Where did you meet your bf/gf?

[crypto]

Just curious as to where the best places to meet that special someone might be?!?

If you care to share ... where did everyone meet their boyfriend or girlfriend? E.g grocery store, bus, book store, school?

[here4yagurlz]

honestly? in the washroom

[sexpuppet6000]

you don't find love. love finds you.

[cmge]

2 from work... :S and 1 thru a friend... and yeah nothing special... first 2 lasted about a few months.. i guess thier expiry date came too soon... and the 1 thru a friend lasted about 3 yrs... o_O ...

[PMech]

School - Cliche? A bit.

[corrupt123]

what about online :|

[Wildfire]

Airplane.
She was a stewardess.
Good times were had by all.

[taro-chan]

2 from work... :S and 1 thru a friend... and yeah nothing special... first 2 lasted about a few months.. i guess thier expiry date came too soon... and the 1 thru a friend lasted about 3 yrs... o_O ...
work..
i avoided those even when i knew for a fact that she wanted to hook up.

it gets too messy...

[munch]

i don't think there's a "best place" to meet a special someone...if you believe in fate, you never know where it'll bring you. it also helps to find out how ppl's relationships have endured and how long it's lasted thus far...perhaps it'll give you a better indication of where you might succeed in finding a special someone.

anyways, to answer your question i met my bf online, but not through a matchmaking site though. the key is to establish a friendship first!! and as of today it's been the greatest 3 years and 9 months of my life...to the bf, i love you =)

[PMech]

the key is to establish a friendship first


QFT.

It doesnt last long when you find out stuff you dont like AFTER the relationship has started.

[ShadowVlican]

you don't find love. love finds you.
guess i'm counting on the later... :(

[JohnB]

At an anime convention

http://www.inetours.com/images/Anime/Costume_6724.jpg

[HighFlyer]

Just curious as to where the best places to meet that special someone might be?!?
Anywhere, really. It could happen at an airport, airplane, grocery store, library, starbucks....

Currently not seeing anyone at the moment, but have met past gf's from classes, while out shopping, but most of them have come from travelling.

[ch1zo]

QFT.

It doesnt last long when you find out stuff you dont like AFTER the relationship has started.

but she was talking about getting to know the person before the relationship starts...btw im her bf :lol: and I LOVE YOU too...3.9!

BTW...what da hell is QFT?

[JohnB]

Id like to know too.

I always thought it was Quit F***ing Talking, but people seem to be friendly when they write it.

[Wildfire]

Id like to know too.

I always thought it was Quit F***ing Talking, but people seem to be friendly when they write it.
QFT = Quoted for Truth.

You see it more on other boards like Genmay.

[d00v00]

I met my gal on RedFlagDeals!

Her name is Ryan, she's a mod! :lol:

She's the love of my life. @heart@

[jackc00]

bball court playing basketball

[d00v00]

bball court playing basketball
how sweet.. you both love playing with balls.

[Brandon]

Pool tournament!

[djspazz]

At the PNE. I got a job there when I found out she wuz working there.... :lol:

[dolphie]

heh heh heh. in a chatroom. 1998. i could see his apt. from my balcony and vice versa. few months later we went on a date, a year after that we moved in together. almost seven years later and we've got a house now :)

[sdm242]

At a bar in Waterloo. Got engaged to him four months later. We've been married (happily) for 8 years now. Oddly enough, a cousin of mine and a cousin of my huband also both met their spouses at the same bar.

[Absolute]

Went on a blind date to the NAC with a girl my roommate went to school with, and my roomate and her boyfriend. Ended up calling the girl the next day and asking her out again.

Three months later we moved in together, now we're getting married next summer.

[solarv]

no poker tournament ?

[sleepyguy]

Playing indoor volleyball... funny because we ended up hooking up 5 years later.

[felixdd]

Went on a blind date to the NAC with a girl my roommate went to school with, and my roomate and her boyfriend. Ended up calling the girl the next day and asking her out again.

Three months later we moved in together, now we're getting married next summer.

My condol...err...congrats!! :cheesygri

[HughG]

Playing indoor volleyball... funny because we ended up hooking up 5 years later.

were you really sleeping during those 5 years ?

lol
what took so long

[danfromwaterloo]

Met mine at work, funny enough. She left, and about three months later, we hooked up.

[Montecore]

Love happens when you least expect it , dont go looking for it .... especially on the internet .

[cheukiecfu]

I met my gal on RedFlagDeals!

Her name is Ryan, she's a mod! :lol:

She's the love of my life. @heart@lol... banned first day joining RFD...
lesson learned: never messed with a mod...

[YLSF]

lol... banned first day joining RFD...
lesson learned: never messed with a mod...


Actually, look at his other posts.. he posted like 44 messages in less than an hour... I guess he is "voodoo" also (I suppose he was also banned.. didn't look into it)...

[j3fan]

lol... banned first day joining RFD...
lesson learned: never messed with a mod...

he's banned cuz he is voodoo....who was previously banned....

[fireguy9]

Lava life online,,, getting married after 5yrs, this yr. Know about 10 others did the same thing

[Montecore]

Lava life online,,, getting married after 5yrs, this yr. Know about 10 others did the same thing
the same people who meet at lavalife relationship section are the same people who have ads on the intimate encounters section ...you can never truly trust anyone you meet on the internet . There is no common bond or history to share .... what do you tell family/friends how you met ? its very dicey, best to meet the traditional way .

[fireguy9]

the same people who meet at lavalife relationship section are the same people who have ads on the intimate encounters section ...you can never truly trust anyone you meet on the internet . There is no common bond or history to share .... what do you tell family/friends how you met ? its very dicey, best to meet the traditional way .


How do you know the people u meet the traditional way are not the same? Get with the times,,, lava life is mainstream, been around long time now.

what you tell family and friends is truth!! pretty simple

[GT108]

I met my "match" pricematching the same item at Staples.

Seriously.

[shuffle]

Phone dating. No seriously, stop laughing.

I was out with a girl who was really boring who I met on one of those phone dating things (this was just before the Internet dating explosion happened...) and we went by a friend of hers house. Well, we really hit it off and away we went. Been married for a while now... :-)

[The Shirker]

I met my "match" pricematching the same item at Staples.

Seriously.

:lol: Is he/she on RFD as well?

What was the item?

[Montecore]

How do you know the people u meet the traditional way are not the same? Get with the times,,, lava life is mainstream, been around long time now.

what you tell family and friends is truth!! pretty simple
lavalife is not mainstream, its for those who lack the social skills to meet the traditional way via ... school, work, outside interests, friends ... there will always be a negative stigma attached to those seeking relationships via online ... the sucess rate is very rare .

[HughG]

lavalife is not mainstream, its for those who lack the social skills to meet the traditional way via ... school, work, outside interests, friends ... there will always be a negative stigma attached to those seeking relationships via online ... the sucess rate is very rare .

your taking this to heart monte, it looks like youve been hurt with online dating.

:|

[akito925]

meet alot of gfs from muitiple places.. clubs, camping, staying at a hotel, in hk hangout for the month when I was there it was cool! :D, at work..

curretnly seeing gf that I'd met at camping this year 3rd week so far. lo.

[Montecore]

your taking this to heart monte, it looks like youve been hurt with online dating.

:|
im stating the facts, online dating is too contrived and it attracts misfits , meeting at a bar/club is more socially acceptable.

[Keelie]

i met mine through friends. it wasnt a set up or anything, we were both there for a party.

[UrbanPoet]

im stating the facts, online dating is too contrived and it attracts misfits , meeting at a bar/club is more socially acceptable.

Nah... Not really... I think theres more misfits @ bars and clubs...
those girls that only want $$$ and cars...
All the hoes... All the random grinding.. I mean common..
If you walk into a club.. and grind up against 10 girls.. Half of them will be on your nuts as long as you can dance and your descent looking... people always look better in the dark anyways.

Maybe you might get a few numbers... and when you call them back they end up being MORONs..... ugh.

[Spidey]

Met mine at a housewarming me and my 2 roomates threw. She was actually there to meet up with my roomate since they dated off and on in the past. I never knew that for quite awhile after we were dating since he was one of my good friends.

Married for 8 years now. I almost didnt stay at the party either because something happened. But I did. Fate has a weird way of working

[McLaren]

Met mine through her blog. A friend of mine was searching for a restaurant review and found her blogsite. I sent an email and bam... we hit it off.

[fireguy9]

im stating the facts, online dating is too contrived and it attracts misfits , meeting at a bar/club is more socially acceptable.


Maybe you had no success,, gotta catch up with the program. In bars, you have no idea what reason people are there for and cant hear a thing each is saying,,,, with the net,,,, you are paying to respond if you have a interest and reason.

If you cant admit to someone you met via a lavalife or such then you better grow some balls!!! it is a socially acceptable thing now

[munch]

lavalife is not mainstream, its for those who lack the social skills to meet the traditional way via ... school, work, outside interests, friends ... there will always be a negative stigma attached to those seeking relationships via online ... the sucess rate is very rare .

don't you find it a little presumptuous for you to make these kinds of statements? who are you to say that people who decide to give online dating a try lack social skills? maybe you're right or maybe they're just open-minded and willing to try new options? or maybe they're just not as anal retentive with these "traditional ways"....what is traditional nowadays anyways??
perhaps in your perspective this "negative stigma" will always remain, but times are changing and so are dating alternatives.

as for success rate...a relationship's initial means of meeting plays a small part in the overall success of a relationship. a relationship is based on the connection and interaction between 2 people...regardless of how they met. although i didn't meet my bf through online dating...i met him online nonetheless, and this christmas we would have been together for 4 years...while the majority of my friends relationships who have met "traditionally" have failed...what do you say to that?

and if ppl are gonna feel embarassed or ashamed to say they met online then clearly they shouldn't have considered online dating in the first place.

everyone's situation is different...you never know where love will lead you...

[Montecore]

while the majority of my friends relationships who have met "traditionally" have failed...what do you say to that?

everyone's situation is different...you never know where love will lead you...
there is a bigger sucess rate meeting the traditional way , rather than the obscurity and anonyminity of the internet .... you will always have the nagging doubt that your partner is lurking on chatting with others .... afterall, isnt that how you met your mate .

Onlline dating will lead you to self destruction and deception, anybody can hide behind the computer and be anybody they wish .

[nubbie]

I met my gal on RedFlagDeals!

Her name is Ryan, she's a mod! :lol:

She's the love of my life. @heart@
LOL! Banned!

[munch]

there is a bigger sucess rate meeting the traditional way , rather than the obscurity and anonyminity of the internet ...

and what is the traditional way? meeting at work, school, at the bus stop, through friends, on vacation, at the club, in a bar, at the doctor's, in the hospital, at the laundromat, walking your dog, babysitting, at the mall, getting the mail? do these qualify for "traditional"?? if you're going to compare a whole plethora of traditional ways of dating to online dating alone then obviously there will be a bigger success rate. if you're going to compare, a better indication would be say meeting in a bar or club vs. online...and please enlighten me as to how the success rate from meeting online fails in comparison to meeting in a club. a large group of ppl go to clubs in hopes of hooking up...is that not the essential motive of ppl who register for online dating? you win some, you lose some. you meet great ppl, you meet freaks. if the intention to find a relationship is there then why does it matter how you go about doing it?

.... you will always have the nagging doubt that your partner is lurking on chatting with others .... afterall, isnt that how you met your mate . .

right, and when you meet your significant other at any other place there's no risk that they'll be running around behind your back either?

Onlline dating will lead you to self destruction and deception.

this is the most absurd thing i have heard...putting yourself out there to be in a relationship puts you at risk of getting hurt in any case. don't act like online dating is the most ridiculous thing created in the world of dating...if we can have blind dates and speed dating there's nothing wrong with online dating.
maybe you're referring to online dating in which the 2 people have never met each other or restrict their relationship to online only, which is a whole different story...

[m77m7]

Crap.. I was expecting a funny reply from 15_20_God here. :)

[poedua]

there is a bigger sucess rate meeting the traditional way .

What's the ' rate ' for the traditional way vs internet 2:1 , 3:1 . 4: 1 ?

And what do you mean by ' success ' - is ' success' going on one date or ending up in a relationship ?

[Montecore]

and what is the traditional way? meeting at work, school, at the bus stop, through friends, on vacation, at the club, in a bar, at the doctor's, in the hospital, at the laundromat, walking your dog, babysitting, at the mall, getting the mail? do these qualify for "traditional"?? if you're going to compare a whole plethora of traditional ways of dating to online dating alone then obviously there will be a bigger success rate. if you're going to compare, a better indication would be say meeting in a bar or club vs. online...and please enlighten me as to how the success rate from meeting online fails in comparison to meeting in a club. a large group of ppl go to clubs in hopes of hooking up...is that not the essential motive of ppl who register for online dating? you win some, you lose some. you meet great ppl, you meet freaks. if the intention to find a relationship is there then why does it matter how you go about doing it?

right, and when you meet your significant other at any other place there's no risk that they'll be running around behind your back either?



this is the most absurd thing i have heard...putting yourself out there to be in a relationship puts you at risk of getting hurt in any case. don't act like online dating is the most ridiculous thing created in the world of dating...if we can have blind dates and speed dating there's nothing wrong with online dating.
maybe you're referring to online dating in which the 2 people have never met each other or restrict their relationship to online only, which is a whole different story...

your defensivness shows me how insecure you are by meeting your bf online, do you honestly feel proud that you met him on the internet ? ... just becareful of your bf's online activities when you're not around .... ;)

Peace ,
M

[fireguy9]

there is a bigger sucess rate meeting the traditional way , rather than the obscurity and anonyminity of the internet .... you will always have the nagging doubt that your partner is lurking on chatting with others .... afterall, isnt that how you met your mate .

Onlline dating will lead you to self destruction and deception, anybody can hide behind the computer and be anybody they wish .


This is the funniest thing I have heard!!! Where are your stats from????? The last 5yrs the internet dating thing has exploded. If you have any nagging doubts then obviously there are some trust issues. So the traditional meeting means that one person is not meeting someone else on the side???? Wake up buddy,,,, the odds are no different.

The real people who want to meet via single sites are meeting for a real reason and are not hiding. At least we know what initial intentions are,,, then you get to know them just like getting to know someone you meet in a bar or grocery store!!!!!!

Monte open your eyes!!

[anvah]

your defensivness shows me how insecure you are by meeting your bf online, I have stated my case and do not wish to pursue this further ... just becareful of your bf's online activities when you're not around .... ;)

Peace ,
M

Haha...got stung eh Montecore? But don't you find the same thing happens when you meet traditionally? Or do you dazzle them with your puppets that the girls can't see the real you eh? Hmm.....a puzzle. Please enlighten us.

A.

[ronny1980]

Haha...got stung eh Montecore? But don't you find the same thing happens when you meet traditionally? Or do you dazzle them with your puppets that the girls can't see the real you eh? Hmm.....a puzzle. Please enlighten us.

A.

Montecore's just bitter that she cant meet anyone traditionally or through the internet because she has issues with human interaction which is why she got fired from 5 jobs for all the same reasons - cannot deal with customers or colleagues.

Shes gonna be alone for a very long time.

[Montecore]

Crap.. I was expecting a funny reply from 15_20_God here. :)
im sure he will find his way here , he is one of my devoted groupies who follows my every thread ........ :D

[ronny1980]

im sure he will find his way here , he is one of my devoted groupies who follows my every thread ........ :D

Actually hes devoted to ***** threads and yours just happens to be many of them.

[JohnB]

Meeting through the internet is fine ! Its pretty much the same as a personal ad in the newspaper.

If you think you may be intersted after reading their ad/blog/email then give up a phone call and meet in person for 10 minutes at Chapters - its no big deal.

Blind dates are not for me but I know a few people who have hit it off after meeting online.

[munch]

your defensivness shows me how insecure you are by meeting your bf online, do you honestly feel proud that you met him on the internet ? ... just becareful of your bf's online activities when you're not around .... ;)

Peace ,
M
i had no intentions of making personal attacks but it looks like you just couldn't help yourself when you realized that your arguments fell short of logic. if i was so insecure would i share with everyone here that i met my bf online? i didn't think so. did i say i was proud i met him online? certainly not...but i am proud that i have been able to build an amazing relationship with him...don't be bitter :) and don't belittle me either...it's quite uncalled for. and contrary to your almighty beliefs...i have no concerns with my bf and his online activities...maybe your significant other strayed from you but i can handle my own thanks ;)

[Montecore]

i had no intentions of making personal attacks but it looks like you just couldn't help yourself when you realized that your arguments fell short of logic. if i was so insecure would i share with everyone here that i met my bf online? i didn't think so. did i say i was proud i met him online? certainly not...but i am proud that i have been able to build an amazing relationship with him...don't be bitter :) and don't belittle me either...it's quite uncalled for. and contrary to your almighty beliefs...i have no concerns with my bf and his online activities...maybe your significant other strayed from you but i can handle my own thanks ;)
dont you dare try to justify your insecurities by advocating online dating sites, your relationship is doomed and you know it ... you must feel resentful you didnt meet your "bf" the traditional way .

[Nemodigital]

dont you dare try to justify your insecurities by advocating online dating sites, your relationship is doomed and you know it ... you must feel resentful you didnt meet your "bf" the traditional way .

I think the sad clown face avatar for Montecore says it all so why is anyone surprised he is a depressive passimist?

[gretzky99]

Is Montecore male or female? :confused:

[poedua]

dont you dare try to justify your insecurities by advocating online dating sites, your relationship is doomed and you know it ... you must feel resentful you didnt meet your "bf" the traditional way .

An interesting study in the UK cited the following ...it seems to work for some

http://www.sciencedaily.com/releases/2005/02/050218125144.htm


' Internet dating is proving a much more successful way to find long-term romance and friendship for thousands of people than was previously thought, new research shows.

A new study of online dating site members has found that when couples who had built up a significant relationship by e-mailing or chatting online met for the first time, 94 per cent went on to see each other again.'

[fireguy9]

I think the sad clown face avatar for Montecore says it all so why is anyone surprised he is a depressive passimist?


Second that quote and add the word LOSER! WAKE UP GET WITH THE TIMES

[Rehii]

Met mine through her blog. A friend of mine was searching for a restaurant review and found her blogsite. I sent an email and bam... we hit it off.

Funny, I met my bf the exact same way and still going strong almost 1 yr later.

Wait a minute ... ;)

[x86asm]

Yes online dating has exploded tremendously. I cant go very far without seeing billboard ads or ads in paper, etc. I dont think it would get that much coverage if it wasnt socially acceptable. I have never visited these sites so I honestly dont know how effective these sites are.

[Tiberius]

the same people who meet at lavalife relationship section are the same people who have ads on the intimate encounters section ...you can never truly trust anyone you meet on the internet . There is no common bond or history to share .... what do you tell family/friends how you met ? its very dicey, best to meet the traditional way .

Montecore - you are the absolute last person who should be giving advice or publicly stating opinions IMHO. Once again, this is just my opinion, but I do feel others should be warned if they are reading your posts!

The internet is just like any other place to meet people - every individual person has their own agenda. If you meet at the bar, there will be guys and girls looking for one night stands, etc... the same is true on the internet. You just have to be SMART about your own personal dealings with people. Regardless of how you meet them.

[ShadowVlican]

things getting personal and heated up in this thread... i say whatever works for you, do it (whether be online, in person, etc)

too lazy to look up statistics anyway :cheesygri

[Avenger]

Montecore - you are the absolute last person who should be giving advice or publicly stating opinions IMHO. Once again, this is just my opinion, but I do feel others should be warned if they are reading your posts!

The internet is just like any other place to meet people - every individual person has their own agenda. If you meet at the bar, there will be guys and girls looking for one night stands, etc... the same is true on the internet. You just have to be SMART about your own personal dealings with people. Regardless of how you meet them.
Yeah, I would only date someone I meet online if they have positive heatware :p I am a bit hesitant about the online sites thing myself, but each to their own!

[Gordon]

Yeah, I would only date someone I meet online if they have positive heatware :p I am a bit hesitant about the online sites thing myself, but each to their own!

HAHAHA POSITIVE HEATWARE!! HAHAHAAHA JOKER!

[ShadowVlican]

Yeah, I would only date someone I meet online if they have positive heatware :p I am a bit hesitant about the online sites thing myself, but each to their own!
ROFL :lol:

[Montecore]

things getting personal and heated up in this thread...


its always my same groupies trailing my ass for my attention .... :D

[munch]

dont you dare try to justify your insecurities by advocating online dating sites, your relationship is doomed and you know it ... you must feel resentful you didnt meet your "bf" the traditional way .

don't you dare try??? wow...that's a bold choice of words, angry much? you know what's unfortunate montecore is that i'm sure you're an articulate person considering you have an opinion and will defend it...but your means of expressing your thoughts through derogatory words is simply childish. immaturity will bring you nothing but failed relationships so please don't blame me.

and yes, i am and have been resentful of my relationship with my "bf"...in fact i think tonight i will break things off with him on the grounds that montecore told me that it was doomed for failure since we didn't meet the "traditional" way...

LMAO...silly silly montecore...i agree to disagree with you...fair enough?

[ch1zo]

dont you dare try to justify your insecurities by advocating online dating sites, your relationship is doomed and you know it ... you must feel resentful you didnt meet your "bf" the traditional way .

how dare you judge my relationship with my gf...we have been together for almost 4 years and we have a healthy relatiosnhip. why would you even say im doing things behind her back...i can honestly say im one of the most loyal bf's out there, i dont mack chicks online behind her back or have secret relationships over the internet, that kinda of ***** is disgusting and why bother doing stuff like that if you plan on having a relationship in the first place? i dont believe in cheating, its just stupid and eventually you will get caught or you will have the guilt with you for the rest of your pathetic life so dont judge something or someone you dont know anything about. thats all i gotta say, seems like most ppl agree that you just been hurt too many times to try something new. come out of your cave and try it for yourself...and btw meeting at clubs and bars...all ur gonna meet are low lives and horny azz people who just want one night stands, unless u find the rare person looking for a long term thing.

[TenzoR]

volunteering at TVO

been with her for 6-7 years

[ch1zo]

volunteering at TVO

been with her for 6-7 years
wow...any plans for marriage?

[Montecore]

and yes, i am and have been resentful of my relationship with my "bf"...in fact i think tonight i will break things off with him on the grounds that montecore told me that it was doomed for failure since we didn't meet the "traditional" way...


your sarcasm only proves that I am right and you are wrong !! nagging your bf to post on this thread on your behalf is a desperate attempt to salvage what little you have .... why do you care what I think ? hmmmmmm :razz:

things woulda been different had you met him the traditional way ;)

[Absolute]

My condol...err...congrats!! :cheesygri
Thanks, although I'm already whipped so it won't change anything :lol:

[munch]

Thanks, although I'm already whipped so it won't change anything :lol:

haha, a man who can admit he's whipped is a man in love indeed...congrats!

and to the clown, we were having an adult discussion about our different views regarding online dating...if you simply couldn't handle the fact that someone disagreed with you, there's no need for you to come up with crazy assumptions and even more childish antics! no one believes them but you. what can i say...ignorance is one of the downfalls of our society!

[Nemodigital]

haha a man who can admit he's whipped is a man in love indeed...congrats!

Actually condolenses are due, I always believed in respecting my g/f but once you are whipped its all downhill.. next thing you know the nagging will start about why you didnt do that.. do this. You must always maintain a position of initiative. I found out the hard way!

[yayawhoo2003]

At an anime convention

http://www.inetours.com/images/Anime/Costume_6724.jpg

WOW!!

That is sooooo cool!!!

[Montecore]

no one believes them but you.
you believe me !! thats why you feel the need to justify your actions to me ...it bothers you , that you didnt meet your bf through traditional methods like everyone else .

[actodtak]

I met my bf at work. Told every one I would never date someone from work, but I am glad I broke my "rule".

You never know where you will find compatiblilty. One should always be open to any possiblility, other wise you could miss a great chance at happiness.

[ch1zo]

you believe me !! thats why you feel the need to justify your actions to me ...it bothers you , that you didnt meet your bf through traditional methods like everyone else .

why are u attacking us?
do u not realize we are happily in love, are u jealous we worked out? go find someone else to attack, such as yourself for not having any love in your life.

[ch1zo]

In CAse YoU haVen'T nOticEd ... I dOn'T reSpoND to peRsOnaL/ GRouP AttAcKs agAInst Me.

"Never argue with an idiot. They drag you down to their level, then beat you with experience."

thanks actodtak for the quote :lol:

[ronny1980]

why are u attacking us?
do u not realize we are happily in love, are u jealous we worked out? go find someone else to attack, such as yourself for not having any love in your life.

Dont mind her. She's the type that needs to bring other's down to make her feel a little bit better about herself.

Note that she doesn't reply to most posts directed to her because we speak the truth and nothing hurts more than the truth.

If you do a search for her past threads you will know why she is like how she is. When you get fired from jobs over and over again how much self-esteem does one really have left?

I pity her.

[munch]

Dont mind her. She's the type that needs to bring other's down to make her feel a little bit better about herself.

Note that she doesn't reply to most posts directed to her because we speak the truth and nothing hurts more than the truth.

If you do a search for her past threads you will know why she is like how she is. When you get fired from jobs over and over again how much self-esteem does one really have left?

I pity her.

aww... :lol:

[actodtak]

I thought you might like that. :)

[ch1zo]

Last message to Montecore

whatever im done with you, you havent proved anything with all your bull*****
except you are the most insecure person on this board and if anything you bring the group attacks upon yourself so dont feel all "surprised" if it happens by chance. stop envying others love and get some yourself, "got bf?"

[ch1zo]

I thought you might like that. :)
haha i sure do....it was just perfect for this thread.

[munch]

just curious if anyone has interesting stories to share about how they met their significant other, ie. they stalked you, saved you from drowning, your mistress...anything interesting!!

[Montecore]

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aww c'mon ya know ya can't resist me ..... ;)


why are u attacking us?

its not an attack , just stating the truth that online dating has no longevity or common history to bond people together ... its just strangers hiding behind a computer in cyberworld .

[munch]

aww c'mon ya know ya can't resist me ..... ;)



its not an attack , just stating the truth that online dating has no longevity or common history to bond people together ... its just strangers hiding behind a computer in cyberworld .

ppl don't form and sustain their relationship online only...they simply use the online dating sites as a forum to meet ppl. i think you have a misunderstanding of online dating montecore.

[Montecore]

ppl don't form and sustain their relationship online only...they simply use the online dating sites as a forum to meet ppl. i think you have a misunderstanding of online dating montecore.
you have been mislead by internet dating , Munchkin ... you are easily led by the ads and media surrounding internet dating and now your doing everything to justify your remorse to me . I feel touched ...... :D

[Tiberius]

your sarcasm only proves that I am right and you are wrong !! nagging your bf to post on this thread on your behalf is a desperate attempt to salvage what little you have .... why do you care what I think ? hmmmmmm :razz:

things woulda been different had you met him the traditional way ;)

So... how's your love life Montecore? Would your history be full of bad relationships, or a great, true-love enduring relationship? We already know the answer. Strangely, knowing that answer does NOT support your stance as "expert" in the area of relationships and what makes a good one.

Stop spewing your bitterness and idiocy at other people just because you are jealous of what they have found - happiness and love with another person.

[Ayla500]

At a bar, dated for 3 years, have been married for 9 years and we have 3 beautiful children!

[munch]

you have been mislead by internet dating , Munchkin ... you are easily led by the ads and media surrounding internet dating and now your doing everything to justify your remorse to me . I feel touched ...... :D

i have no experience with internet dating, but have enough of an open mind to accept that other people pursue it as an alternative option. can you say that for yourself? it seems to me you speak from experience using online dating sites since you have such a level of expertise...but it didn't turn out too well for you did it?

get a life montecore...in fact get a bf while you're at it...in fact just find someone to get laid with...that should ease the bitterness and hostility bottled up inside...temporarily.

[ronny1980]

the same people who meet at lavalife relationship section are the same people who have ads on the intimate encounters section

How do you know this Montie? :lol:

You've been busted!

[Montecore]

get a life montecore...in fact get a bf while you're at it...in fact just find someone to get laid with...that should ease the bitterness and hostility bottled up inside...temporarily.
all the name calling and built up anger is not going to change the fact that you met your bf via internet ... I wonder who he's chatting with now ... hehehe ... :D

[ronny1980]

all the name calling and built up anger is not going to change the fact that you met your bf via internet ... I wonder who he's chatting with now ... hehehe ... :D

Every post Montecore has posted in this thread is flamebaiting. I think she should be banned for a few days.

[MTL-TechY]

you don't find love. love finds you.

AGREED, if you hope to find love, good luck, it will happen when its totally unexpected

[munch]

all the name calling and built up anger is not going to change the fact that you met your bf via internet ... I wonder who he's chatting with now ... hehehe ... :D

:rolleyes: are chatrooms and dating sites the only thing that exist in your interpretation of the internet? i say i met my bf online, and all of a sudden we're users of online dating sites, lurking in chatrooms trying to chat up other ppl? where do you come up with these things? you were right about one thing...ppl can hide behind their screen and be whoever they wish to be...is that why you're so annoying?

SERIOUSLY...what do you have against me? the fact that i'm ok with ppl using online dating as a resource? the fact that i'm in a relationship? the fact that i'm not an angry woman veered towards hampering on other ppl's happiness? please enlighten me...

[Montecore]

SERIOUSLY...what do you have against me?
ABSOLUTELY...nothing , I just like to see you squirm under my power and influence ... its freakin hilarious :D

[munch]

ABSOLUTELY...nothing , I just like to see you squirm under my power and influence ... its freakin hilarious :D

i have something to ask you my dear montecore: when was the last time you were in a relationship? this thread clearly states where did you meet your bf/gf...so montecore...we've all shared our part, where did you meet yours?

[sptembergurl]

all the name calling and built up anger is not going to change the fact that you met your bf via internet ... I wonder who he's chatting with now ... hehehe ... :D

And you wonder why you were fired from your job. That's a horrible attitude.
There is nothing wrong with finding love online. The fact of the matter is that a person found love. Who cares where!!!!!

You seem very bitter. You'll never find love yourself with that attitude.

-Sptembergurl

[Montecore]

And you wonder why you were fired from your job. That's a horrible attitude.
There is nothing wrong with finding love online. The fact of the matter is that a person found love. Who cares where!!!!!

You seem very bitter. You'll never find love yourself with that attitude.

-Sptembergurl
shut the hell up !! this is between me and Munchkin ..... :mad:

[Tiberius]

ABSOLUTELY...nothing , I just like to see you squirm under my power and influence ... its freakin hilarious :D

So you admit that you are flamebaiting and essentially trying to annoy people and pick fights... interesting confession... I hope the mods see it.

As far as your "power and influence" goes... I think you are becoming dillusional. A child can annoy people - it doesn't mean they have power or influence over anyone... especially strangers who can simply ignore them and their tantrums. You are coming across as a small person leading a very small life. If this is what you have to resort to in order to get your kicks... I feel sorry for you.

Oh yeah... one other thing...

You're Welcome!!

Yes... that's right... those are MY tax dollars paying for your welfare cheques... now please try to do something productive with yourself so I can show your picture to people proudly and say "my welfare kid grew up and became a responsible adult"... instead of being a leech and social leper in our society.

[poedua]

And you wonder why you were fired from your job. That's a horrible attitude.
There is nothing wrong with finding love online. The fact of the matter is that a person found love. Who cares where!!!!!

You seem very bitter. You'll never find love yourself with that attitude.

-Sptembergurl

I agree.

It certainly seems as though there may be some significant issues behind the bitterness that ned work first -working on being more being open-minded , and being less judgmental and challenging those feelings / delusions of having power and influence - a pretty dysfunctional combination for either work and / or a relaltionship IMHO.

Those can all be overcome with experience in a lot more jobs and a lot more relationships I suppose. There's hope for everyone.

[sptembergurl]

shut the hell up !! this is between me and Munchkin ..... :mad:

If this is between you and Munchkin then discuss it privately via PMs!!!
You are posting this for EVERYONE to see so you should expect a backlash!!

GET A JOB and CHANGE YOUR ATTITUDE!

[munch]

lol...enough is enough already...i disagree with your thoughts, plain and simple...

btw you never answered my question montecore...we're all waiting for your love story...

[whey]

We can start here!
maybe their can be an online dating service in RFD! lol

i'll start! hm...i'm male, and loves football, currently studying at UofT. i'm straight and looking for a female. ages between 18-21 :D

[Montecore]

lol...enough is enough already...i disagree with your thoughts, plain and simple...

btw you never answered my question montecore...we're all waiting for your love story...
Awww, screw my story ... I had more fun when I got a "reaction" from you :evil:

[munch]

We can start here!
maybe their can be an online dating service in RFD! lol

i'll start! hm...i'm male, and loves football, currently studying at UofT. i'm straight and looking for a female. ages between 18-21 :D

hahaha, that'd be horrible! what do you have to offer in a relationship? a free mug? next!

[Montecore]

If this is between you and Munchkin then discuss it privately via PMs!!!
You are posting this for EVERYONE to see so you should expect a backlash!!

GET A JOB and CHANGE YOUR ATTITUDE!
quit SHOUTING for chrissake , you aint gonna get my attention that way .

[sptembergurl]

quit SHOUTING for chrissake , you aint gonna get my attention that way .

Well, you responded to it above, so I did get your attention :lol:

[The Shirker]

lol...enough is enough already...i disagree with your thoughts, plain and simple...

btw you never answered my question montecore...we're all waiting for your love story...

As I recall, one of them involved bedding her friend's teenage son.
Maybe if we all ignore her, she'll go away.

Anyway, congrats munch and ch1zo - sounds like you have a good thing going (irrespective of how or where you first met).

I met my better half through a car enthusiasts club - it's been over two years now. :)

[Montecore]

Well, you responded to it above, so I did get your attention :lol:
you should feel flattered, cuz thats the last reply ... you'll be getting from me , you aint worth the effort .

[ch1zo]

As I recall, one of them involved bedding her friend's teenage son.
Maybe if we all ignore her, she'll go away.

Anyway, congrats munch and ch1zo - sounds like you have a good thing going (irrespective of how or where you first met).

I met my better half through a car enthusiasts club - it's been over two years now. :)

congrats to you as well...im into cars as well
hope you contain them on spending to mod their car :P

[silverspy]

I met my wife in ICQ.

[Wonton Soup]

I met my girlfriend while I was having lunch with my mom. She was waitressing part-time, before we left I asked for her name and number. Been together for 6 months and counting.

[solarv]

were u havin wonton soup at tat time?
I met my girlfriend while I was having lunch with my mom. She was waitressing part-time, before we left I asked for her name and number. Been together for 6 months and counting.

[Nhiem]

School.

Grade 10.

On and off since then till about now.

[dealcatcher]

Just curious as to where the best places to meet that special someone might be?!?

If you care to share ... where did everyone meet their boyfriend or girlfriend? E.g grocery store, bus, book store, school?

in bed

[amberjill]

I met my bf at uni; we had a mutual friend and all the same classes. A year later we met up at a club, had some drunken canoodling, and we've been a couple since then. 5 years together.

[Sting]

I met my gf in college while i was still with my ex-gf ... sheeesh .. dont tell me my ex gf now ok .. please ... ;)

[farlight]

Hilariously true Internet dating story. More on how not to date.

http://entertainment.tv.yahoo.com/news/wwn/20051209/113414040002.html

[felix]

One from school, one from work. :)

[weedb0y]

saw mine at my friends wedding..she introduced us and we hit it off..

she had rejected every guy that approached her in the past..i dont know how i got lucky lol

been married for 1.5 yrs now

[vipjn]

interesting enough, I met my ex and my present on the same date....
while me and my ex didnt last (abt a month or so...), i've been together with this one for 4 years (x'mas eve to be exact :D)

the channel: OF COURSE ONLINE! haha

[lucidian]

met her in a tutorial for a class i wasn't even taking (i went cuz my friend wanted me to chill with him) that was 5 days ago. lol. *not gonna talk about the ex's cuz THEY DON"T MATTER ANYMORE *

[nano]

i met my boyfriend at the mall..

[ejay2k3]

True love now a days, dosent really exist...we all have real love for material and superficial beauty. Hard to find ppl who admire a persons from who she really is. Girls and Guys, on ur mark...ready, CHEAT!!! u maybe dont know it...but ur lover might be cheating on u when u least expect it :evil:
thats the life :D

[ah_long]

internet
and i don't find any problem with it..

in fact... umm
let me count..
quite a few was met online

[Truth]

In Wilson station's male washroom, 3rd stall to the right...... i know it sounds weird but she was and IS still sooooooooooooooooo hot!!!

[Nemodigital]

True love now a days, dosent really exist...we all have real love for material and superficial beauty. Hard to find ppl who admire a persons from who she really is. Girls and Guys, on ur mark...ready, CHEAT!!! u maybe dont know it...but ur lover might be cheating on u when u least expect it :evil:
thats the life :D
So I guess in your opinion no point in dating whats so ever...

[Spidey]

True love now a days, dosent really exist...we all have real love for material and superficial beauty. Hard to find ppl who admire a persons from who she really is. Girls and Guys, on ur mark...ready, CHEAT!!! u maybe dont know it...but ur lover might be cheating on u when u least expect it :evil:
thats the life :D


Now thats just a sad way to look at it. I think your way off the mark. This is coming from a guy thats been married for 8 years and together for 11.

If you think every person you will go out will cheat on you, then you have some issues.

[terribly]

She met a bunch of my friends at a bar. We started hanging out as a group, and ony of my friends took an interest in her. When they didn't take off, I asked her out.

Over 3.5 years now.

[surfingfordeals]

hahaha, that'd be horrible! what do you have to offer in a relationship? a free mug? next!

ha ha.... I can just picture it.... 2 people out on a date... both hoping the other one will pay....
LOL :lol:

And then come gift-giving time, they each give each other the freebies they won through RFD!!!! :lol: :lol:

[deactivated1245]

had a crush on my wife since I started going to school with her in grade 6.. we didn't hook up until we were 18, but 9 years and one beautiful daughter later, we're still together.. only 60? years to go :lol:

[ejay2k3]

Now thats just a sad way to look at it. I think your way off the mark. This is coming from a guy thats been married for 8 years and together for 11.

If you think every person you will go out will cheat on you, then you have some issues.

haha, nah not saying everyone does that...but what am saying is, more ppl do it today...specially girls :confused:

[Codegen]

Brothel.

[hagbard]

Penny Saver. Hey, I'm cheap!