What do you do if a girl likes you?

[jayisthebest88]

Lets say a girl that is my friend likes me but, I just consider her as a friend, What are you supposed to do in this situation? This is a hypothetical situation...Lets just say that...I had no idea of this until recently, Its like BAM! everything that happened starts to make sense and everyone around u is hinting at it but U just want to be a friend and u keep denying that it can be true??

do I just continue to pretend I have no idea? or do I confront her and say im not interested??

This has never happened to me before, And I dont want to do anything stupid....and make anyone hurt...


Again this is all hypothetical....

[B40]

Start acting gay until she no longer likes you.

[lost~user]

tell her there's this girls that you met... and show some real interest towards this new girl...

[Brownbear]

if shes hot, bang her
if shes not, dont bang her and pretend that you are completely oblivious of her feelings towards you :)

[weedb0y]

What is the average age of people on this forum now a days?

8?

[ji2o0k]

doesn't matter if she is hot or not..............bang her..............make sure the lights are off or close your eyes if she isn't hot..........

[Supershyguy]

What is the average age of people on this forum now a days?

8?

6 I think

[lost~user]

6 I think
:lol: more like a bunch of sex deprived males...

[taro-chan]

Start acting gay until she no longer likes you.
Careful with that one. She may try harder to bring you back to the other side of the fence.

[thelefteyeguy]

your friendship is over...she went beyond the boundaries and will now face the consequences.

Tell her that you are flattered, but you are not interested.

Don't give her the BS like you treat her like a sister, or that she isnt your cup of tea, or your type. NO excuses. Cause she will ask you why.

Take some time off from her. A good 3 or 4 months. Then ask her for coffee in that time. If the meeting is normal, perhaps you can become friends still

Good luck.

[teknoluv]

What do you do if a girl likes you?
It happens all the time; you just don't do anything.

[lost~user]

your friendship is over...she went beyond the boundaries and will now face the consequences.
According to the OP, she hasn't done anything..... just hints as he said. So I don't think any boundaries were crossed. It sounds very harsh when you say 'face the consequences'. I don't think it's fair to punish someone that likes you.
Don't give her the BS like you treat her like a sister, or that she isnt your cup of tea, or your type. NO excuses. Cause she will ask you why.
I don't think those are BS excuses, alot of my close friends that are girls and I treat them like my little sisters. I've had the experience of one of them liking me, and I gave her that reason... I see her like my little sister, and I don't want to ruin the great friendship that we had. I told her that I had no interest in her and we can forget this whole incident. I'm still friends with her now and it's not awkward at all.

[peroxide8888]

What is the average age of people on this forum now a days?

8?C'mon now, this could be a serious situation!

Punch her in the arm and tell her to get lost (laugh when you do it, so she'll know you still wanna be friends).

[steve.m]

yep friendship over methinks. No matter how many times and different ways you try to say "Lets just be friends", she will understand it as "you too ugly for me". At First she will be really hurt and start skipping classes/days from school, then she will will get mad and try to "get you back" by finding a guy in your class to play boyfriend with and then make sure you notice by both of them sitting near you.

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try telling her erections are against your religion. :lol:

[HighFlyer]

do I just continue to pretend I have no idea?
yes
or do I confront her and say im not interested??
until she says something, you do absolutely nothing.

[Shaner]

I gotta agree with a few others, if she's good looking, try and play the casual sex card. You don't have to date her, just make sure it's purely physical and not emotional.

[thelefteyeguy]

According to the OP, she hasn't done anything..... just hints as he said. So I don't think any boundaries were crossed. It sounds very harsh when you say 'face the consequences'. I don't think it's fair to punish someone that likes you.

I don't think those are BS excuses, alot of my close friends that are girls and I treat them like my little sisters. I've had the experience of one of them liking me, and I gave her that reason... I see her like my little sister, and I don't want to ruin the great friendship that we had. I told her that I had no interest in her and we can forget this whole incident. I'm still friends with her now and it's not awkward at all.


honestly...you'll feel like sh1t if someone told you that you treat her like a sister/brother/sibling etc instead. It's best not to give a reason. She'll understand.

Honestly...that's what all girls do ...if you think the girls are going to say it straight up...it's not going to happen.


you can pretend that nothing happened...but eventually it will come out....remember that. You'll be put on the spot. So be prepared.

Else it's best to stay away for 3 months. Honestly sleeping with her is a really bad idea...you'll hurt her even more. Or she'll go crazy on you :D

[Mulder and Scully]

I'd say punch yourself in the face for starting these ridiculous and immature threads.

Lets say a girl that is my friend likes me but, I just consider her as a friend, What are you supposed to do in this situation? This is a hypothetical situation...Lets just say that...I had no idea of this until recently, Its like BAM! everything that happened starts to make sense and everyone around u is hinting at it but U just want to be a friend and u keep denying that it can be true??

[wolf30]

if she doesn't mention it pretend you don't know. If she tells you then tell her your not interested. She'll be hurting for a while but afterwards she'll be normal again.

[McLaren]

if shes hot, bang her
if shes not, dont bang her and pretend that you are completely oblivious of her feelings towards you :)

You can still bang her, just put a paper bag over her head.

[lost~user]

honestly...you'll feel like sh1t if someone told you that you treat her like a sister/brother/sibling etc instead. It's best not to give a reason. She'll understand.
Honestly...that's what all girls do ...if you think the girls are going to say it straight up...it's not going to happen.
They'll still want a reason if it's not going to happen....

you can pretend that nothing happened...but eventually it will come out....remember that. You'll be put on the spot. So be prepared.
You're going to need to elaborate on how I'm gonna "be put on the spot".

Else it's best to stay away for 3 months. Honestly sleeping with her is a really bad idea...you'll hurt her even more. Or she'll go crazy on you :D
I never said anything about sleeping with her....

[messie]

IMO... u should be a little bit distant..still be a friend, but let's say she asks u to go for coffee or go see a movie.. don't go to everything she asks u to.. start distancing yourself a little and she'll get the idea

[Supershyguy]

if shes hot, bang her
if shes not, dont bang her and pretend that you are completely oblivious of her feelings towards you :)


If he finds her "Hot", do you think this thread would be created?

lol

I would be more likely to be a

"I just banged my hot friend" thread

[atforum]

why has everyone become so addicted to carnal pleasures?? dont have any feelings?? cant understand why should you go around the street banging everyone...probably you can open a strip club sort of thing run by men and enjoy

[Dryluck]

IMO... u should be a little bit distant..still be a friend, but let's say she asks u to go for coffee or go see a movie.. don't go to everything she asks u to.. start distancing yourself a little and she'll get the idea

I would advice against this, it may be interpreted as playing "hard to get". It could further encourage her to pursue you.

I generally agree with thelefteyeguy. It's best to spend some time apart because there's no misinterpreting that! And once enough time passes, try getting back together as friends and see how it works out.

[Brownbear]

If he finds her "Hot", do you think this thread would be created?

lol

I would be more likely to be a

"I just banged my hot friend" thread

Touché

is that the proper accent?


You can still bang her, just put a paper bag over her head.

LOL, im sure she would appreciate this.

[Shaner]

why has everyone become so addicted to carnal pleasures?? dont have any feelings?? cant understand why should you go around the street banging everyone...probably you can open a strip club sort of thing run by men and enjoy

Why? Because it feels good and it's fun!
Life is too short, so I'm going to enjoy the time I have rather than worry about always doing the "right" thing.

If something is enjoyable, why not do it (within reason)?

[Brownbear]

Why? Because it feels good and it's fun!
Life is too short, so I'm going to enjoy the time I have rather than worry about always doing the "right" thing.

If something is enjoyable, why not do it (within reason)?

LOL QFT

[blexann]

bang her regardless of what she looks like.

[drucillica]

Wow you guys are a bunch of @ssholes. No wonder this forum is filled with pathetic relationship threads. Grow up.

[Shaner]

Wow you guys are a bunch of @ssholes. No wonder this forum is filled with pathetic relationship threads. Grow up.

Loosen up!
Just because some people enjoy casual sex with no strings attached doesn't make them a$$holes.
Not everyone in this country subscribes to your beliefs and values. Learn to respect other people's beliefs and values.

[drucillica]

Loosen up!
Just because some people enjoy casual sex with no strings attached doesn't make them a$$holes.
Not everyone in this country subscribes to your beliefs and values. Learn to respect other people's beliefs and values.

I don't have a problem with casual sex.
But in this situation, the sex wouln't be exactly casual when the other personal is clearly emotionally involved. I just think it's wrong to take advantage of that poor girl. Sorry, this has nothing to do with not respecting someone's beliefs/values.

[sickcars]

LOLOLOLOLOL!! :lol:

Got some good ones in here, lololol!

Just bang her and if she askes if ur her bf just be like....Bf??? I thought you wanted to be bang Buddies ;)

:cheesygri

Ciao

[Handa]

Lets say a girl that is my friend likes me but, I just consider her as a friend, What are you supposed to do in this situation? This is a hypothetical situation...Lets just say that...I had no idea of this until recently, Its like BAM! everything that happened starts to make sense and everyone around u is hinting at it but U just want to be a friend and u keep denying that it can be true??

do I just continue to pretend I have no idea? or do I confront her and say im not interested??

This has never happened to me before, And I dont want to do anything stupid....and make anyone hurt...


Again this is all hypothetical....

You look in the mirror and say 'stop being such a f*cking pussy and be nice to people who like you, because there will be a fair share in your life that will hate you.'

[Nyte]

I could give my opinion too, but forget what everyone else is saying.

Do whatever it is that YOU want to do about it.

[atforum]

I don't have a problem with casual sex.
But in this situation, the sex wouln't be exactly casual when the other personal is clearly emotionally involved. I just think it's wrong to take advantage of that poor girl. Sorry, this has nothing to do with not respecting someone's beliefs/values.

yes I agree. As long as both ppl want casual sex its fine. Taking advantage of some girl this way amounts to an emotional rape

Why? Because it feels good and it's fun!
Life is too short, so I'm going to enjoy the time I have rather than worry about always doing the "right" thing.

If something is enjoyable, why not do it (within reason)?

this case is not within reason( Taking advantage of someone else for your pleasure)

[nx2k]

i'd bang her regardless
just bang her but dont' commit

Those who are hating on people like me who do it themselves if the oppotunity came up

[atforum]

i'd bang her regardless
just bang her but dont' commit

Those who are hating on people like me who do it themselves if the oppotunity came up

probably you should not equate everyone to you :| ...

[Handa]

I could give my opinion too, but forget what everyone else is saying.

Do whatever it is that YOU want to do about it.

He's asking our opinion. DUH

[Sonbuster]

is the girl in your avatar the one that likes you? if so, you're gay. no offense

[Shaner]

I don't have a problem with casual sex.
But in this situation, the sex wouln't be exactly casual when the other personal is clearly emotionally involved. I just think it's wrong to take advantage of that poor girl. Sorry, this has nothing to do with not respecting someone's beliefs/values.

The people telling the OP to trick the girl into sex then kick her to the curb are just 14 year olds who are likely still virgins. They are saying it because they think it's funny for some reason, not because they actually think the OP should do that.

Just don't take those people seriously. They are immature and will one day grow up.

I gotta say though, if she's not emotionally involved and just wants you, play the casual sex card, you won't regret it.

[robattoronto]

Treat her the way you would have liked to be treated if you were in her shoes.

My advice? There's no need freak out, be a little flattered, take it with stride and move on. If she makes a move, let her down easy. What goes around comes around.

[masterballer]

is the girl in your avatar the one that likes you? if so, you're gay. no offense


lmao, you make a good point. :lol:

[blexann]

Wow you guys are a bunch of @ssholes. No wonder this forum is filled with pathetic relationship threads. Grow up.


Hey, if a stack of paper makes YOU feel good well then to each's own. I hope the OP bangs her real good.

[K@$H!F]

doesn't matter if she is hot or not..............bang her..............make sure the lights are off or close your eyes if she isn't hot..........


:arrowu: :cheesygri :arrowu: :lol: :arrowu:

[Jucius Maximus]

Tell her that you think her friend is hot.

[Alvito]

stop, drop, roll.

[jayisthebest88]

Lol, How did I know that I would get these kind of responces??

Well the truth is, I would say the same thing if someone else asked this question....


Anyways, yeah this thread might be a little immature, I should know what to do by now, but I dont want to hurt anyone...

Im just going to keep pretending that I dont know whats going on,

and btw, she is not kriisten kreuk, just in case u didnt know,

[trixstar]

i do nothing.. just do what friends do. and fail to recognize the attention she wants..

[kingfencer]

all the girls that i like, don't like me, and vice versa. lets see, one was single mother, other obese, one was african...

[najibs]

Lets say a girl that is my friend likes me but, I just consider her as a friend, What are you supposed to do in this situation? This is a hypothetical situation...Lets just say that...I had no idea of this until recently, Its like BAM! everything that happened starts to make sense and everyone around u is hinting at it but U just want to be a friend and u keep denying that it can be true??

do I just continue to pretend I have no idea? or do I confront her and say im not interested??

This has never happened to me before, And I dont want to do anything stupid....and make anyone hurt...


Again this is all hypothetical....

Take advantage of the situation, and get some booty :twisted:

[LegiT]

For RFD to come to a final conclusion on what you should do, we request that you post a photo of this "girl" so other members can either:
A. HF if she's hot.
B. Photoshop the picture and post it everywhere if she's not hot.
C. Tell you what you should do.