Time to settle for a REAL relationship...where do i start?

[hhh]

ok, i think it's time for me to settle down for a real relationship with a girl instead of having random plays/casual relationships...

I'm having trouble on where to start....i don't go clubbing much....i'm having a hard time finding a girl to date / start a real relationship....where is a good place to start meeting girls? If you don't mind, share your story about how you and your girl/boyfriend met...maybe it'll give me some ideas....

[mrmoe]

your right hand

[keanefan]

where is a good place to start meeting girls?

CHURCH, temple, synagogue, etc

[lilnymphie]

Network. Friends of friends, friends of family, friends of coworkers etc. Go out to every event you're invited to and pretend to smile or have fun. Get as many potentials as you can.

[corrupt123]

club

or as mentioned, a random event you got an invite to.

[drucillica]

www.friendster.com

[UrbanPoet]

clubs arent good places to meet girls....
Ive met some amazingly hot girls, with the personality of a card board box. -_- couldnt go anywhere.

I met some really fun girls, but they were. err..... too "fun" .......

But it is good to network. to have friends, with friends. then it all kinda becomes interconnected!

[x86asm]

One of my friend met his other half on a high school classmates reunion. Another one of my friend met her bf from on-line dating thing and they are happily together and serious about it.

LOL...may be we can get a dating service here on RFD. That would have been really cool.

Good Luck

That idea has already been suggested and didn't go over too well :lol:

[orly]

you can start here http://www.redflagdeals.com/forums/showthread.php?t=257307

[d_jedi]

you can start here http://www.redflagdeals.com/forums/showthread.php?t=257307
(that thread is locked, so I'll add my comment here..)
we should call it Red Light Deals
:D

[hugh_da_man]

Settle...lol

I wouldn't use language like that in your new REAL relationship.

[Newt]

Network. Friends of friends, friends of family, friends of coworkers etc. Go out to every event you're invited to and pretend to smile or have fun. Get as many potentials as you can.

That is definitely the best way in my opinion. Don't go to clubs to meet girls that you want to settle with.

I met my girlfriend through friendster, and we are in a serious relationship, so I guess you just gotta try all your options.

[PlayerOne]

i don't really get how people can "meet their gf/bf" on friendster, so what do you do, just go through your friend's friend's friends list and just talk to a random girl/guy that passes your visual test?

[john widow]

Hey PlayerOne!!!

How bout we try to hook you up. You tell us your location, like a city, that you live in, And whoever else on RFD is around your area, tries to hook you up anonymously, like by making you 2 meet in a certain location.

[lilnymphie]

Hey PlayerOne!!!

How bout we try to hook you up. You tell us your location, like a city, that you live in, And whoever else on RFD is around your area, tries to hook you up anonymously, like by making you 2 meet in a certain location.

Hehe, that sounds interesting.

[Steeve Urkel]

One of my friend met his other half on a high school classmates reunion. Another one of my friend met her bf from on-line dating thing and they are happily together and serious about it.

LOL...may be we can get a dating service here on RFD. That would have been really cool.

Good Luck

I was told the anser to that question Dear Sir is NEGATORY....NO!

I made that suggestion earlier and my thread was completely bashed on!

But...seriously!
Get out and do "stuff".
I usually meet nice guys at the mall, grocery store, leaving work, Chapters, volonteering.
Or when you go to alot of Festivals volonteer parties you meet some cool people...

Bars are ok for meeting guys. I dated a guy for 1 year that I met in a bar...exept I sort of knew him before and he knew one of my friends.

But meeting people through friends is usually good!

Online dating is ok- lots of creepy guys I find though!

or join a sports club, you always meet fun people there- and they usually go out to the pub every week afterwards!

Bars and clubs are fun, but more for hanging out with friends than meeting guys I find!

[john widow]

Do you have some friends that are cool? And do you have some friends....................................which are, forever friends?

[PlayerOne]

Hey PlayerOne!!!

How bout we try to hook you up. You tell us your location, like a city, that you live in, And whoever else on RFD is around your area, tries to hook you up anonymously, like by making you 2 meet in a certain location.

haha, i'm in a little messy situation at the moment

however i'm willing to bet it won't happen, that a girl would actualy meet up with some guy on rfd,

so you know what? sure, I'll tell a little about myself, and if I end up meeting this mystery girl in person and i find to have potential, i will admit defeat, and to show how much I doubt this will happen, I give my word that if it does happen, I will buy everyone on page 1 of this thread a drink(provided you're willing to go to downtown toronto)

i'm male, 19, chinese, 5'8", studying at UT for engineering, not model material, not butt ugly, have a sense of humor, perfer an asian girl, not interested in girls that sleeps and flirts with every other guy

prove me wrong

[obernewtyn]

ok, i think it's time for me to settle down for a real relationship with a girl instead of having random plays/casual relationships...

I'm having trouble on where to start....i don't go clubbing much....i'm having a hard time finding a girl to date / start a real relationship....where is a good place to start meeting girls? If you don't mind, share your story about how you and your girl/boyfriend met...maybe it'll give me some ideas....

First triple h, stop watching wrestling...if you were like triple h, you wouldnt have a problem finding a relation with like a stephanie McMahon. j/k

I would go clubbing. Try finding a girl in your school. Like a class mate or even a co-worker to start off. Then ask them to chill sometime. Avoid churches and temples if your only there with the attention of macking on girls.

if you're rich or can act like you're rich, use your money to get girls. I don't suggest this but i've seen too many guys do that and it works...but those kind of girls are only into your money first.

[lilnymphie]

i'm male, 19, chinese, 5'8", studying at UT for engineering, not model material, not butt ugly, have a sense of humor, perfer an asian girl, not interested in girls that sleeps and flirts with every other guy



Heheheheheehe, asian male studying engin/comp/maths. Such notoriously bad odds of them having gfs ;)

Join a club. Do it hardcore tho, don't wishwash it through. Interact with the significant female members of the club. However, be sure the club you join has ...significant female members.

Or if you do club, do so at university club sponsored nights, and try to go with a group of university friends (doesn't have to be from your university, any university). Chances are if you go with a group of friends to such an event, they will meet people they know, and you can increase your friendbase. (It's reading week, good time this weekend)

Visit your friends at other universities/classes to get a chance to mack on their friends.

[Crotchety Old Man]

Settle...lol

I wouldn't use language like that in your new REAL relationship.
Exactly - you're trading up.

[Princess Buttercup]

you have to go out and meet people, go out with a group of friends, ask your friends if they have any single girl friends who you could meet, go to every function at school or work, smile and be polite. always always offer to drive people home, don't drink (big put off drunk guys are a very big put off) you will meet your special person just keep on being nice to every female you meet, even at the store or on the train or bus. :D

[freethebees]

i'm male, 19, chinese, 5'8", studying at UT for engineering, not model material, not butt ugly, have a sense of humor, perfer an asian girl, not interested in girls that sleeps and flirts with every other guy
prove me wrong

You're screwed m8 :lol:

[Princess Buttercup]

free the bees,

no he's not sounds OK to me.

he is young he is on his way to a good career, he is not butt ugly, he is not conceited. he sounds like he may be fun. he isn't a giant either.

[freethebees]

I am just kidding, it's my nature :)
He's in a good situation, I totally agree. I forgot to put the "joke" emoticon in my post :lol:

[boonjaca]

Take some classes that a lot of babes take, cooking, yoga or dancing. My friend took a salsa dancing classs and he said the girl to guy ratio was like 4 to 1. He said at least half of them were hot too.

[Princess Buttercup]

Take some classes that a lot of babes take, cooking, yoga or dancing. My friend took a salsa dancing classs and he said the girl to guy ratio was like 4 to 1. He said at least half of them were hot too.


that is a great idea salsa dancing, any cooking class is good and you learn to fend for yourself, a girl loves a guy who can cook.

[PlayerOne]

Heheheheheehe, asian male studying engin/comp/maths. Such notoriously bad odds of them having gfs ;)




haha, i honestly doubt that, lots of cool non-nerd asian guys out there does well in school and has hot girls swarming around them

anyhow, little more about "fun" side i have a motorcycle license, getting a bike soon, i also moutain bike, and was captain of vball team and i play bastketball, i drive a 06 solara

i think odds of asian guys that studies engine getting a gf is not slim at all, as long as you're not one of those nerdy retards

[B40]

as you're not one of those nerdy retards

you just insulted 70% of RFD...the other 29% are female

[najibs]

Lavalife....best bang for you buck (literally) hahaha

[Princess Buttercup]

Lavalife....best bang for you buck (literally) hahaha


that was the best laugh I have had all day. thanks now I have tea all over my computer screen. :D :D :D :D

[lilnymphie]

haha, i honestly doubt that, lots of cool non-nerd asian guys out there does well in school and has hot girls swarming around them

i think odds of asian guys that studies engine getting a gf is not slim at all, as long as you're not one of those nerdy retards

Oh no, I do agree with your top comment, no doubt there are lots of Asian guys out there with gfs.

I wrote my comment as there seems to be a disproportionally large number of Asian guys in those particular fields, so chances are most of the single Asian guys I meet just will end up falling into those specific categories. So it's not that holding those qualification dooms you to a life of singlehood, but it's that the probability of a single Asian male being in those fields seem to be high.

It doesn't help that a lot of them seem to be socially inept...

[najibs]

that was the best laugh I have had all day. thanks now I have tea all over my computer screen. :D :D :D :D

I met my fiancee on Lavalife, that's why i recommend it. Besides the bang for your buck comment, which is indeed true ;)

[john widow]

You're screwed m8 :lol:

LOL, first, you need to drop out of school. Then get one of those motorcycles and leather jackets.

[eelfliw]

ok, i think it's time for me to settle down for a real relationship with a girl instead of having random plays/casual relationships...
You didn't specify if the "random plays/casual relationships" are with girls or guys??

[AnnaBanana]

Why don't you and Urkel hook up? Look at her signature! She's totally into you!


Single?? In Ottawa??

Im looking to go out on a date with a guy who is between 24-35 and lives in Ottawa.

Must like RFD and downhill skiing

I'm 29 and a single girl. I like skiing And have a job...

Wow.....RFD dating

Either that or go on Matchmaker (that ghetto show on the Life Network)...

A.B.

[GTA_]

I thought the biological clock was a woman thing...

[FastFokker]

I thoughtWell stop.

[najibs]

Why don't you and Urkel hook up? Look at her signature! She's totally into you!



Either that or go on Matchmaker (that ghetto show on the Life Network)...

A.B.

Don't you have any friends to hook him up with, Anna? :cheesygri

[klai]

not butt ugly, have a sense of humor,
No offence, but calling yourself "PlayerOne" and claiming that you're
"not butt ugly" seems like an equivalent to saying "I'm ugly...and dammit, I wish I were a player"..so I pretty much understand where you're coming from.
Maybe you should deal with your insecurity first. You can start by posting your picture here!

[B40]

Either that or go on Matchmaker (that ghetto show on the Life Network)...

A.B.

MatchMaker is a good show...I think it got cancelled though?

Andrew Anthony is a great host :D

[AnnaBanana]

MatchMaker is a good show...I think it got cancelled though?

Andrew Anthony is a great host :D

You know it's a great show when they use a HOTMAIL address as their contact information... Ah, Canadian television... I love whenever Andrew talks about being in the glamorous matchmaker limo (which is obviously a rental since they advertise for it all the time).

The show that our lonely RFD's should go on is the 5th wheel... anyone remember that one? Priceless.. someone would always end up alone at the end while the others make out in front of him / her. I loved it... I wish my husband would let me go on that show!

A.B.

[lilnymphie]

You can start by posting your picture here!

Hey you know on Fatwallet, they have a gallery of their members! Wonder how well that'll fare on here.

[tigger03]

Work, School, Volunteering, Through other friends, events

[keanefan]

social clubs at school
health club

[boonjaca]

Why don't you and Urkel hook up? Look at her signature! She's totally into you!



Either that or go on Matchmaker (that ghetto show on the Life Network)...

A.B.

I agree that show is ghetto...

[UrbanPoet]

No offence, but calling yourself "PlayerOne" and claiming that you're
"not butt ugly" seems like an equivalent to saying "I'm ugly...and dammit, I wish I were a player"..so I pretty much understand where you're coming from.
Maybe you should deal with your insecurity first. You can start by posting your picture here!

err.. sometimes some ppl are that cocky.
I remember knowing this one guy.. he would always go around flexing his abs :-0
Good looking guy too...

Then news broke out about his small penis. This was back in high school.

[PlayerOne]

No offence, but calling yourself "PlayerOne" and claiming that you're
"not butt ugly" seems like an equivalent to saying "I'm ugly...and dammit, I wish I were a player"..so I pretty much understand where you're coming from.
Maybe you should deal with your insecurity first. You can start by posting your picture here!


haha, how's that no offense, but anyways, no offense taken because i didn't use that name with the intention of having the meaning of a dude that sleeps with random chicks. i just didn't know what screen name to use, and my bro with showing me his old old playdium card that he found, which says "PlayerOne" on it. and that's the story of my user name