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[Speed_Stick]

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[sexpuppet6000]

you remind me of myself a couple years ago.

i wish i were you in your shoes.

[CSR]

We need a relationship section....

[nsr250]

get her a LV purse,

http://www.redflagdeals.com/forums/showthread.php?t=432922

[UrbanPoet]

Hey guys well basically i really love this one girl and i messed up really bad and she said i reminded her of her ex which is really bad kzu hes a jerk and i know i messed up and acted likea jerk but i know i love her more then he did. i dont want to go into details so ill do this short, i really want to make her happy and its her birthday on april,21 which is mine as well which is even a better reason were meant for each other lol and what do you guys think would be a nice gift for her for her birthday. thanks for your help =D

you remind me of myself a couple years ago.

i wish i were you in your shoes.

man... you guys are friggin emo!
i remember i had one of these kinds of post on RFD 2 summers ago.
I got over it by partying on the weekends. :confused: I suggest you two do the same.:twisted:

[Speed_Stick]

man... you guys are friggin emo!
i remember i had one of these kinds of post on RFD 2 summers ago.
I got over it by partying on the weekends. :confused: I suggest you two do the same.:twisted:

no i tried that the only girl i want is her lol it sounds kinda gay but its true you could say im "sprung" for her

[CSR]

man... you guys are friggin emo!
i remember i had one of these kinds of post on RFD 2 summers ago.
I got over it by partying on the weekends. :confused: I suggest you two do the same.:twisted:

Hey UP, IIRC you had some threads like this too.

[drucillica]

man... you guys are friggin emo!
i remember i had one of these kinds of post on RFD 2 summers ago.
I got over it by partying on the weekends. :confused: I suggest you two do the same.:twisted:

OMG the infamous iPod thread, right? :lol: :lol: :lol:

[enforcerviper]

If you want serious answers I suggest using full proper sentences. Also, her age might help.

[dasaylay]

Use your speed stick ;)

[Big Brother]

+1 vote for the LV purse.

[ji2o0k]

PM me her contact info and a few pics..............I'll take care of it.....

[reqle55]

I was in the same situation, trust me...not worth your time or money! don't buy her anything, just send her an ecard!

Look at it this way...

1. The only thing she does is a "thank you" after the present, then you're SOL, and outta couple of bucks!

or

2. You buy her nothing, but send her an ecard wishing her a happy birthday. Then it still shows that you care. However, she still ignores ur arse, then you saved urself a couple of bux!

OR, if it was meant to be and you guys talk it out... then you're in good standings in either scenarios. I've known enough guys who just sent a nice email, talked things over and got back together.

Either situation, you're not in the driver's seat! For all the guys out there who's been in this situation....what do you think????

[ak-47]

a Tiffany ring

[UrbanPoet]

OMG the infamous iPod thread, right? :lol: :lol: :lol:

hehehe yeh... then i met a girl the next summer that fell on her face -_-
anyways... enough about my geeky love life :S the thread is on the OP :cheesygri

[The Master]

PM me her contact info and a few pics..............I'll take care of it.....

LOL!

[mahpoaht]

1. Take her to a super uber romantic dinner

1b. (Optional) Get her a LV purse as other suggested if your rich enough.

2. Get her down to business. :twisted:

[MizTEcK]

EL OH EL...


EL OH EL...



will this start another avalanche of teenage kids (or ppl trying to be funny) asking relationship questions again? :rolleyes:

[PQpine413]

buy her some quality made in japan DVDs/CDs ;)

you should plan out a nice date with a elegant dinner and then surprise party with her best friends to get her drunk so you can have your ways with her:twisted:

[dre145]

not worth it... if u want to keep her around for ur money then buy her something really expensive... then 3 months down the road u'll be the same jerk, but this time you'll be a poor jerk

[vrus]

Don't let go. Buy her megatokyo volumes 1 and 2. I will give you special love discount.

[doraemi]

bake her a cake

[formalentity]

a Tiffany ring

+1 , but don't make it super expensive try n fit the $50 LoL, just in case she doesn't get with you:P, if your working $50 shouldn't be too bad. Anyways just my opinion, I dunno if it'll work, Or even better just show her a really good time if you could possibly ask her out, but if you think she'll say no cuz shes pissed at you then might as well buy her something lol :P

[JAC]

Hey guys well basically i really love this one girl and i messed up really bad and she said i reminded her of her ex which is really bad kzu hes a jerk and i know i messed up and acted likea jerk but i know i love her more then he did. i dont want to go into details so ill do this short, i really want to make her happy and its her birthday on april,21 which is mine as well which is even a better reason were meant for each other lol and what do you guys think would be a nice gift for her for her birthday. thanks for your help =D

Dude, you're out. It's time to move on.

Trying to buy your way back into her life will just make you look pathetic.

[M-e-X-x]

I was in the same situation, trust me...not worth your time or money! don't buy her anything, just send her an ecard!

Look at it this way...

1. The only thing she does is a "thank you" after the present, then you're SOL, and outta couple of bucks!

or

2. You buy her nothing, but send her an ecard wishing her a happy birthday. Then it still shows that you care. However, she still ignores ur arse, then you saved urself a couple of bux!

OR, if it was meant to be and you guys talk it out... then you're in good standings in either scenarios. I've known enough guys who just sent a nice email, talked things over and got back together.

Either situation, you're not in the driver's seat! For all the guys out there who's been in this situation....what do you think????

a TRUE RFD'er answer.. save those bux!!

[diabolical7]

i say move onto the next chick theres plenty and if its over its over theres reasons why things break down

[Speed_Stick]

hey alrit ethanks for yuor inputs

[Frankie3s]

i say move onto the next chick theres plenty and if its over its over theres reasons why things break down

Agreed, good advice. There will be more and just when you think you couldn't love anyone else you'll see two.

[Mulder and Scully]

hey, need help really love this girl and not with her anymore and its her birthday...

1.) It's over unfortunately.
2.) Don't be the fool who tries to buy love.
3.) Don't be that creepy guy who stalks his ex.

[Rea1m]

Like most people said it's over, time to move on. BUT, if you absolutely must have her back (I know you probably think you just missed your one true chance at love, blah blah blah) there is a way.

You have to ignore her, pretend there isn't a thought of her in your mind. One day a well placed comment to her friends will have her calling you! For the next few weeks she doesn't exist, then during a casual conversation with one of her friends ask them how she is.

If you're needy and clingy now while trying to get her back she'll despise you forever. DO NOT get her a present, IF you happen to see her wish her a happy birthday, but even then do it casually.

Hope this helps!!

[YnD]

Tell her you love her... If she feels similiar, she'll either say it back or go "awwwwwwwwwwwww"...

Then this will lead to make up sex. :cheesygri

[hurtstopee]

if you must get her a present..i say to just get a card..but don't write a sappy apology since you probably apologized countless times already...just write down a warming happy b-day msg.

[bmw_xperience]

if you are not with her anymore that means she doesnt like you that way.
there is no point in doing anything. Nothing will convince her to like you.
That is the way it is.
Give it up.
move on.
im serious.

Totally agree... I was in your shoes a while back... then got swamped with Uni life... (basically a lot of studying and drinking). Don't bother trying to get her back, chances are u will find another one somewhere. And once you are done with University all you are worried about is how much u get paid. Love used to mean everything to me... but if you don't have a future (careerwise) love means nothing.

[Corinthein]

if you are not with her anymore that means she doesnt like you that way.
there is no point in doing anything. Nothing will convince her to like you.
That is the way it is.
Give it up.
move on.
im serious.

Agreed you can't force someone to fall in love with you. It ended for a reason.
My GF's ex boyfriend still pops up every so often trying to get back together with her even though he knows we live together and are in a long term relationship. Its pathetic and we laugh at him

[billdozer]

http://images.despair.com/products/demotivators/persistence.jpg

[Lone_Prodigy]

You could just be friends... get her something you would get all your friends.

Besides, this is RFD. Chances are you can get something nice for $5-10.

The Freebies section is good too.

[Diamondog]

Are you 12?

[Nikita]

The best gift you can give her is to respect her decision, even if that decision is to have nothing more to do with you.

But if you're going to ignore all this advice and are insistant on buying her a gift, yeah I'd go with the LV bag....the real deal, no knock-offs ;) Just don't expect her to fall back into your arms because of it.

[The Rochester Mirkins]

Suck it up, move on. Date her little sister.:D

[ElvaSoShexai]

careful, i think you might be suffering from "one itus":


Q- What is one-itis?
A- One-itis is defined as an infatuation with another individual who does not return those same feelings. One-itis victims can usually be seen pining over a single individual, constantly overanalyzing every situation, and asking his friends what he can do "to get this girl". One-itis is generally seen a malady because the "relationship" in question does not produce similar feelings from all individuals involved.

Q- How do I get over my one-itis?
A- Women tend to get over a guy when she's away from him. Men, on the other hand, have intensified feelings about a girl when she's around. You know what this means, right? Do the girl ritual.

Step 1- Delete her number and name from her cell phone. If she calls, tell her you "have to do ---. I'll talk to you later."

Step 2- Rid yourself of any pictures of her. Throw them in a deep closet. You're only defeating yourself by keeping them around.

Step 3- Delete your e-mail transactions and her messager screenname, in addition to any online connections that you may reach her at. Don't block her. You don't hate her; you just don't care anymore. She is not a special vagina.

Step 4- Avoid places that she frequents for a period of time. If you work with her, that's your fault for getting involved with your ****ing coworker.

Step 5-You're not angry at her; you're just moving on to bigger and better.

Step 6- Surround yourself with friends. Go out and pick up some girls.

Q- But she's special; she's different; she's perfect for me.
A- As of the last census, there are 6.5 billion people in the world. As the rough percentage of women is 53% of the total population, there are almost 3.5 billion women out there. Are you telling me that you just coincidentally tripped and fell into "the one"? There's a statistically higher chance of being struck by lightning three times than that being your "one special girl".

Q- Then why is she "perfect" for me?
A- Because males tend to rosetint and accentuate positive characteristics of women they feel they have a chance with. Try being critical of her one day. Notice how she doesn't shave her arms, or how she sports lovehandles, or has no common sense.

Q- Why do I feel that I have a chance?
A- She was either nice to you once or is still nice to you, but won't have sex with you because she likes feeling wanted. Thus, she likes having you around so that she can feel sexy, but she's not going to have sex with you. I've seen it work ONCE. ONE TIME. That's a single instance out of hundreds. Don't take the risk. Don't feed her ego and kick yourself in the balls day in and day out. Her bowel movements don't smell like lilacs. She's not special. You, on the other hand, are special, because when you realize that you can get ANY girl, one single girl means nothing to you.

Q- Why is one-itis bad?
A- Because a normal, healthy relationship consists of two (or more) individuals fulfilling each other and strengthening each individual. One-itis is one individual improving their confidence at the expense of another person. You can do better.

Q- How can I make sure I never get one-itis again?
A- Unlike what you would normally do in most situations (stop talking to women altogether), the goal here is to remain in contact with as many women as possible. This allows you to keep a "there's always more fish in the sea" perspective. Experience a lot of women, have sex with them if you choose, and attempt to hold a MLTR (multiple long term relationship).

Q- So if I forget about her and move on, then I'll get her?
A- Get that out of your mind. Time and time again, I've seen buddies who only go after girls in hopes that the girl he's "forgotten" about will get jealous and chase him. Not gonna happen.
...and if it does happen, once you come around, she'll drop you again in seconds. Accept the inevitability that she has to be tossed aside.

[JoKeRr]

bake her a cake

not quite, bake her a PIE instead

[abu_sme]

Here's what I would do, you just need to follow these steps.

1) Cut a hole in a box.
2) Put your junk in that box.
3) Make her open the box.


And thats the way you do it!

[Diamondog]

Here's what I would do, you just need to follow these steps.

1) Cut a hole in a box.
2) Put your junk in that box.
3) Make her open the box.


And thats the way you do it!

It's my C0ck in a box, yo........

[Speed_Stick]

lol you guys are funny nice ideas man ill just stick to mine lol but thanks anyways

[poppa]

Make it up to her with an iPod of songs that remind her of you.

[formalentity]

lol you guys are funny nice ideas man ill just stick to mine lol but thanks anyways

ya :P, but whatever u do don't miss the opportunity, cuz she might be the one :/

[xsighted]

Hey guys well basically i really love this one girl and i messed up really bad and she said i reminded her of her ex which is really bad kzu hes a jerk and i know i messed up and acted likea jerk but i know i love her more then he did. i dont want to go into details so ill do this short, i really want to make her happy and its her birthday on april,21 which is mine as well which is even a better reason were meant for each other lol and what do you guys think would be a nice gift for her for her birthday. thanks for your help =D

so you screwed up, and want to make up for it with a gift?

case 1 : she forgives you coz of the gift .. meaning.. she's milking you
case 2 : she doesnt forgive you .. meaning .. you screwed up again .. this time .. by wasting money ..


grow up ... and move on ..

[NiMSo]

How exactly did you "mess up"?

It depends on how severe you screwed up. If it's really bad and hurtful, I probably wouldn't want to help you either :lol:.

[jli]

no i tried that the only girl i want is her lol it sounds kinda gay but its true you could say im "sprung" for her

you're right, that does sound pretty gay haha

i'm just playing... sorta

how about instead of trying too hard and overthinking this, just be geunine and really try to make her happy on her bday. you know her best, since you say "you're meant for each other", so do something for her that you know she'd like. but don't come off too desperate.. cuz that's lame.

[CanadianDollar]

If you treated her bad before, what makes you think you'll treat her better in the future?

[4flava]

Best thing to do is treat her to a nice vacation... Hawaii or something.. but the only condition is that she has to go with you.

[najibs]

PM me her contact info and a few pics..............I'll take care of it.....

She needs a big surprise, not a small one.

[HBP]

She needs a big surprise, not a small one.

bahahahahahahaha

[SamInfinity]

how about, instead of shelling out lots of money, you do something that's just genuinely thoughtful. Do you guys have a song, or a special place where you met? Why not take her on a walk or a picnic. Weather is super-nice this weekend too! It's not how much you spend, but how much quality time you give each other. This way, you won't feel like a sucker after she milks you (IF she does) and you are just being yourself.

Since you also did something bad, I guess you should reflect on that...there's a saying, "once bitten, twice shy". Don't expect her to come back to you - you may need to move on as others have said.

[Fllay]

Get over it and move on. Don't waste your time on something that wasn't meant to be. I know breaking up is hard to do. You'll meet somebody else more/less special eventually. Trust me. :)

[stealth]

Its threads like this that make getting older seem not so bad. I love never feeling like this anymore.

Move on, you cant buy love, only rent it. You have to let the girl come to you. Nothing turns women off more than desperation and weakness.

[aznboi180]

bake her a cake

i agree with this idea .. or do anything that requires time and effort because it shows how much you care, instead of just simply buying a gift which will in return waste your money and secondly less effective. just remember to go with something meaningful.

[jayboogie]

Man, this is just a depressing thread to read. Do not snoop down to that level of desperation, it's just pathetic. Stop that simping crap immediately. Don't buy her anything, she ain't your girl. Do not go out begging and on your knees, there isn't a more humiliating way to go out. Move on, you can always do better. You're sprung because you lack confidence that you can find someone better.

[beidy]

if she still wants to be friends then get her a present you would give to a friend. if not, then forget about her. No point wasting money, she's not gonna take you back just because of a present

[Corinthein]

Man, this is just a depressing thread to read. Do not snoop down to that level of desperation, it's just pathetic. Stop that simping crap immediately. Don't buy her anything, she ain't your girl. Do not go out begging and on your knees, there isn't a more humiliating way to go out. Move on, you can always do better. You're sprung because you lack confidence that you can find someone better.

Amen Brother

[coeternity]

ummm goodluck ;)

[rfdrfd]

I'm guessing this stems from the fact that sometimes, when a girl accepts a gift from you, it makes you feel happier. Because for some wacked out reason, it seems like you have at least a CHANCE, instead of zero.

Its like in teen movies:

Nerd: So whats the chances of me hooking up with ya?
Girl: like 0.5%
Nerd: YES.... there is a chance !!!


Good luck to you OP.

[smg669]

Hey guys well basically i really love this one girl and i messed up really bad and she said i reminded her of her ex which is really bad kzu hes a jerk and i know i messed up and acted likea jerk but i know i love her more then he did. i dont want to go into details so ill do this short, i really want to make her happy and its her birthday on april,21 which is mine as well which is even a better reason were meant for each other lol and what do you guys think would be a nice gift for her for her birthday. thanks for your help =D

Give her the gift of punctuation.

[Harkonnen]

Give her the gift of punctuation.

When I first read this thread, I wanted to make a comment like the one you made, I just couldn't word it correctly...then I lost interest and went outside.

Kudos to you sir :)

[Speed_Stick]

yeah im just gonna move on, she showed me a lot of signs that she desperately dosnt want to be back with me so ill just move on now and find someone taht wants me as bad as i want them.