girl friend on family vacation for 1 month *UPDATED*

[UrbanPoet]

My friends got me freaked out.
My gf is gone on vacation to Asia w/her family for 1 month.
Me and her known each other for a few months and been officially dating for 1 month. Shes been gone since august 1st and will come back on the 31st.

My friends noticed that I been really falling for her. I talk about her alot and im even considering buying her a big ticket present when she comes back, AN IPOD even tho its only been 1 month! they were telling me stories of how whenever a couple has 1 person gone on a long vacation, they break up after the person comes back. I guess this is because the time they are seperated, they realize how easy they can live with out their bf/gf and how fun life can be single.

I was always known as the playa type by my friends too. I go through girls like nothigng, and they gotten worried b/c i fell for this girl so quick after 1 month. This got me realizing DAMN i did fall for this girl FAST. I actually stopped my playa ways just for her... settling down you know.

Another thing that got me thinking is ive never been heart broken... I always broke up with the girl. And the only time girls have left me was in my younger days when you pull off that 'I dont wanna break up with her so ill make her break up with me' trick. Thats why im thinking this is where my streak ends... Im going to be heart broken! AH!! what do i do?

[curtis]

uuhhhh .... so you're worried about something that hasn't happened yet...?

My friends got me freaked out.
My gf is gone on vacation to Asia w/her family for 1 month.
Me and her known each other for a few months and been officially dating for 1 month. Shes been gone since august 1st and will come back on the 31st.

My friends noticed that I been really falling for her. I talk about her alot and im even considering buying her a big ticket present when she comes back, AN IPOD even tho its only been 1 month! they were telling me stories of how whenever a couple has 1 person gone on a long vacation, they break up after.

I was always known as the playa type by my friends too. I go through girls like nothigng, and they gotten worried b/c i fell for this girl so quick after 1 month. This got me realizing DAMN i did fall for this girl FAST. I actually stopped my playa ways just for her... settling down you know.

Another thing that got me thinking is ive never been heart broken... I always broke up with the girl. And the only time girls have left me was in my younger days when you pull off that 'I dont wanna break up with her so ill make her break up with me' trick. Thats why im thinking this is where my streak ends... Im going to be heart broken! AH!! what do i do?

[15-20_God]

i'm surprised it took you this long to complain about a gf.

[UrbanPoet]

whenever a couple has 1 person gone on a long vacation, they break up after the person comes back. I guess this is because the time they are seperated, they realize how easy they can live with out their bf/gf and how fun life can be single.

The track record seems bad... REALLY BAD.
B/c of all the stories they telling me...
-how guy falls for girl
-they are going great
-girl goes on vacation for a month
-girl realizes the fun of being single
-girl comes back and breaks up with em

i'm surprised it took you this long to complain about a gf.

but shes so ULTRA COOL! She has everything... she isnt whiny, she isnt over emotional, shes a freak in wh00p if you nah what im saying ;), and she even likes hockey and basketball.
she actually sits through an entire basketball/hockey game and watches it!
Smart , pretty, and artistic. Quite the catch if you ask me...
And she even shares the same interest i do in firearms. She even visited a gun club with me, and fired a gun with me. <3 im in love. <3

[thelefteyeguy]

just call her everynight/other night...shouldnt be difficult / expensive...use calling card.

[Blunt]

Yup! 100% she's gonna dump you ass!

[UrbanPoet]

just call her everynight/other night...shouldnt be difficult / expensive...use calling card.

Herm... No internet access.
as for the phone... We thought that calling cards bought in canada can only be used in Canada/USA and not her particular country

[CSR]

Boo hoo....

[UrbanPoet]

Boo hoo....

Man.... tahts exactly wat im thinking.
I think in my head sarcastically 'TOny... how could u let a girl do this to you.' *shakes head at self*

[15-20_God]

keep this up and you'll be a doormat if this "relationship" ever lasts. all the signs are there.

[Shaner]

Since when is it a rule that if one person goes on a long vacation, that they will break up when said person returns?

I've never heard that rule. I'm sure she's been single before, she knows what it's like to be single. If she wants to be single, she will be, but it has nothing to do with this vacation.

Your friends are complete jack offs and if you actually believe the crap they tell you, perhaps you should get your head checked.

:rolleyes:

[UrbanPoet]

keep this up and you'll be a doormat if this "relationship" ever lasts. all the signs are there.

Good idea... must keep distance.
Im losing my playa touch tho. I got SOFT. real soft =(


Ohh another thing..
has anyone else ever had the same situation?

Keep in mind me and her have only been together 1 month... we did spend alot of time together.

[gh05t]

Your girlfriend isn't on vacation. She is actually hiding out at my place for a month until the hitman she hired to take you out makes good on the contract.

Meanwhile her needs are being taken off by yours truly. She's in good hands literally. ;)

[thelefteyeguy]

Herm... No internet access.
as for the phone... We thought that calling cards bought in canada can only be used in Canada/USA and not her particular country


Canada and US are not the only countries with calling cards...

btw is she on a tour or is she staying in a certain area?

if she really digs you ... she will keep in touch but if not...then really why bother worrying

internet cafes are all over the place in HK, China, Taiwan, Japan...just tell her not to go to a shady one with female escorting haha :lol:

[synaptech]

Your buddies are try'n to weird you out so you pre-emptively dump her - then they'll scoop her up. Shoulda kept that freak stuff to yourself :)

[camzie]

but shes so ULTRA COOL! She has everything... she isnt whiny, she isnt over emotional, shes a freak in wh00p if you nah what im saying ;), and she even likes hockey and basketball.
she actually sits through an entire basketball/hockey game and watches it!
Smart , pretty, and artistic. Quite the catch if you ask me...
And she even shares the same interest i do in firearms. She even visited a gun club with me, and fired a gun with me. <3 im in love. <3

Don't mean to rain on your parade, but its only been 1 month.

[UrbanPoet]

I guess they are only looking out for me b/c im falling for her to deep and too fast.

I guess the conclusion to this story is.... Only time will tell. whatever happens, happens. And hopefully i can recoup and gain the touch i once had.
Hopefully this girl hasnt made me to soft.

[Tiberius]

It isn't her going on vacation that is going to ruin the relationship... it's you becoming a pussy, whiney suck-a$$ during the time she's gone... so she'll come back to an insecure, pussy, whiney, suck-a$$ and run like hell!!

Just be yourself... it worked and she liked it before.... so chill out...

[squall458]

Your girlfriend isn't on vacation. She is actually hiding out at my place for a month until the hitman she hired to take you out makes good on the contract.

Meanwhile her needs are being taken off by yours truly. She's in good hands literally. ;)
hahahha, nah its juss a vacation dont worry, aww are u falling in love????

[remmuh]

This thread is useless without pictures of your gf...

[15-20_God]

now that we've all been nice and given you advice, its your turn to be nice and post a pic of what she looks like.

[UrbanPoet]

This thread is useless without pictures of your gf...

Nah..... I dont feel like having a mostache painted on me today.

[thelefteyeguy]

this just means you have 1 month to save money to get her a really good gift...

and if you were thinking about electronics...she's going to asia...so dont bother

[justlooking]

It isn't her going on vacation that is going to ruin the relationship... it's you becoming a pussy, whiney suck-a$$ during the time she's gone... so she'll come back to an insecure, pussy, whiney, suck-a$$ and run like hell!!

Just be yourself... it worked and she liked it before.... so chill out...

That's what I was going to say. So don't be a wuss about it, 'side are there any proven statistics that someone going on vacation for 1 month will come back and dump the significant other?

And if she dumps you, it'll be a good thing for you. Everyone should be dumped on once in their life. Just hold off giving her anything big until you see what she brought back for you.

[danfromwaterloo]

Garth: Wayne, I think I'm gonna hurl.
Wayne: I say spew. If you hurl and she bolts, it was never meant to be. If you spew and she stays, she's yours.

------------------------------------------

Moral of this Wayne's World reference: If she likes you, she'll stick around. If she doesn't, it was never meant to be. Therefore, don't fret. In fact, go out. Have a wicked blast, because either she'll come back and you'll get serious, and you won't be able to party with your boys anymore, or she'll get back and break up with your ass, and you'll be in the dumps for a few weeks. Either way, its August, it's hot, and there's lots of beer and amply-filled haltertops on the patios. Kick back, try not to think of her too much, and enjoy what might very possibly be your last kick at the single can.

[Absolute]

Nah..... I dont feel like having a mostache painted on me today.
We don't want pics of you and her, just her.

[UrbanPoet]

We don't want pics of you and her, just her.

too bad. shes for me to enjoy ;)
plus now if i do post a pic of her its like im showing her off like a piece of meat :|
I show her off enough since im actually with her.

Why are you guys soooo obsessed about looking @ pics of girls? Sure its fun, but yall make such a big deal of it sometimes. Dont u have ur own girlfriends :|
if you wanna oogle girls go out to the beach or Taste of the danforth ;)

[thelefteyeguy]

We don't want pics of you and her, just her.

ask her if she wants a mostache :lol:

[Absolute]

Why are you guys soooo obsessed about looking @ pics of girls? Sure its fun, but yall make such a big deal of it sometimes. Dont u have ur own girlfriends :|
if you wanna oogle girls go out to the beach or Taste of the danforth ;)
I would and do have a gf but I'm at work right now. I could use some eye candy to pass the time.

[Absolute]

ask her if she wants a mostache :lol:
A milk mou.... n/m, better not go there.

[dgmorr]

I think I hear your teacher calling, you're late for nap time. Don't forget your milk tickets.

[guest10586]

Its time for an LED joke to lighten the mood...get it lighten...lighten...I got nothing... :|

You will find out in a month... What advice do you want on RFD?

[ProfessorChaos]

lmao this is a funny thread...OT is the best section on rfd :P

[15-20_God]

have you decided to marry her yet? its been 2 hours.

[Absolute]

have you decided to marry her yet? its been 2 hours.
That's a good way to know if she'll be faithful to you while she's away, or not.

[Absolute]

lmao this is a funny thread...OT is the best section on rfd :P
I come for the deals.... and stay for the ridicule.

[CodecX81]

Dude, don't get an ipod. wait for her birthday or something. big ticket items are so lame, you'll only be setting the bar higher for yourself if you DO end up dating her for a long time. I hate it when guys waste so much money on girls, thinking it will keep them with him. if a girl stays with you because you give her stuff, RUN AWAY!!! Girls are only useful to spend money on after they are married to you. Until then, I trust them as far as I could throw them.

Ipod for the 1st month dating.....5th yr anniversary wedding will result in her wanting a small island in the S. Pacific!!

Also, there are continental calling cards, I'd find her # just so she knows you care.

Also,

Only a thief locks their doors man, you are feeling insecure because you know that if you were in her situation, you'd probably be the one doing the HK girlie circuit cuz you know you'd be able to get away with it.

If you can keep her mind on you during this trip (Call every few days, don't be needy... every night would bug her & cost too much anyhow.)

And then show up at the airport with flowers or a perfume she likes etc..

Also, remember the time difference. calling her at 3am would prolly piss her off more than anything lol.

Sex within the first month..haha..what a crazy world we live in.

[pandaharo]

Since you have so much time...Give her home made cookies and a home made 1 month anniverwary card with some home grown flower when you pick her up at the airport. :)

[jayisthebest88]

urban poet, howo ld are you again?

[Absolute]

Sex within the first month..haha..what a crazy world we live in.
From "10 Things I Hate About You": Why is everyone so hot for this girl? Has she got beer-flavored nipples?

[corrupt123]

you used the word "playa"

worse, still, you called yourself one.

you lose.

[UrbanPoet]

urban poet, howo ld are you again?

im turning 21 :o
Thats why.... I understand why ppl are cracking jokes here, b/c me myself im wondering why im going so crazy over her so fast :|

[MrDisco]

its over. start looking for a new g/f.

[thelefteyeguy]

UrbanPoet is taking a beating :|

give the guy a break...seems he found the perfect girl for himself...that's not easy

[wiggy]

It's so cute to watch them grow up ...

[Absolute]

im turning 21 :o
Thats why.... I understand why ppl are cracking jokes here, b/c me myself im wondering why im going so crazy over her so fast :|
Meh, I met my current gf at 22 after playing the bars/residence scene for years, now I'm sure I'm marrying her. It happens!

[UrbanPoet]

but common...
imagine a girl that likes EVERYTHING you do.. even the most obscure things that most women have NO interest in whatsever.
on top of that... she is a 8/10 in looks
and 8/10 in other things too ;)
shes also well educated... smart, artistic, and very interesting to be with.

so far her track record for her past 4 guys is this... This list is starting with latest and goes down to the oldest.

guy #1. When we first met shewas seeing this other guy. She picked me.
guy #2. PLayed her...
guy #3. long term relationship. 1 yr+ they broke up. semi-friends still
guy #4. long term relationship 1 yr+ one of those relationships that go really sour.

So she has a good track record it seems so far. :D

[haveblue]

If she's going with her family, it's different.. I know, if I was away anywhere alone with my family for a month, I'd get pretty board. She'll probably get lonely being stuck there with her parents for a month, and miss you more and more.. then everything'll be good when she gets home.. If she was going with her friends, I'd be more conserned.. but if it's just family, I really wouldn't worry :)

In the mean time, just take 'er easy, relax, and have fun with your friends..

[wiggy]

If she's going with her family, it's different.. I know, if I was away anywhere alone with my family for a month, I'd get pretty board. She'll probably get lonely being stuck there with her parents for a month, and miss you more and more.. then everything'll be good when she gets home.. If she was going with her friends, I'd be more conserned.. but if it's just family, I really wouldn't worry :)

But what if they've taken her home to marry her off. You know. One of those Vulcan things ...

[UrbanPoet]

anyways.. i been working out while shes gone. when she comes back... and if she does decide to leave me... she'll be missing out on these huge ass guns i have wh00p wh00p

[Absolute]

But what if they've taken her home to marry her off. You know. One of those Vulcan things ...
Doesn't mean he can't have an affair.

[thelefteyeguy]

but common...
imagine a girl that likes EVERYTHING you do.. even the most obscure things that most women have NO interest in whatsever.
on top of that... she is a 8/10 in looks
and 8/10 in other things too ;)
shes also well educated... smart, artistic, and very interesting to be with.

so far her track record for her past 4 guys is this... This list is starting with latest and goes down to the oldest.

guy #1. When we first met shewas seeing this other guy. She picked me.
guy #2. PLayed her...
guy #3. long term relationship. 1 yr+ they broke up. semi-friends still
guy #4. long term relationship 1 yr+ one of those relationships that go really sour.

So she has a good track record it seems so far. :D


word of advice...who cares about guy #1-4...find something else to talk about

[Fuggit]

Why are you guys soooo obsessed about looking @ pics of girls? Sure its fun, but yall make such a big deal of it sometimes. Dont u have ur own girlfriends :|

Cuz most ppl replying to this thread haven't hit puberty yet... myself excluded. :D

[thelefteyeguy]

Cuz most ppl replying to this thread haven't hit puberty yet... myself excluded. :D

pic trick usually works like 1% of the time...so the more you ask...you'll know a sucker will come sooner or later

[robattoronto]

Meh you worry too much. And you're being swayed too easily by your friends.
Get a grip man. If you're such a playa, she'd be chasing you after she came back. :lol:

[ronny1980]

Your really into her now because your in the passionate phase of your relationship. During this time building a solid foundation is the key to a successful longterm relationship.

Your friends are half correct. She could easily fall for another guy because theres no foundation between you two. One month = nothing. She could get over you easily. Being away from you for one month may make one realize how fun it is to be single but in your case it doesnt really apply - you both were single only a month ago.

However after 6 months or so things will definitely change. This is when you enter the compassionate phase of a relationship.

Hang in there my friend.

[Miter Binesderty]

I remember those days when I did gay things for my girlfriend. Now I know better.

If it makes you feel any better I hooked up with a girl I really liked for 2 months. She went to Cuba for 1 week and she came back with a huge tan and semen from some other guy. Anything can happen.

[AirBosh]

any pics of her? kidding heheh

[ronny1980]

I remember those days when I did gay things for my girlfriend. Now I know better.

If it makes you feel any better I hooked up with a girl I really liked for 2 months. She went to Cuba for 1 week and she came back with a huge tan and semen from some other guy. Anything can happen.

white moustache I suppose?

[Miter Binesderty]

white moustache I suppose?
No one of her friends that went with her told me and the biatch still hasn't mentioned it thinking I don't know about it. Well she's done with anyways.

[ronny1980]

No one of her friends that went with her told me and the biatch still hasn't mentioned it thinking I don't know about it. Well she's done with anyways.

So you did confront her right? what was her response?

[Miter Binesderty]

So you did confront her right? what was her response?
No I didn't confront her. She broke up with me after I refused to by her a digital camera. This was the day after she came back from the trip. Her friend was nice enough to tip me off before meeting up with her. Funny the guy she hooked up with was also from Toronto and they started going out. She went to Cuba again the following summer and cheated on him. This time I ratted her out because I hacked her email account. I think he ended up slapping her and everything which I didn't mind.

[ronny1980]

No I didn't confront her. She broke up with me after I refused to by her a digital camera. This was the day after she came back from the trip. Her friend was nice enough to tip me off before meeting up with her. Funny the guy she hooked up with was also from Toronto and they started going out. She went to Cuba again the following summer and cheated on him. This time I ratted her out because I hacked her email account. I think he ended up slapping her and everything which I didn't mind.

Slut and a gold digger. Broke up with you because you refused to buy her a digitcal camera?

I really dont know what I would say to a girl if that was the reason she broke up with me. I wouldnt be shocked because of the breakup but the reason for the breakup.

Glad you dont have to deal with that POS no more.

[JohnB]

Urban Poet,

Whatever happens happens dont worry, sometimes people go different ways. See maybe you would dump her if you met someone else hotter/nicer, thats why people date.

If youve only been going out a month DO NOT buy her anything big, its not nessesary. And it just makes the person uncomfortable if they dont really like you.

From my self, if you get in a relationship dont flash money or buy expenive gifts just to impress. You dont have too.

I tell my girlfriends I dont have any money and my prospects dont look good :) , so then you can tell if the person really likes you for you and go from there.

Ive seen too many buddies get ripped off by gold-diggers.

[Miter Binesderty]

I was kind of in the same situation as you were in with my 2nd gf but she was technically my first because my first I only saw in person like 2 times cuz we met off the net. Yes that's gay :lol:

With my 2nd gf we were going out for only 1 month also before I went down to Florida with my family for a 2 week vacation. I missed her so much the entire 2 weeks I was down there and I couldn't wait to come back home. When I came back it took no more than 30 minutes and I got a.... :cheesygri

So you do have something to look forward to if you're lucky.

[grant]

Urbanpoet, there's no way you're any kind of "playa", you're just fantasizing.

And your friends are being idiots. I'm sorry to say it, but hopefully you know it anyways. True friends will try to help you not sabotage you. If you're the coolest of the group, that makes you king of the nerds.

Sex within the first month..haha..what a crazy world we live in.

What does that mean?? Are you the kind of guy who shows his respect for a girl by holding her hand for 2 months?

[UrbanPoet]

:arrowu:

Nah... they never said anything to sabatoge me. And i have no idea why they would want too.. unless they lesbians or something, and wanted to steal my girlfriend :lol:
Its just they noticed i was falling so deep so fast. Remember, only 1 month? They were just showing concern i guess. While in the process.... they told me some freaky deaky stories. you know how it is when your hanging out.. just chit chatting, and then these stories come up -_-

As for the playa thing. I didnt mean it as in those people you see on TV.
Just as a guy that never really got that head over heels for a girl that easy. Never heart broken, and had a blast in the dating world. It probably all started when i was out shopping for a Ipod/HD mp3 player for her. That probably set off the red flags.

[hardcore]

in case no one's asked yet... post a pic! better yet - if she's so good in the sac - post a sex vid!


I don't know what you're worrying about. There's not much you can do. I can tell you for sure that she's hooking up with random guys over there. It's too easy and too convenient. No strings attached!

[hardcore]

dude take these four months and start laying the groundwork for the next girl in case this one does break up with you

[Miter Binesderty]

Yeah learn to snoop around because it does pay off in the end.

Ok well I don't recommend it for everyone but it worked for me.

[guest10586]

Buying her an iPod won't make her love you but you may get laid...hmmm...wut to do, wut to do....

[UrbanPoet]

Buying her an iPod won't make her love you but you may get laid...hmmm...wut to do, wut to do....

ay man oh man! you guys are so narrow minded sometimse...
the reason why i wanted to buy her an Ipod is b/c she ALWAYS complains about her busted MD player... she listens to aLOT of music, and her favourite color is pink.
a pink ipod would address all those needs and thereofore be something very thoughtfull.

[Philip_69]

#3 might have AIDS :lol: ...

Good luck with your new found crush, man !


but common...
imagine a girl that likes EVERYTHING you do.. even the most obscure things that most women have NO interest in whatsever.
on top of that... she is a 8/10 in looks
and 8/10 in other things too ;)
shes also well educated... smart, artistic, and very interesting to be with.

so far her track record for her past 4 guys is this... This list is starting with latest and goes down to the oldest.

guy #1. When we first met shewas seeing this other guy. She picked me.
guy #2. PLayed her...
guy #3. long term relationship. 1 yr+ they broke up. semi-friends still
guy #4. long term relationship 1 yr+ one of those relationships that go really sour.

So she has a good track record it seems so far. :D

[Miter Binesderty]

ay man oh man! you guys are so narrow minded sometimse...
the reason why i wanted to buy her an Ipod is b/c she ALWAYS complains about her busted MD player... she listens to aLOT of music, and her favourite color is pink.
a pink ipod would address all those needs and thereofore be something very thoughtfull.
Don't get her a GD thing. You're spoiling her. Girls love to be spoiled.

[hardcore]

ay man oh man! you guys are so narrow minded sometimse...
the reason why i wanted to buy her an Ipod is b/c she ALWAYS complains about her busted MD player... she listens to aLOT of music, and her favourite color is pink.
a pink ipod would address all those needs and thereofore be something very thoughtfull.


sounds like you're getting played.

[drucillica]

Doesn't seem like you have that much experience being in a real relationship (you being a self-proclaimed "playah" and all). If you did, you wouldnt be buying her an iPod after just one month.

It's gonna freak the hell out of her (kinda like saying the L-word after a coupla months) and she'll just expect bigger and better things in the upcoming months... You're setting the bar pretty high right from the start and you should never do that that early in a relationship.

[UrbanPoet]

Doesn't seem like you have that much experience being in a real relationship (you being a self-proclaimed "playah" and all). If you did, you wouldnt be buying her an iPod after just one month.

It's gonna freak the hell out of her (kinda like saying the L-word after a coupla months) and she'll just expect bigger and better things in the upcoming months... You're setting the bar pretty high right from the start and you should never do that that early in a relationship.

Ive been in many long term and short term relationships.
one for 2 years and one for 1 yr.

That is why this situation concerns me the most... b/c for some reason this ONE girl is making me act so different. Ive admited this previously in this thread -_-
I didnt even notice until my friends pointed it out to me.

[drucillica]

Ive been in many long term and short term relationships.
one for 2 years and one for 1 yr.

That is why this situation concerns me the most... b/c for some reason this ONE girl is making me act so different. Ive admited this previously in this thread -_-
I didnt even notice until my friends pointed it out to me.

Well, regardless, take it slow! What's the point in rushing? If it's meant to be, you'll be together, vacation or not.

Just think back to your previous relationship. I'm sure you've dated an overly clingy chick or one that took the relationship way too seriously after a coupla dates. You don't want your girl to feel that way or she'll run.

[UrbanPoet]

Well, regardless, take it slow! What's the point in rushing? If it's meant to be, you'll be together, vacation or not.

Just think back to your previous relationship. I'm sure you've dated an overly clingy chick or one that took the relationship way too seriously after a coupla dates. You don't want your girl to feel that way or she'll run.

holy ****. so far youve given me the best advice in this thread!!!
Thats sooo damn true... about those clingy girls...

[ronny1980]

UrbanPoet your falling into the trap of self-fulfilling prophecy.

You think your girlfriend is going to cheat or break-up with you once she comes back from vacation. This feeling of insecurity has made you question the relationship even though its only been one month.

When you talk to her on the phone you will have doubts about what she says and you will start to question her - trust will start to diminish if theres any in the first place. (one month remember)

At the end the break-up will be inevitable if you continue to act the way you are.

[furbaby]

gosh, you sound so whipped. despite how different you think your gf is, all girls like guys who play a bit of hard to get at least in the first couple of months. In the long run it'll do you more good to not get an ipod for her now. Imagine the piles you gifts you have to shower her later on. If you get her a gift just for going out with her one or two months, what about her birthday, christmas, valentines...If you stopped showering her with gifts, she'll think you've changed. Girls never get enough of the good stuff... this applies to all girls. Besides, love is not = to material things.

[b166er1337]

In the long run it'll do you more good to not get an ipod for her now. Imagine the piles you gifts you have to shower her later on. If you get her a gift just for going out with her one or two months, what about her birthday, christmas, valentines...


It's ok. I am sure Urbanpoet has surplus supplies of LED keychain ;)

[Daemar]

Does this guy know even how to have a normal relationship?

Dude, forget the material things, just spend some time with her when she comes back. Do stuff together, enjoy each other's company.

Sure you've fallen for her hard and fast, but that can easily fall apart hard and fast. Set a foundation and build upon it.

[ronny1980]

It's ok. I am sure Urbanpoet has surplus supplies of LED keychain ;)

Seriously. Just give her an LED keychain for the one month anniversary. Then give her 2 LED keychains for valentines, 3 for Christmas and 4 for birthday.

Make sure you use different colors to give her an element of surprise and show that your not boring and unthoughtful.

[UrbanPoet]

It's ok. I am sure Urbanpoet has surplus supplies of LED keychain ;)

hey... those are putting me through university </3
dont you notice how dollar stores and corner stores are selling those like mad now? ;)

[guest10586]

ay man oh man! you guys are so narrow minded sometimse...
the reason why i wanted to buy her an Ipod is b/c she ALWAYS complains about her busted MD player... she listens to aLOT of music, and her favourite color is pink.
a pink ipod would address all those needs and thereofore be something very thoughtfull.

I ment it as a joke, I really don't care if you get anything or not. I don't know why gifts would solve any problems you might have. Its not like its her birthday or your aniversery. Quit being so clingy, she likes you for you, not for crap you buy her...if she did, would you want a girl like her?

[ronny1980]

if the girl is willing to have sex with you, then that is a good enough reason to give her an iPod. how much does a pink iPod cost?

wait for her to come back from her trip. she might end up buying a mp3 player in Asia (supposedly, better prices in Asia).

:confused: :confused:

Sex for an Ipod? Your making this sound like prostitution.

[15-20_God]

:confused: :confused:

Sex for an Ipod? Your making this sound like prostitution.

he can get her all the shuffles he wants but when she wants a 60gb she'll be thinking of 15-20_God

[UrbanPoet]

Everyone seems to be focusing on me buying her the ipod.
this sitations isnt about me buying big gifts for a possible gold digger. B/c it isnt like that... the ipod thing was only a redflag as to how deep i fell for her and how fast.
to sum it up... its mostly about
-me falling for her to quick and too fast.
-the possibility of us breakin up after the vacation b/c she will realize how fun it is to be single while shes out on vacation for a month.

It has nothing to do with money, or my inadequate ability of having a relationship which many on here claim. Essentially the situation is my fear to what will happen when she comes back. Where does this fear come from? the stupid stories my friends told me! And of course.. I admit this is the first time a girl has made me go crazy like this :-0

[ronny1980]

he can get her all the shuffles he wants but when she wants a 60gb she'll be thinking of 15-20_God

Everything you offer is either returned goods or refurbished.

[ronny1980]

Everyone seems to be focusing on me buying her the ipod.
this sitations isnt about me buying big gifts for a possible gold digger. B/c it isnt like that... the ipod thing was only a redflag as to how deep i fell for her and how fast.
to sum it up... its mostly about
-me falling for her to quick and too fast.
-the possibility of us breakin up after the vacation b/c she will realize how fun it is to be single while shes out on vacation for a month.

It has nothing to do with money, or my inadequate ability of having a relationship which many on here claim. Essentially the situation is my fear to what will happen when she comes back. Where does this fear come from? the stupid stories my friends told me! And of course.. I admit this is the first time a girl has made me go crazy like this :-0

Urban your just thinking too much. Theres no point worrying about this kind of stuff right? It wont change anything.

Wait til she comes back and treat her like she never left.

BTW let me be the first to say congrats for finding special someone you can really care/cherish/love for. :)

[grant]

if the girl is willing to have sex with you, then that is a good enough reason to give her an iPod. how much does a pink iPod cost?

Let's hope you're joking, the guy isn't dating a hooker.

[grant]

It has nothing to do with money, or my inadequate ability of having a relationship which many on here claim. Essentially the situation is my fear to what will happen when she comes back. Where does this fear come from? the stupid stories my friends told me! And of course.. I admit this is the first time a girl has made me go crazy like this :-0

The question i hope you've asked yourself is: "what can you do about it?"

I'm not a fatalist like some people here ("if it was meant to be ... blah blah" what a load of B.S.), but for the next month her feelings are totally out of your control.... so why fret about it?

How about you take this time to polish your "playa" skills and flirt with some women? That ought to keep your mind preoccupied.

[Killing Angel]

omg i'm in love too, hookme up with this girl! After she dumps you though, I don't want to be cutting anyone's grass. 905 527 1111 I work nights tossing pizza.

[furbaby]

I started going out with my bf two months before the summer, last year. Then I left for Asia for a month. I had loads of fun! He never once questioned about me breaking up with him. We're still together. :cheesygri I think if you're insecure about your charm on her, then it's really not worth your time nor hers. Besides that, my bf and I initially thought we had a lot of things in common, but turns out that we're actually really different people. We enjoy many things together, but don't quite think the same way. But that doesn't necessarily mean it's a bad thing. Sooo... well, if you think you're in love just because she likes the same things as ya, I don't think that's enough....
so bottom line is... your relationship just started. There's not that much to lose.....so......there's really nothing to worry about.

[grant]

They are willing to give you free sex. If you went to a hooker, it would cost about $50 - $200 per hour for sex.

You're insane. You sound like sex is a "service" like cleaning the bathroom. If that's your experience I recommend you examine & improve your technique so that girlfriends will actually want to have sex with you for its own sake!

Personally, I'd charge women for sex, but I'm not a wh@re. (well, they do buy me dinner etc. but it's not conditional).

[J1M]

Everyone seems to be focusing on me buying her the ipod.
this sitations isnt about me buying big gifts for a possible gold digger. B/c it isnt like that... the ipod thing was only a redflag as to how deep i fell for her and how fast.
to sum it up... its mostly about
-me falling for her to quick and too fast.
-the possibility of us breakin up after the vacation b/c she will realize how fun it is to be single while shes out on vacation for a month.

It has nothing to do with money, or my inadequate ability of having a relationship which many on here claim. Essentially the situation is my fear to what will happen when she comes back. Where does this fear come from? the stupid stories my friends told me! And of course.. I admit this is the first time a girl has made me go crazy like this :-0
I haven't read the whole thread, but I can tell you one thing for certain. Your desire to buy her an expensive gift is due to feeling she won't like you enough just the way you are and an attempt to prove that you will be able to shelter her from any rough periods financially because you have money to burn on something like that.

I know it doesn't make any logical sense, but if she really is 'too good for you' or 'not as interested as you are' buying her an extravagant present is going to make her think less of you, not more.

[Menace]

I would say so.

Pic please before we can tell you the truth.

This thread is useless without pictures of your gf...

[akito925]

she could pick up a guy where she is vacationing and spedning all taht time there now.. eh ?

[b166er1337]

I think sex is nasty and gross.

I wouldn't have sex with a guy for free.



LOL

I see. I pity your bf...
so after wedding, he has to buy you a gift prior to every sex?
:lol:

poor guy, lets hope he is related to Bill Gates

[UrbanPoet]

I think sex is nasty and gross.

I wouldn't have sex with a guy for free.

I'd wait for the engagement ring and the wedding ring (wedding night).

Girl giving guy free sex is being generous with her body and her spirit.

If you want to buy her an iPod, go ahead. Tell her that it's for her long trip.

She'll know that you really like her. Nothing wrong with that.

eek.. your gonna have some very unhealthy relationships

[wiggy]

I think sex is nasty and gross.

I wouldn't have sex with a guy for free.

I'd wait for the engagement ring and the wedding ring (wedding night).

Girl giving guy free sex is being generous with her body and her spirit.

If you want to buy her an iPod, go ahead. Tell her that it's for her long trip.

She'll know that you really like her. Nothing wrong with that.

You're gonna miss out on a lot with that point of view. And yer gonna cause some poor guy a lot of grief.

There should be warning labels or something ...

[UrbanPoet]

btw.. teh gift wasnt suppose to solve anything.
it isnt suppose to be a tool to make her love me.

I just.. Wanted to get it as a welcome back home gift, and thought itd be somethign she'd enjoy.

[angy]

:eek:


i still havent seen her

[guest10586]

btw.. teh gift wasnt suppose to solve anything.
it isnt suppose to be a tool to make her love me.

I just.. Wanted to get it as a welcome back home gift, and thought itd be somethign she'd enjoy.

A welcome back gift? *whip cracking*

Lets get real, if you went on vacation and your girlfriend bought you a gift when you got back, what would you think about her?

Imo though, the only reason people give gifts is because they feel guilty or it is a special occasion. I find gift giving to be suspicous otherwise. Its like a trojan horse...at least to me. Though guys do give gifts to their wifes if they are cheating so if you are, its time for a gift.

Hmmm...now that did I just write that to screw with you or help you? :lol: :cheesygri

I googled it for fun too...

http://www.google.ca/search?hl=en&q=husband+cheating+gift+giving&meta=

[J1M]

I just.. Wanted to get it as a welcome back home gift, and thought itd be somethign she'd enjoy.
You are in dire need of reading my post again.

[wiggy]

if the girl is willing to have sex with you, then that is a good enough reason to give her an iPod. how much does a pink iPod cost?

Hey, yer not the chick I saw wearing the "I'll put out for an I-pod" t-shirt, are ya?

Shallow.

[JohnB]

Quote:
Originally Posted by UrbanPoet
I just.. Wanted to get it as a welcome back home gift, and thought itd be somethign she'd enjoy.

So it would be pretty awkward if she brings you home a 50cent postcard that she got on the plane for free.

It has to be reciprocal, you know that. You cant really win people over with gifts. At least not Ipods. Maybe a car or something.

But its up to you - you know your situation better than anyone here.

[nfnx]

hey man is her name amy? cause if it is, then thats my gf too!


hehe jokes. anyways, dont let it get to u, often times when that happens and u talk to ehr ur gonan sound so desperate or whatever that shell think of leaving u. if ur calm when u talk to her and are supportive, shell think she has this cool bf by her side naw mean? and the thought of breakin up wont even come across her mind...


on the other hadn if she does leave u, dont elt it get to u... thats the stuff that hurts the most... when u love someone and u kno u cant have them.
i broke up with my first girl a while back cause i thoguht every girl was like that, but hten i realized she was special and i ****ed it up... now i live with that the rest of my life... and im still depressed til this day... although ive been in and out of 2 long term relationships since...and a bunch of little timers in between....

[KennethToronto]

I think sex is nasty and gross.

I wouldn't have sex with a guy for free.

I'd wait for the engagement ring and the wedding ring (wedding night).

Girl giving guy free sex is being generous with her body and her spirit.

If you want to buy her an iPod, go ahead. Tell her that it's for her long trip.

She'll know that you really like her. Nothing wrong with that.


Holy smokes. I'm glad I don't know any girls like that (I HOPE!)

[sporb]

My friends got me freaked out.
My gf is gone on vacation to Asia w/her family for 1 month.
Me and her known each other for a few months and been officially dating for 1 month. Shes been gone since august 1st and will come back on the 31st.

My friends noticed that I been really falling for her. I talk about her alot and im even considering buying her a big ticket present when she comes back, AN IPOD even tho its only been 1 month! they were telling me stories of how whenever a couple has 1 person gone on a long vacation, they break up after the person comes back. I guess this is because the time they are seperated, they realize how easy they can live with out their bf/gf and how fun life can be single.

I was always known as the playa type by my friends too. I go through girls like nothigng, and they gotten worried b/c i fell for this girl so quick after 1 month. This got me realizing DAMN i did fall for this girl FAST. I actually stopped my playa ways just for her... settling down you know.

Another thing that got me thinking is ive never been heart broken... I always broke up with the girl. And the only time girls have left me was in my younger days when you pull off that 'I dont wanna break up with her so ill make her break up with me' trick. Thats why im thinking this is where my streak ends... Im going to be heart broken! AH!! what do i do?

yo playa!

what do you do? nothing... be heartbroken (if it comes to that).

it's obvious you don't want to lose her, and your fear of being 'heart broken' could be the reason you lose her. don't fear your relationship ending. if in the end your relationship does end, deal with it. being heartbroken it's not a big deal, and in the future you'll look back and laugh.

look at the comments on here, we're all laughing about it right now.

[Mr. Robo]

btw.. teh gift wasnt suppose to solve anything.
it isnt suppose to be a tool to make her love me.

I just.. Wanted to get it as a welcome back home gift, and thought itd be somethign she'd enjoy.

Then give her some flowers. It'll be less expensive.
If you bought her an IPOD and the relationship doesn't work out in the long run than you'll probably look back and regret that you gave her expensive gifts.
Man, if she loves you and wants to be with you then there's no amount of material things you can give her that is more important than your presence and thoughts.

[J1M]

Unless she is a ***** a big hug will suffice. I'm not saying that because it is cheap, I'm saying it because it is right.

[J1M]

I think sex is nasty and gross.

I wouldn't have sex with a guy for free.

I'd wait for the engagement ring and the wedding ring (wedding night).

Girl giving guy free sex is being generous with her body and her spirit.

If you want to buy her an iPod, go ahead. Tell her that it's for her long trip.

She'll know that you really like her. Nothing wrong with that.
I have a feeling that you are going to cling so hard to the guy who shows you what an orgasm is so hard that if there is a breakup at least one of you is not going to survive it.

[Absolute]

Holy smokes. I'm glad I don't know any girls like that (I HOPE!)
I know only one, but she's just a friend. Suffice to say any girls I've gone out with don't have that policy :)

[ronny1980]

Definition of a prostitute: A person who allowed the use of his or her body for sexual relations in exchange for compensation.

I think sex is nasty and gross.

I wouldn't have sex with a guy for free.

I'd wait for the engagement ring and the wedding ring (wedding night).

Girl giving guy free sex is being generous with her body and her spirit.

If you want to buy her an iPod, go ahead. Tell her that it's for her long trip.

She'll know that you really like her. Nothing wrong with that.

Need I say more.

Dont anyone tell me this is a personal attack. Shes basically calling herself one.

[Absolute]

Definition of a prostitute: A person who allowed the use of his or her body for sexual relations in exchange for compensation.
Ouch, harsh!

[ronny1980]

Ouch, harsh!

Dont shoot the messenger :) Definition found on google

[UrbanPoet]

Weird.... People seem to be having a veyy large emphasis on the ipod. The problem im having here is my fear of her drifting away and breaking up with me when she comes back from the vacation.

The ipod was by no means a way of my making her love me more. I thought about getting her the ipod before i ever had the thought that she might break up with me. Me buying her an ipod was a red flag to my friends that i was going too out of my way for a girl that i was only with for a month.

Anyways, ive come to a conclusion that im just over reacting and that i must face whatever comes @ me. After all she did choose to be with me and stayed with me happily for a month. So that has to say something.

Last night she was able to get to a cyber cafe and we did get to talk on MSN. I know this might seem immature... But i kinda waited to see if she would message me first. I timed how long it would take and she messaged me, and it only took her 1 minute to message me. She told me how much she missed me <3 :cheesygri . She told me she was having a blast but she cant waits till she gets back to see me :lol: . So i guess semi-happy ending?
we'll only find out for sure on the 31st :-0

[ronny1980]

She said she missed you!!!

That means you need to buy her a Gucci Purse!

[UrbanPoet]

She said she missed you!!!

That means you need to buy her a Gucci Purse!

hahaha Man.. you guys wanna know something funny?
I actually did give her LED keychains -_-
She said she needed something because in the philipines in her particular area, there arent that many street lights except in the City.
so i gave her some LEDs -_-

she said they would keep her company until she comes back :-0

[ronny1980]

hahaha Man.. you guys wanna know something funny?
I actually did give her LED keychains -_-
She said she needed something because in the philipines in her particular area, there arent that many street lights except in the City.
so i gave her some LEDs -_-

she said they would keep her company until she comes back :-0

awww....that is soooo cute.

soooo romantic

[grant]

You say WE are obsessing over the ipod? What do you think the g/f is going to do? Women notice EVERY SMALL DETAIL.... and an ipod is a BIG detail.

If i were in your place I'd arrange a romantic evening as a "welcome home" gift... something you'd both enjoy, not just her.

But I'm notoriously cheap when it comes to women. It's an excellent method to repel prostitutes like keanefan.

[Puff]

Speaking of which... DON'T BUY HER AN IPOD!!!!

Worst present.....
She'd probably get superpissed and think "you're such a bastard. Why didn't you buy this for me BEFORE I went on vacation!"

[furbaby]

Speaking of which... DON'T BUY HER AN IPOD!!!!

Worst present.....
She'd probably get superpissed and think "you're such a bastard. Why didn't you buy this for me BEFORE I went on vacation!"

ya ya... dont' buy her an ipod. She probably needs a nice set of earphones more than the ipod. In fact, these ones are nice...*drool* (http://www.shurestore.com/earphones/eseries_e5c.html)

[fq007]

ipod only after 1 month? instead buy her something nice and cheap...get like a necklace and a heart pendant for 50-60 bucks :P lol

[UrbanPoet]

haha wow.... After she got back from her vacation.. we had a talk. and we broke up :| it was quite heart breaking at first... but then it made me realize what a ***** she was after talking to her.....

I saw it coming... after getting over my stupid 'im so in love stage'
Thanks RFD! I didnt buy her the Ipod. I actually didnt buy her anything. :lol:
At least during her vacation... I was able to hook up with these 2 finneeee ass hunnies.

both of them are really girly, and door matty... :razz: Not so much free spirited like the one i just broke up with. oh yeh.. another plus is one is really wild too ;)
But i learned a valuable lesson... Always look for those flaws thatd be piss you off... When you somehow fallen in so deep, make sure your judgement isnt clouded into making you think she is perfect. **** always happens

But as far as the post break up? Me and 1 of the girls are watching a movie tomorrow night.
"40 year old virgin" should be good for a few laughs :lol: Itll help me relax and get over things too... And of course the weekend. probably gonna go pubbign with some mates.
Im trying my best to get over it.. and i realize how stupid it was just now, so it is making it ALOT easier. PLus i got stuff to do on the weekend and an Awesome job to go to work too.

oh yeh... and the reason why?
She asid she wanted to be single again... her last bf was for 2 yrs and she never really had time to be single. so that was her excuse. Quite selfish if u ask me! and no... none of those 'shes messin with some other guy' jokes... I believe she really does need the single time. B/c her last serious bf really tied her down badly for a few years...

but all in all, a great expirience that i learned alot from.
My first heart break.








I hope she isnt reading this... b/c im pouring myself onto these forums like a blog.

[devious9191]

haha wow.... After she got back from her vacation.. we had a talk. and we broke up :| it was quite heart breaking at first... but then it made me realize what a ***** she was after talking to her.....

I saw it coming... after getting over my stupid 'im so in love stage'
Thanks RFD! I didnt buy her the Ipod. I actually didnt buy her anything. :lol:
At least during her vacation... I was able to hook up with these 2 finneeee ass hunnies.

both of them are really girly, and door matty... :razz: Not so much free spirited like the one i just broke up with. oh yeh.. another plus is one is really wild too ;)
But i learned a valuable lesson... Always look for those flaws thatd be piss you off... When you somehow fallen in so deep, make sure your judgement isnt clouded into making you think she is perfect. **** always happens

But as far as the post break up? Me and 1 of the girls are watching a movie tomorrow night.
"40 year old virgin" should be good for a few laughs :lol: Itll help me relax and get over things too... And of course the weekend. probably gonna go pubbign with some mates.
Im trying my best to get over it.. and i realize how stupid it was just now, so it is making it ALOT easier. PLus i got stuff to do on the weekend and an Awesome job to go to work too.

oh yeh... and the reason why?
She asid she wanted to be single again... her last bf was for 2 yrs and she never really had time to be single. so that was her excuse. Quite selfish if u ask me! and no... none of those 'shes messin with some other guy' jokes... I believe she really does need the single time. B/c her last serious bf really tied her down badly for a few years...

but all in all, a great expirience that i learned alot from.
My first heart break.








I hope she isnt reading this... b/c im pouring myself onto these forums like a blog.

lol. How exactly is it a 'heartbreak', if you're sleeping around on her when she's out of town? I'm not sure what you expected when she got back to town after that.. but it sounds like you got off easy.

[Yaowsers]

I don' tthink he's sleeping around with anyone. Good for you Urban. You're better off without her anyways. Just remember to take your time with things.

[devious9191]

I don' tthink he's sleeping around with anyone. Good for you Urban. You're better off without her anyways. Just remember to take your time with things.

?

At least during her vacation... I was able to hook up with these 2 finneeee ass hunnies.

both of them are really girly, and door matty... Not so much free spirited like the one i just broke up with. oh yeh.. another plus is one is really wild too

[danfromwaterloo]

haha wow.... After she got back from her vacation.. we had a talk. and we broke up :| it was quite heart breaking at first... but then it made me realize what a ***** she was after talking to her.....

I saw it coming... after getting over my stupid 'im so in love stage'
Thanks RFD! I didnt buy her the Ipod. I actually didnt buy her anything. :lol:
At least during her vacation... I was able to hook up with these 2 finneeee ass hunnies.

both of them are really girly, and door matty... :razz: Not so much free spirited like the one i just broke up with. oh yeh.. another plus is one is really wild too ;)
But i learned a valuable lesson... Always look for those flaws thatd be piss you off... When you somehow fallen in so deep, make sure your judgement isnt clouded into making you think she is perfect. **** always happens

But as far as the post break up? Me and 1 of the girls are watching a movie tomorrow night.
"40 year old virgin" should be good for a few laughs :lol: Itll help me relax and get over things too... And of course the weekend. probably gonna go pubbign with some mates.
Im trying my best to get over it.. and i realize how stupid it was just now, so it is making it ALOT easier. PLus i got stuff to do on the weekend and an Awesome job to go to work too.

oh yeh... and the reason why?
She asid she wanted to be single again... her last bf was for 2 yrs and she never really had time to be single. so that was her excuse. Quite selfish if u ask me! and no... none of those 'shes messin with some other guy' jokes... I believe she really does need the single time. B/c her last serious bf really tied her down badly for a few years...

but all in all, a great expirience that i learned alot from.
My first heart break.



Whoa man. You were afraid she'd dump you while she was away, so you went out and slept around on her? What the hell?

If you gave a damn about her, you'd have waited until she got back. Then seen what's up. Once you guys break up, then you're on the market. Not the other way around.





I hope she isnt reading this... b/c im pouring myself onto these forums like a blog.[/QUOTE]

[thelefteyeguy]

haha wow.... After she got back from her vacation.. we had a talk. and we broke up :| it was quite heart breaking at first... but then it made me realize what a ***** she was after talking to her.....

I saw it coming... after getting over my stupid 'im so in love stage'
Thanks RFD! I didnt buy her the Ipod. I actually didnt buy her anything. :lol:
At least during her vacation... I was able to hook up with these 2 finneeee ass hunnies.

both of them are really girly, and door matty... :razz: Not so much free spirited like the one i just broke up with. oh yeh.. another plus is one is really wild too ;)
But i learned a valuable lesson... Always look for those flaws thatd be piss you off... When you somehow fallen in so deep, make sure your judgement isnt clouded into making you think she is perfect. **** always happens

But as far as the post break up? Me and 1 of the girls are watching a movie tomorrow night.
"40 year old virgin" should be good for a few laughs :lol: Itll help me relax and get over things too... And of course the weekend. probably gonna go pubbign with some mates.
Im trying my best to get over it.. and i realize how stupid it was just now, so it is making it ALOT easier. PLus i got stuff to do on the weekend and an Awesome job to go to work too.

oh yeh... and the reason why?
She asid she wanted to be single again... her last bf was for 2 yrs and she never really had time to be single. so that was her excuse. Quite selfish if u ask me! and no... none of those 'shes messin with some other guy' jokes... I believe she really does need the single time. B/c her last serious bf really tied her down badly for a few years...

but all in all, a great expirience that i learned alot from.
My first heart break.








I hope she isnt reading this... b/c im pouring myself onto these forums like a blog.


thumbs down :mad:
Will not respond to anymore UrbanPoet's post...waste my time giving advice :lol:

[drucillica]

thumbs down :mad:
Will not respond to anymore UrbanPoet's post...waste my time giving advice :lol:

agreed!

While his girl was in vacation he was crying like a little girl after her, but now she's back and they broke up, he's acting like tough *****. can't really expect much - he's a self-proclaimed "playah" and all.

I don't understand how you have the nerve to call this a "hearbreak" while you were screwing around behind her back with uh..... "2 finneeee ass hunnies". You're un-freakin-believable!

Grow up.

[CodecX81]

In a nutshell

"Oh man guys I'm so sad, I don't trust my girlfriend cuz she's so far away, help me help me, I don't know what to do?"

Translates to:

"Oh man I'm so pissed that my girl might go and slut around like I am doing to her while she's away. I'm cool, so cool in fact that I proclaim myself a 'Playa' "

.. door matty? You deserve to have your wang doused in pepper spray for this thread!

[McLaren]

What does door matty mean? Damn you urbanpoet and your ghetto slang.

Anyways... all that sleeping around with strangers... watch out when you go urinate and it feels like burning... or worse you get a case of genital herpes.

[CodecX81]

What does door matty mean?

doormat

A form of girl in which the girl exchanges her loose grip on reality for a tight grip on a pair of nuts. The resulting effect being that without any concept of reality, dignity, or self-confidence, she is walked all over by the guy and those around her who are disgusted by her nuthugging.

Yea. Sounds like the perfect type of girl..

*cough*

[deep]

Well, today is the first time I read any part of this thread, and I made it all the way through for the update and ending.

I like the plot twist where you realise that the protagonist of the story is actually a stupid wanker. It's not often a book makes me want to beat the main characted senseless.

2 thumbs up.

[CodecX81]

I like the plot twist where you realise that the protagonist of the story is actually a stupid wanker.

And 5 stars for properly introducing and using the title "wanker" to UrbanPoet

You made me laugh, have a cookie.

[tescosamoa]

ahhh man... I read the first page and then jumped to the end.... Can you folks put a spolier on your posts .... :D

[ronny1980]

HAHA!

Good for HER! She could do so much better.

You gave her some cheap LED keychains!
Of course, she's going to be TURNED OFF by your cheapness.

If you had given her an iPod, she would still be WITH you because she'll think that you are a special guy who treats her like a princess. The people in the Philippines probably laughed at her when she told them that her boyfriend gave her the cheap LED keychain. They laughed in her face ("THAT'S ALL YOUR BOYFRIEND GAVE YOU!" and she cried in shame.

You amaze me you know.

You make dating seem like nothing more than a transaction.

I feel sorry for your significant other if you have one.

[HughG]

another urbanpoet post.

[artemm]

rofl, one of funniest threads on RFD. good job... :lol:

next time - to avoid too much public ridicule - start a blog, then just link us to it.

... oh yea, and keanefan.. RAPED! :lol:

[15-20_God]

what she says = I want to be single again, I need time to be single
what she means = I've found someone better, you're too needy and clingy

what you said = i was able to hook up with these 2 fine assss hunnies
what we know you mean = I alternated hands on the weekend

the best "playah's" are the ones that call themself that.

play on "playah"!

[guest10586]

Getting burned left and right...oh well, sorry to hear...though it seemed like you made it a self fullfilling prophecy.

The iPod wouldn't have saved it, only delayed it if anything. Good Luck.

[krash322]

Where can you find fine-assed honeys that are doormats? I want some :|

[jayisthebest88]

chigga chigga chiGGGAAA!

[UrbanPoet]

u guys take it the wrong way...
I only made friends with these girls. I never did anything unappropiate with them. Talked and exchanged phone numbers @ a social gathering. and gyrated to music in a respectful way that is quite acceptable in that environment.

I admit. I do cry. I am a sensitive person. and i recognize i let some feelings make me irrational.

and whats with this cynical attitude?
im only trying to provide intimate details of my life into my RFD blog.

[b166er1337]

oh yeh... and the reason why?
She asid she wanted to be single again... her last bf was for 2 yrs and she never really had time to be single. so that was her excuse. Quite selfish if u ask me! and no... none of those 'shes messin with some other guy' jokes... I believe she really does need the single time. B/c her last serious bf really tied her down badly for a few years...





You are a massive wanker :D

u guys take it the wrong way...
I only made friends with these girls. I never did anything unappropiate with them. Talked and exchanged phone numbers @ a social gathering. and gyrated to music in a respectful way that is quite acceptable in that environment.


That's it?
Not even touching?

Okay, you are a NICE guy, urbanpoet.

[b166er1337]

HAHA!

Good for HER! She could do so much better.

You gave her some cheap LED keychains!
Of course, she's going to be TURNED OFF by your cheapness.

If you had given her an iPod, she would still be WITH you because she'll think that you are a special guy who treats her like a princess. The people in the Philippines probably laughed at her when she told them that her boyfriend gave her the cheap LED keychain. They laughed in her face ("THAT'S ALL YOUR BOYFRIEND GAVE YOU!" and she cried in shame.

Hey keanefan.
I have a $200 keychain and i wanna give it to you. I will treat you like a princess. Lets have a date next weekend :lol: I will definately kiss up to your ass all the time and give you countless complements. Afterall, it's what a princess deserve.
Sounds good???

Oh, and what type of jewlwey do you want for our first date?

:cheesygri

[guest10586]

HAHA!

Good for HER! She could do so much better.

You gave her some cheap LED keychains!
Of course, she's going to be TURNED OFF by your cheapness.

If you had given her an iPod, she would still be WITH you because she'll think that you are a special guy who treats her like a princess. The people in the Philippines probably laughed at her when she told them that her boyfriend gave her the cheap LED keychain. They laughed in her face ("THAT'S ALL YOUR BOYFRIEND GAVE YOU!" and she cried in shame.

Getting burned by the person who's post mostly consists of voting for some girl on American Idol...I love RFD. :twisted:

[Rogue_77]

Getting burned by the person who's post mostly consists of voting for some girl on American Idol...I love RFD. :twisted:


Wow, that's a pretty bad burn then.

COOL

[fakishan]

Where can you find fine-assed honeys that are doormats? I want some :|

The majority of girls are like that, you just need to ask "the right way" for that particular girl. They want "it" was bad as you do.

[krash322]

what is the 'right way'? do u just beg with a $20 bill in your mouth? :twisted:

[Keelie]

just got out of a 2 year relationship and doesnt want to be tied down again so soon?
haha, you really believe that one? how about, you were only a fling and since realizing how serious you are, i better break it off before if goes further!

[grant]

Of course, she's going to be TURNED OFF by your cheapness.

Ok let's just cut to the chase here, keanefan:

exactly how much does it cost to have sex with you?

[wanted]

Ok let's just cut to the chase here, keanefan:

exactly how much does it cost to have sex with you?

he wants cut to the chase
how much money do you place
to have sex

[me!]

:arrowu: okay , mental picture here keanefan and grant having sex.

hope one (if not both of you), are female. otherwise, ugghhhhhhh shivvver...

[wanted]

:arrowu: okay , mental picture here keanefan and grant having sex.

hope one (if not both of you), are female. otherwise, ugghhhhhhh shivvver...

he has a bad dream
something very extreme
two men having sex
it wasnt the best
otherwise, he detests

[Bordello]

he has a bad dream
something very extreme
two men having sex
it wasnt the best
otherwise, he detests
Does anyone find this clown funny?

[deep]

About as funny as colorectal cancer.






Oh wait, I know a joke about that, so, no. Less funny than colorectal cancer.

[UrbanPoet]

Right now... I kinda dont really care. I feel ****** that i dont have a gf right now, but i realized she wasnt the one for me.

your right Keelie, simply translated thats what it means. I felt ****** in the morning b/c i pulled an all nighter and had to work an 7am-3pm.

[grant]

Isn't it sometimes tough being a playa'?