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snow_white
Sep 28th, 2006, 10:43 PM
You've dated many people (even some you don't care to admit to), and you finally realize what you want in that dreamy gal/guy. And miraculously, you find her/him. You get to know them, they're HOT as hell and have an awesome personality. Fairytale come true? Not always! What's the one thing that would turn you off the MOST in this situation? (what would make you leave her/him no matter how great she/he was?)

This should be interesting!

My answer: if he wasn't a multi-tasker! :cheesygri

Electricute
Sep 28th, 2006, 10:44 PM
a package where there shouldn't be a package

najibs
Sep 28th, 2006, 10:45 PM
well if they're hot and are 'perfect' as you say, then there's no flaws! :lol:

nazarbayev1129
Sep 28th, 2006, 10:45 PM
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If she doesn't like me. :(

snow_white
Sep 28th, 2006, 10:47 PM
well if they're hot and are 'perfect' as you say, then there's no flaws! :lol:

Well, a lot of ppl think that one person is "perfect" and don't want to admit to seeing those flaws. It's what they call infatuation or blinded by love... lol.

NiMSo
Sep 28th, 2006, 10:47 PM
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If she doesn't like me. :(


LoL, I know a lot of people with that exact same flaw!!! Wow, what a small world... :lol:

UrbanPoet
Sep 28th, 2006, 10:54 PM
ugly feet. I cant stand..... ugly feet. =\

steve.m
Sep 28th, 2006, 11:08 PM
If she has man hands. :lol:

Odysseus_Maximus
Sep 28th, 2006, 11:10 PM
a package where there shouldn't be a package

LOL :lol: :lol:

Finding out she smokes a crazy amount of cigarettes.

sweetnlow
Sep 28th, 2006, 11:13 PM
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If she doesn't like me. :(


Sigh, banned already??? LOL.

EDIT: Oh I forgot to post re: thread topic! Um, if I found out they were a pedophile?

HighFlyer
Sep 28th, 2006, 11:13 PM
smoking.

B40
Sep 28th, 2006, 11:14 PM
a package where there shouldn't be a package

no package where there should be a package

sexpuppet6000
Sep 28th, 2006, 11:16 PM
this is a stupid thread. but ill play along and say smoking.

dazz
Sep 28th, 2006, 11:17 PM
If she farts, drinks like crasy, if she's a some kind of killer or anything in that sort. If she doesn't like sex. That's important. She doesn't like it now,few years into marriage,she'll won't give anything at all!! :lol:

gretzky99
Sep 28th, 2006, 11:22 PM
bad in bed

snow_white
Sep 28th, 2006, 11:33 PM
Hence, the multi-tasker!

Yes..sex is a must... if not nymph, I pass!

hyperion
Sep 28th, 2006, 11:44 PM
Hence, the multi-tasker!

Yes..sex is a must... if not nymph, I pass!

Why, hello there! ;)

dougi3000
Sep 28th, 2006, 11:52 PM
smoking.
Biggest turn off EVAR

Ogata
Sep 28th, 2006, 11:54 PM
smoking.
Biggest turn off EVAR

I agree and if they are a goldigger

snow_white
Sep 29th, 2006, 12:08 AM
Why, hello there! ;)

Sex is tooo important in a relationship. If they don't want to do it all the time, then it's a turn off for me (but this usually isn't a problem with most guys who are always ready... lol).

tigger03
Sep 29th, 2006, 12:09 AM
smoking ... drugs ... >:(

FearSonic
Sep 29th, 2006, 12:11 AM
If she has man hands. :lol:

:lol: :lol: :lol:

Facial hair. >:(

BadDrafter
Sep 29th, 2006, 12:14 AM
The big turn off for me is country music. I can't stand it, it's a dealbreaker, more than smoking is. I've dated smokers but I've turned down many a hottie because they listen to it all the time.

HighFlyer
Sep 29th, 2006, 12:22 AM
another one..... a woman who swears all the time. nothing is more of a turnoff (other than smoking), than listening to a woman who uses the F word more times than any of the other words combined in a sentence. now if she swears every once in awhile.... ok.

babytee
Sep 29th, 2006, 12:29 AM
I would say the deal breaker for me would be abuse (emotional or pysical) to myself or my children)

JohnB
Sep 29th, 2006, 12:33 AM
a package where there shouldn't be a package
:)

snow_white
Sep 29th, 2006, 12:38 AM
another one..... a woman who swears all the time. nothing is more of a turnoff (other than smoking), than listening to a woman who uses the F word more times than any of the other words combined in a sentence. now if she swears every once in awhile.... ok.

Damn..I dated a guy like that too! turn-off!

Juidd
Sep 29th, 2006, 01:08 AM
bad hygiene....

Alvito
Sep 29th, 2006, 01:09 AM
You've dated many people (even some you don't care to admit to), and you finally realize what you want in that dreamy gal/guy. And miraculously, you find her/him. You get to know them, they're HOT as hell and have an awesome personality. Fairytale come true? Not always! What's the one thing that would turn you off the MOST in this situation? (what would make you leave her/him no matter how great she/he was?)

This should be interesting!

My answer: if he wasn't a multi-tasker! :cheesygri

WHAT THE HELL ARE YOU TRYING TO ask?

nickia
Sep 29th, 2006, 01:13 AM
another one..... a woman who swears all the time. nothing is more of a turnoff (other than smoking), than listening to a woman who uses the F word more times than any of the other words combined in a sentence. now if she swears every once in awhile.... ok.

yeah i agree with you. It's kind of cute for a girl to swear once a while. BUT it's really annoying and disgusting to be swearing all the time. It indicates lack of education and proper manner.

Anessa
Sep 29th, 2006, 01:16 AM
Your McDreamy turns out to be McMarried.

ronny1980
Sep 29th, 2006, 01:26 AM
Rough skin.

Facial hair.

najibs
Sep 29th, 2006, 01:27 AM
Sex is tooo important in a relationship. If they don't want to do it all the time, then it's a turn off for me (but this usually isn't a problem with most guys who are always ready... lol).

I'm build for speed. I'm in it for ME. I'm selfish :lol:

Siefer999
Sep 29th, 2006, 01:49 AM
a package where there shouldn't be a package
definitly :arrowu:

islandboy_007
Sep 29th, 2006, 02:21 AM
dumb
bad teeth
hairy
materialistic
doesnt swallow

snow_white
Sep 29th, 2006, 02:29 AM
WHAT THE HELL ARE YOU TRYING TO ask?

Learn how to READ the posting!

lost~user
Sep 29th, 2006, 05:05 AM
doesnt swallow
:-0 for real? Maybe it's time for me to get a new GF. I think the biggest turn off is a girl that isn't honest....and one that isn't loyal... no integrity...

and just for jokes... a girl that wants a relationship :lol:

redi2roc
Sep 29th, 2006, 06:38 AM
LOL I think im gonna agree on what Islandboy said about the swallowing part hehe But meh thats just me :)

Umm lets see hers more!

Bad breath
Annoying like Winney? (Like thoes Japanese gurls that go A Chuuuuuueeee.) ALl the time and act like babies sorta? (get what I mean?)
Girls that get ANgry Way to quick
High Maintanance
Oh Leghair Sux real bad Soo nasty
TO much umm u know "hair down dare!"
Cant Keep A conversation going
Moody alot

Yes I know Im pickey lol But I know how to treat a lady all I ask is for a few things in return and Ill bring em the world!

Bortman
Sep 29th, 2006, 09:18 AM
smoking.

Bingo. Pretty much my only deal breaker.

lost~user
Sep 29th, 2006, 09:24 AM
Annoying like Winney? (Like thoes Japanese gurls that go A Chuuuuuueeee.) ALl the time and act like babies sorta? (get what I mean?)
Girls that get ANgry Way to quick
Moody alot
I think u've just cut off 90% of women with that list. I agree with you, but the girls who don't have any of those qualities are no longer on the market.... :(

lochlan651
Sep 29th, 2006, 09:53 AM
If she was a member of the NDP.

lost~user
Sep 29th, 2006, 10:02 AM
If she was a member of the NDP.
I guess Olivia Chow is out of the question for you huh? :lol:

Cacti
Sep 29th, 2006, 10:26 AM
If they have hair above there butt.

lochlan651
Sep 29th, 2006, 11:06 AM
I guess Olivia Chow is out of the question for you huh? :lol:

Well, there are lots of other things about Olivia that would stop me before I got as far as "everything is perfect except for..."

lost~user
Sep 29th, 2006, 11:11 AM
Well, there are lots of other things about Olivia that would stop me before I got as far as "everything is perfect except for..."
the real question is... IS there anything perfecct on her? :lol:

konfusion666
Sep 29th, 2006, 11:14 AM
no package where there should be a package

both packages instead of one package...

PrinceMS
Sep 29th, 2006, 11:35 AM
Been there ... She was taken already :)

Handa
Sep 29th, 2006, 12:53 PM
If they chewed like a cow.

nini1204
Sep 29th, 2006, 02:55 PM
smoking/egotistical/obnoxious/selfish (sorree, more than just one here :razz: )

altho unsure if i believe in such thing as being "perfect"...i dunt think anyone is perfect (of course including myself as well :) )...from attractiveness perspective => the infatuation usually slow down with time, but that's quite normal, even if the girl/guy is very attractive...what shines with time is substance, that alone can make world of difference imho...i think most ppl in the long run would rather be with someone who's grounded, good head on the shoulder, & have positive influence on their life (but they dunt have to be "perfect").

snow_white
Sep 29th, 2006, 02:56 PM
smoking/egotistical/obnoxious (sorree, more than just one here :razz: )

LOL... once you figure out one flaw..the rest keeping coming!!!

September
Sep 29th, 2006, 02:58 PM
serial cheater with VD

drucillica
Sep 29th, 2006, 03:34 PM
dishonest and selfish

konfusion666
Sep 29th, 2006, 03:36 PM
If they chewed like a cow.

even worse is if they actually WERE a cow, but wearing a man-suit

lost~user
Sep 29th, 2006, 03:49 PM
even worse is if they actually WERE a cow, but wearing a man-suit
Then u'll def need the slimming feature being talking about on this thread (http://www.redflagdeals.com/forums/showthread.php?t=346304)

Cafe_333
Sep 29th, 2006, 04:28 PM
this will never happen to me because in order to determine that she is the one I want to be with for the rest of my life, I would have all the information gathered about them before I decide she is the right one. point in point, the perfect partner as you describe it won't have something that is so imperfect about them that would make me want to leave. doesn't that just mean your judgement was incorrect about them being perfect? ;)

batman321123
Sep 29th, 2006, 05:24 PM
First thing that came to mind was smoking. I can't stand chicks who smoke.