calling all the self-claimed good kissers

[pothia]

this is kinda funny and at the same time it confuses me:

I am currently in a relationship with this girl. (been about 5 months)
After having had 3 gfs in the past, I was told for the first time last week that i am a really bad kisser because my style involves too much tongue.

Now, I've never even come close to realize that I am that bad and therefore I need advice from all of you guys. What's your style? And try to be as specific as possible.

Thanks.

[najibs]

If you were kissing her other set of lips, I'm sure she wouldn't complain about too much tongue :cheesygri

[Brownbear]

^^^ What He Said
Lol

[SwiZz]

If you were kissing her other set of lips, I'm sure she wouldn't complain about too much tongue :cheesygri

bwahahahahha

that deserves a scarborough $ee//\\// !!!!!!!!!

[blizzah]

If you were kissing her other set of lips, I'm sure she wouldn't complain about too much tongue :cheesygri

Best post in long time

[Cyber6]

this is kinda funny and at the same time it confuses me:

I am currently in a relationship with this girl. (been about 5 months)
After having had 3 gfs in the past, I was told for the first time last week that i am a really bad kisser because my style involves too much tongue.

Now, I've never even come close to realize that I am that bad and therefore I need advice from all of you guys. What's your style? And try to be as specific as possible.

Thanks.

Sorry to say that this is not much about your kissing technique but how much she is "in" to you. If she really dig you, she'll be more into showing you (ex. teaching you) how to kiss her the way she likes it.

I love tongue... but it has to come from that guy that really turns me on. ;)


Either ask her to "teach" you... or go find someone who digs your "style".. :twisted:



C.

[SwiZz]

Sorry to say that this is not much about your kissing technique but how much she is "in" to you. If she really dig you, she'll be more into showing you (ex. teaching you) how to kiss her the way she likes it.

I love tongue... but it has to come from that guy that really turns me on. ;)


Either ask her to "teach" you... or go find someone who digs your "style".. :twisted:



C.

don't always use the tongue....learn to kiss with just your lips...sandwich their upper and bottom lips each seperate with your lips and kiss like that a bit....bit their bottom lip and pull on it a little and give a quiet little 'rawr' and smile at her..

a good passionate kiss involves not just your lips.....but what you do with your hands...your body...

try putting your hands at the cheek sides of her face with your fingers wrapping at the back of the head ..or do that with one hand, and pull her lower back towards you with the other so that your crotches are being pushed up against each other.

take your hand that was at the side of her face from tiem to time and put your fingers through the hair thats near her forehead and push it back...

alternate with things...

there's nothign wrong with tongueing the hell out of her..but like the poster above said..do whatever she likes. if she doesn't like it. then dont go for it. its all about pleasing her man....communication is the best thing you have. ask her what she likes...

[shabby]

If you were kissing her other set of lips, I'm sure she wouldn't complain about too much tongue :cheesygri

Hah ya if you explain it to her that way then im sure she wont mind :D

[vladislav]

its all about pleasing her man.......

its all about pleasing her, man......

Jokes aside, I agree. Some women like tongue, some hate it, there is no universal kiss. You become a 'good kisser' when you can read what woman wants.

[najibs]

a good passionate kiss involves not just your lips.....but what you do with your hands...your body...


Yes, it's all about the tease. As your kissing, stick one of your hands down her pants, and pretend you're surfing RFD, by going for the scroll wheel on her mouse. SCROLL SCROLL SCROLL SCROLL. CLICK CLICK CLICK CLICK. SCROLL SCROLL SCROLL SCROLL.

[bubble.tea]

najibs...it's amazing you haven't replace /Ask Sue/ yet on Sundy Nights.

Having said that., I was doubting if I should make an appearance...I am NOT a self-proclaimed good kisser....I am TOLD I am the best-by the ONLY woman in this world who I care to please.

[lilnymphie]

I don't claim to be a good kisser, but I know what I don't like in a kiss. I HATE slobberers. I know quite a few girls who hate that as well. It was featured in one of the Sex and the City episodes as well.

I don't know what you mean by using tongue, but if you ...slobber, drool, just wetly smack your tongue against her lips... that's gross.

Maybe try to cut down how much you drool on her. If you really like tongue, wait till she's more worked up.

[D-3vil]

there's no one way to kiss best, it varies with every person.
If you really like each other, you'll work at it. And in the end, your kisses (and everything else, too) will be that much more satisfying.

[eelfliw]

Have some "self-esteem", OP. Just because one girl tells you you're a bad kisser, it doesn't mean you are one. It is just one person's opinion. What does she know about kissing?

Find someone else to kiss.

[mrlooneytoon]

If you were kissing her other set of lips, I'm sure she wouldn't complain about too much tongue :cheesygri

what other set of lips? i'm innocent.

[cmge]

what other set of lips? i'm innocent.

google Labia

[Oni-kun]

If you were kissing her other set of lips, I'm sure she wouldn't complain about too much tongue :cheesygri

LOL GOLD.

Yes, it's all about the tease. As your kissing, stick one of your hands down her pants, and pretend you're surfing RFD, by going for the scroll wheel on her mouse. SCROLL SCROLL SCROLL SCROLL. CLICK CLICK CLICK CLICK. SCROLL SCROLL SCROLL SCROLL.

MORE GOLD!