[getmail99]

Another relationship thread, height, facebook, what next. :cheesygri

[Stunt_101]

basically its pretty sad that u would have to come on rfd and ask for advice on how and what you can do to "DATE" a girl. AND THEN SAY U DONT GIVE A CRAP ABOUT HER AND JUST WANNA "HIT" HER?

things like this can't be taught by others, u gotta go with whut u think its right. if it works, then u got ur self some fun times but if it doesn't then learn from ur mistakes and change whut u think was done wrong, and ppl on rdf can't really help u here since we don't know whut type of girl she is or whut kinda guys shes into, or even who she is....so its really hard to ask for advice from fellow rfd.
just do whut u gotta do and try not to screw up.

GOOD LUCK hope u get urself some nice puzzy :lol: :lol:

[devious9191]

Ark this is a part time job and I only see her twice per week. The shifts and break times are also very irregular so I don't always have time to talk to her except a quick Hi. The other guy works right next to her and omfg he's clearly on top of his game than me.

Here's a tip that you can use for the rest of your life. If you're posting on an internet forum about how to get a girl, the other guy is 'clearly on top of his game than you'. If the only way you can talk to this girl is on facebook, same as previous.

Worst she can say is no, grow a pair.

[phomp]

forget the facebook...Who cares what he posts on her wall and all that crap.

She will respect you more (id assume, but I dont know her) and you would have a better chance with her if you dealt with her in person instead of msging her on facebook.

[phomp]

Here's a tip that you can use for the rest of your life. If you're posting on an internet forum about how to get a girl, the other guy is 'clearly on top of his game than you'. If the only way you can talk to this girl is on facebook, same as previous.

Worst she can say is no, grow a pair.


Well it seems the other guy is doing the same thing, so maybe he is not lol...

and I agree, the worst she can say is no..

Plus once you ask her, if she says no, then fine move on.. no more worries and if she says yes.. then you got her.

So yes, lol Grow a pair.

[PMech]

Stop trying to get with her via Facebook?

[ricoboxing]

okay this is what youre gonna do.

tomorrow let the air out of the tires while she's at work.
when she goes to her car she see's that she has a flat.
offer to change her tire for her. (if u don't know ask at the RFD motor/veh forum)
after youre done changing the tire, the porno music starts "bow chica bow wow boom"

then u tap that ass!



Then u wake up and realize it wuz all a dream. Now go get a pair of clean undies!

[nanirina]

Before you try to date her, are you sure her height is up to your parents standards?

LMAO!!!

[almostfreeman]

When meeting a girl I wanna date I usually just expose myself to her. If I'm not in jail the next day I know the relationship may have some potential. ;)

[Dragon120]

1) Grow some balls
2) Ask her out in PERSON, none of this Facebook crap...
3) She says, "NO", move the hell on...there are plenty of fishes in the sea...
4) You outta grow up man...going into University and you're asking these kinds of questions on how to "hit" a girl? You seriously need to get out more...

[Spidey]

Wow, he's baseing a relationship, etc on facebook.

The bell rang, recess is over. Time to go back to public school

[toujours]

Just do it like how a black guy would do it... be perverted and use "hey baby your beautiful" and "WADDUPPP girl" lines....and when you see her go "DAMMMMMM"....:)
Or alternatively "Me so horny" and "Me love you looong time" and finally "We do bang bang ?"

That should work too... :cheesygri

[toujours]

okay this is what youre gonna do.

tomorrow let the air out of the tires while she's at work.
when she goes to her car she see's that she has a flat.
offer to change her tire for her. (if u don't know ask at the RFD motor/veh forum)
after youre done changing the tire, the porno music starts "bow chica bow wow boom"

then u tap that ass!

Then u wake up and realize it wuz all a dream. Now go get a pair of clean undies!Only if your Mom doesn't wake you up first. :D

[mcg]

This thread is jokes, and ******** at the same time!

[Becks]

It's "hit that", not "hit her". "50 cent", not "50 cents".

[KorruptioN]

It's "hit that", not "hit her". "50 cent", not "50 cents".

Wow.

[alv077]

All this advice is getting so negative for the guy.

I say, poke her on facebook. Poking is sexy. Hell, poke her in real life. Poke poke poke.

[KorruptioN]

All this advice is getting so negative for the guy.

I say, poke her on facebook. Poking is sexy. Hell, poke her in real life. Poke poke poke.

Since he doesn't have the courage in real life to talk to this girl, he should join the group "Enough with the poking, let's just have sex" once he's established a good poking war with this girl.

It is bound to work. I know this for a fact :lol:

[930929930]

i think this thread is the fastest growing thread in RFD other than Wii unit GTA.....

but anyways......thanks OP for the entertainment this thread brings.....
i lol for more than 10 times when i get to page 8.....

cheers....

[billdozer]

Since he doesn't have the courage in real life to talk to this girl, he should join the group "Enough with the poking, let's just have sex" once he's established a good poking war with this girl.

It is bound to work. I know this for a fact :lol:

Lemme guess...a "girl" unzipped her pants and "poked" you back? :lol: :lol: :lol:

[nopn]

do you work at canadian tire ?

you know the deals for next week ?

[KorruptioN]

Lemme guess...a "girl" unzipped her pants and "poked" you back? :lol: :lol: :lol:

The more foreign the object is, the better!

[bokep]

AHAHAHAHHAAHAHAH

op here is how you proceed:

1. cut a hole in a box
2. put your junk in that box
3. make her open the box

100% success rate guaranteed



(seriously, basing your chances to get this girl on her facebook mini-feed is really pathetic
posting online and asking people for advice makes it even worse)

[Lone_Prodigy]

OP needs to update so we can laugh...err...WITH him some more. :lol:

[superman2007]

Since he doesn't have the courage in real life to talk to this girl, he should join the group "Enough with the poking, let's just have sex" once he's established a good poking war with this girl.

It is bound to work. I know this for a fact :lol:

wth man. I talked to this girl few times whenever I had the chance at work. I only want facebook cuz we only work at the weekend. Geez.

[wolf30]

By the looks of it, it doesn't seem your gonna get the girl. Your overanalyzing everything that happens which in turn will make you nervous around the girl. You will be too occupied with trying to leave a good impression but you end up screwing that up casue your too tense and not relaxed. Your too focused on your compeitior when you should be more worried about yourself. Like I said before just go ask her out. It'll make life less stressful for you. Either she says yes which in that case congraduations or she says no, then you can move on and forget about her. You get your answer right there on the spot, no more guessing what she is thinking.

[B40]

http://img143.imageshack.us/img143/3937/parodyzu8.jpg

[shumwun]

All this advice is getting so negative for the guy.

I say, poke her on facebook. Poking is sexy. Hell, poke her in real life. Poke poke poke.


*poke* but please, poke with care.... don't poke the eyes...




rofl... i love this entertainment.

[infinite.chaoz]

AHAHAHAHHAAHAHAH
op here is how you proceed:

1. cut a hole in a box
2. put your junk in that box
3. make her open the box

100% success rate guaranteed


ROFLMAO, here is more detail instructions for that procedure.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1dmVU08zVpA

[billdozer]

ROFLMAO, here is more detail instructions for that procedure.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1dmVU08zVpA

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[mxhp00]

You're wasting your time here trying to get advice from people while your opponent is chopping his way to the girls heart.

Make your move quickly, before it's too late. If she rejects you then, boo-hoo, just dust yourself off and keep fishing.

The only important thing to keep in mind is to be confident, whatever happens, happens. You two are not the last people on earth, so make your move or you lose your chance and you'll regret it later.

Like I've said before and I think someone else said...

BE A MAN...Do the right thing!

[Dragon120]

whatever happens, happens. You two are not the last people on earth

It'd be pretty scary if OP was the last remaining male on Earth, think about the characteristics of his offspring :P

[whampoa]

Here are my 5 cents worth of advice:

First of all [Superman2007], you never let on how much you like a girl. "Oh, [her name]. Hi.

Two, you always call the shots. "Kiss me. You won't regret it."

Now three, act like wherever you are, that's the place to be. "Isn't this great?"

Four, when ordering food, you find out what she wants, then order for the both of you. It's a classy move. "Now, the lady will have the linguini and white clam sauce, and a Coke with no ice."

And five, now this is the most important, [Superman2007]. When it comes down to making out, whenever possible, put on side one of Led Zeppelin IV.

Lastly, give me her facebook username, I will fix your problem in no time, free of charge.

OBTW, check out memorable quotes from Fast Times at Ridgemont High.

[almostfreeman]

Here are my 5 cents worth of advice:

First of all [Superman2007], you never let on how much you like a girl. "Oh, [her name]. Hi.



Absolutely wrong! Women like to be pampered and made to feel special. In fact there probably isn't a person on this board who doesn't like to be pampered and have their ego stroked. Don't act like a jerk that treats his woman like trash. Treat her with respect and she will do the same for you, if not move on.

[mxhp00]

Absolutely wrong! Women like to be pampered and made to feel special. In fact there probably isn't a person on this board who doesn't like to be pampered and have their ego stroked. Don't act like a jerk that treats his woman like trash. Treat her with respect and she will do the same for you, if not move on.

LOL when I read what you wrote, this is what I was thinking...

http://youtube.com/watch?v=CzShoryVRl0

(btw i agree with you :D )

[Jkim]

wow this thread made my day.
THANKS OP for the great laughs :lol:

[Lone_Prodigy]

WRONG, maybe it was like that 30 years ago, not today. If you show her that you like her, she will have dominance over you. The "game" is to see who falls first. The first to show weakness loses the game. If you show her that you like her, you lose, and she will go with the next guy. "Lets just be friends" is the final answer to that move. Same with calling the girl after you get her number, you DO NOT call her the day after EVER. If you do, you lose again. Don't let her call the shots.

:)

disclaimer: i dont know what i am talking about.

:D

Play hard to get. If she likes you, she will pursue.

Of course, if you both play hard to get, then nothing's ever going to happen.

[superman2007]

ok so you guys wanted an update?? (MODs please dont lock) I'm happy to provide entertainment for RFD fellas! HERE WE GO!:cheesygri

Actually, I did went out with her for a date in mid-july 2007. It started out pretty good that day but at the end, it ended somewhat unpleasant for both of us. In case you are wondering, we went to Canada's Wonderland. It was probably my fault for overdoing the "PUA, cocky" stuffs if you know what I'm talking about.:lol: She got turned off at the end and thought I was "mean". This bothers me really much because I'm a really nice and kind person. Under normal circumstance, I would never ever do/say mean things to a girl even if it was a joke. However, at that time, I took the advice and pretended to be a "bad ass". agh I guess I shouldn've overdone it.

After that day, I kind of stopped talking to her, and eventaully, it faded away. So one month later in late-august 2007, I went out with another girl at work, and we hooked up. Our relationship lasted until mid-november 2007 until it turned sour. Unfortunately for me, I still have feeling for this girl.

So I'm single from then and counting.:twisted:

[13sundin]

ok so you guys wanted an update?? (MODs please dont lock) I'm happy to provide entertainment for RFD fellas! HERE WE GO!:cheesygri

Actually, I did went out with her for a date in mid-july 2007. It started out pretty good that day but at the end, it ended somewhat unpleasant for both of us. In case you are wondering, we went to Canada's Wonderland. It was probably my fault for overdoing the "PUA, cocky" stuffs if you know what I'm talking about.:lol: She got turned off at the end and thought I was "mean".:evil: Eventhough I was pretending to be "mean." agh I guess I shouldn've overdone it.:arrowl:

After that day, I kind of stopped talking to her, and eventaully, it faded away. So one month later in late-august 2007, I went out with another girl at work, and we hooked up. Our relationship lasted until mid-november 2007 until it turned sour.

So I'm single from then and counting.:twisted:

Before you try to date her, are you sure her height is up to your parents standards?

http://img143.imageshack.us/img143/3937/parodyzu8.jpg

/facepalm

[manixc]

ok so you guys wanted an update?? (MODs please dont lock) I'm happy to provide entertainment for RFD fellas! HERE WE GO!:cheesygri

Actually, I did went out with her for a date in mid-july 2007. It started out pretty good that day but at the end, it ended somewhat unpleasant for both of us. In case you are wondering, we went to Canada's Wonderland. It was probably my fault for overdoing the "PUA, cocky" stuffs if you know what I'm talking about.:lol: She got turned off at the end and thought I was "mean". This bothers me really much because I'm a really nice and kind person. Under normal circumstance, I would never ever do/say mean things to a girl even if it was a joke. However, at that time, I took the advice and pretended to be a "bad ass". agh I guess I shouldn've overdone it.

After that day, I kind of stopped talking to her, and eventaully, it faded away. So one month later in late-august 2007, I went out with another girl at work, and we hooked up. Our relationship lasted until mid-november 2007 until it turned sour. Unfortunately for me, I still have feeling for this girl.

So I'm single from then and counting.:twisted:

Bumping your own year-old thread gotta be a new low.
It is worse since you didn't even post a picture of the girl or the other girl.
:evil:

[Digo]

ahahaha acting like a badass to impress a girl? that is so high school

[Digo]

Absolutely wrong! Women like to be pampered and made to feel special. In fact there probably isn't a person on this board who doesn't like to be pampered and have their ego stroked. Don't act like a jerk that treats his woman like trash. Treat her with respect and she will do the same for you, if not move on.


Not all women are the same. Some like to be pampered, some like to be told what to do, etc, but at the end of the day, every single girl will know exactly what type of person YOU are regardless of whatever act you put up. Your true colors show through after some time, and acting different from who you really are will only make it worse.

Just be confident about yourself, show your true colors, and see what happens. Now if all you are after is sex, then forget all that and good luck.

[molala]

ahahaha acting like a badass to impress a girl? that is so high school

i think he still is in high school....

Not all women are the same. Some like to be pampered, some like to be told what to do, etc, but at the end of the day, every single girl will know exactly what type of person YOU are regardless of whatever act you put up. Your true colors show through after some time, and acting different from who you really are will only make it worse.

Just be confident about yourself, show your true colors, and see what happens. Now if all you are after is sex, then forget all that and good luck.

but i highly doubt any girl would be interested at a guy who was a bad ass on the first date

[BananaWeed]

OP, you're ********.

[IronMac]

Quick! Before this thread implodes...what is "PUA, cocky"?

[monty613]

Quick! Before this thread implodes...what is "PUA, cocky"?

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Pickup_artist

[IronMac]

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Pickup_artist

Ohhh..thanks Monty...OP, you're an i***t...the playing field was ohhh-so-not-level! :lol: